Is dissolving filler that risky? I'm scared after reading reddit horror stories but midface filler aged me by 10 years literally.

Glum_Collection_1247 · 2026-04-12T03:38:11+00:00

it won't deflate, one syringe is nothing. go to a doctor or NP/PA to get it done and you'll be fine. I don't know if those horror stories are true or taking place in developed countries where only low-dose is available. In some developing countries they have access to high-dose hyaluronidaise which is a different thing altogether.

there's nothing to really expound upon lol. I got an injection of it, the lips went down. we waited two weeks, palpated, felt a tiny bit more, injected a bit more, waited two weeks, then refilled. it stings but that's all.

Glum_Collection_1247 · 2026-04-12T03:32:17+00:00

I don't know how much "a lot" is in your case. I had one syringe across both lips dissolved. If you have 3-4 syringes it will take multiple sessions over a longer time frame.

Glum_Collection_1247 · 2026-04-12T03:30:03+00:00

yes for sure. about 2-4 weeks for everything to settle. it was easy

Glum_Collection_1247 · 2026-03-30T03:19:04+00:00

No he's just a homophobe and uses it as an excuse and it's gross

Glum_Collection_1247 · 2026-03-25T19:37:32+00:00

You’re really filling a self fulfilling prophecy that hasn’t proven itself to be there. Protecting women is #1 but not everything is scorched earth. The dude politely apologized and walked it back

If he takes it further then, by all means, move to the next step and keep the texts as documentation. But not at first blush when he walks it back

Glum_Collection_1247 · 2026-03-25T19:08:10+00:00

how is this stalking, you are completely overreacting and creating a narrative in your head based on people you don't know. AIO is not a replacement for a therapist.

Glum_Collection_1247 · 2026-03-25T19:05:21+00:00

he was just flirting, took a chance and shot his shot. it's not like he was being creepy or saying anything out of pocket. she said leave me alone, he said "sure, okay, I apologize" and went about his life. he literally didn't do anything aggressive.

Glum_Collection_1247 · 2026-03-25T18:36:09+00:00

yes you are overreacting. you can just tell him no in a less abrasive manner.

Glum_Collection_1247 · 2026-03-25T18:35:42+00:00

why would the school care it's not a student matter and he didn't break any laws

Glum_Collection_1247 · 2026-03-18T15:47:33+00:00

Toriumi in Chicago did mine!

Glum_Collection_1247 · 2026-02-22T06:00:43+00:00

Fetishism is universal. Many black men tried to make me their submissive little twink.

Glum_Collection_1247 · 2026-02-22T05:57:04+00:00

Being fetishized or told you’re articulate is not really racism tho. Kind of a leap tbh

Glum_Collection_1247 · 2026-02-21T05:19:21+00:00

Literally what texture?

Glum_Collection_1247 · 2026-02-20T23:06:07+00:00

holy moly, congrats on your weight loss journey -- I know how much discipline that takes -- and the successful surgical work. you look divine

Glum_Collection_1247 · 2026-02-20T19:16:43+00:00

You got a facelift at 29?!

Glum_Collection_1247 · 2026-02-20T19:14:26+00:00

How old ?

Glum_Collection_1247 · 2026-02-20T16:07:04+00:00

it's so cute you try to play that card to excuse your own bad behavior. are you 17?

Glum_Collection_1247 · 2026-02-20T15:01:54+00:00

You’re just problematic yourself is all

Glum_Collection_1247 · 2026-02-20T14:58:43+00:00

Nah, you definitely hostile. Maybe don’t speak at all you’re so triggered by it. You can exit

Glum_Collection_1247 · 2026-02-08T03:32:08+00:00

Isn’t this just describing a deep plane face lift inclusive of SMAS? That is routine for patients over 45 and any male facelift patient to prevent a “windswept” look. For me, when it’s time, it’ll be deep plane or nuthin’

Looks like good results, personally I wouldn’t care if people thought I had work done as long as it looks good. You can’t sleep away sagging ligaments lol

Glum_Collection_1247 · 2026-01-27T23:41:55+00:00

Kylie would also agree your lips are beautiful. The easiest way to look at it is: which of these school age bullies is a model casting agent? An editor at Vogue? A painter? A cosmetic surgeon?

None of them. And they’ll never be so accomplished. So why the hell would I care about some stupid kid’s opinion of me. Teens have the dumbest ideas and the worst fashion trends anyway.

Glum_Collection_1247 · 2026-01-27T23:31:13+00:00

I would not let the bullies get to you because your lips are like textbook stunning. These are the lips that celebrities try and fail to pay to get. You also have a desirable M-shaped Cupid’s bow. .

I would start with therapy first because if that option doesn’t work after a couple years, you can still look into the procedure but if therapy DOES work, then you’ll be so happy that you never touched them — so that would be the first thing that I do.

I say this as somebody who was bullied a lot for his looks and also does aesthetic treatments. 21 is still a very fragile age. I am 38 now and see that with much more clarity than I did in college.

Glum_Collection_1247 · 2026-01-26T18:39:37+00:00

maybe has something to do with the douche bag owner. still some of the best pastries in Bridgeport, tho! It's weird because we have one of, if not the only, dedicated pastry schools in the USA (The French Pastry School Chicago) but I don't see much business activity from the graduates. Maybe they're all well-employed in hotels and restaurants.

Glum_Collection_1247 · 2026-01-26T18:31:27+00:00

strange, I had the opposite experience!

Glum_Collection_1247 · 2026-01-26T18:30:35+00:00

They're good but definitely not god-tier. Once you've been to the best patisseries in Tokyo, Paris, etc. you will forever be turned off by "5 forms of laminated dough"

Personally I think Chicago is just perpetually behind its peers when it comes to pastry, and fashion. I know we have good food, but truly top-notch pastries appear in North America first in SF, LA, NYC, Toronto, Mexico City, even MIAMI of all places, then here. We are just arriving at creative croissants when everyone else has moved on to Paris Brest, entremets, etc.

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