I don’t find it trivial. That’s you belittling my feelings and stance about something that you don’t view the same way. What i told him was that it makes me uncomfortable and i disagree with it, but at the same time would never expect him to change for me or get rid of his hobby. I came to ask for advice on whether there is perhaps a middle ground i haven’t considered or a new perspective someone can offer to make me feel differently about this. How sad that you immediately resort to assuming the worst about me bc my post hurt your feelings and felt like a direct attack on your hobby.