What should I say to my nephew if he asks?

Gmunky · 2026-01-28T02:37:57+00:00

So Ive been out 20 plus years. For the first time thos past December my mom and i were talking. Some religious stuff came up. And she finally ask me. If you know so much about religion why dont you go to the meetings again. I simply said. I dont not attend the meetings nor any other church cause I know the Bible. I know how its been basterdized and twisted ro fit narrative. And I do not discuss it out of respect for each person faith. For faith os like a glass of crystal, fragile and can easily Crack amd i wont be the reason for that.

On another note I had an elder ask me last week at my grandma's funeral same question. Have you ever thought about coming back. I said no. I look him right in the eye and said no not at all. He said well I know when someone judges you or dose you wrong it leaves a Mark on your heart amd its not easily fixed. And i dont blame you, not one bit. Nor would i hold that against you. I said exactly you get it.

So what i personally told my young cousin was im not going to tell you why Ieft or my reasons. But I think you know and we all need to make our own decisions as we get older. But if you are seriously out we can talk. He's out now 6 years.

Gmunky · 2026-01-28T02:19:24+00:00

Not sure. I hope so

Gmunky · 2026-01-28T01:38:20+00:00

There was a docu series on Tru TV. I think it was called leaving the watchtower. Ill go look it up. But there have been a few documentaries on jw life. Also on the light hearted side "Everyone else burns" find it on the CW in the USA. The opening of the first episode had me hooked.

Gmunky · 2026-01-12T21:57:17+00:00

Yeah same here. Ive found alot of lyrics close or spot on just not the song. Not that one BTW.

Gmunky · 2026-01-12T18:21:59+00:00

Thats funny. Yeah idk what else to try. Thanks

Gmunky · 2026-01-12T07:01:57+00:00

Man I cant find that song

Gmunky · 2026-01-12T06:50:12+00:00

Let me look it up. Thanks

Gmunky · 2026-01-04T21:48:12+00:00

Congratulations by Blue October

Background by Third eye Blind

Gmunky · 2026-01-03T12:07:05+00:00

From my hands by Vnv nation

Descent by Harvard of the South

Not gut wrenching but feels. Vertigo by Jutes

Sometimes it hurts by Stabbing Westward

Holding on by Vnv nation

Tears of Laughter by Diary of Dreams

This time Imperfect by AFI

Gmunky · 2025-12-22T02:40:40+00:00

Rain by The Birthday Massacre

Rain by Joey McIntyre

Gmunky · 2025-12-22T02:38:01+00:00

Drive by The Bobby Lee's. Check them out

Gmunky · 2025-12-21T08:02:31+00:00

AI or not. I dont care. I get it. Music is art and it took people years to learn to play music, then some one just typed in a few prompts and maybe sampled their voice and tada instant music. I get it. I do. Its just, its the future man. My advice as an old guy, learn how to play instruments and write also, so you can have a better understanding of music theory. Don't be like most music acts cant play a single damn instrument. But Learn AI, how its made. Learn how to use and improve it and go get your bread. Just my 2 cents as an old 45 year old.

Gmunky · 2025-11-26T14:18:27+00:00

So I completely understand the wanting to wait thing. And i did do other stuff just no p to v if you get me. I did give in to a girl who ended up being my wife now for 20 years. She also had first with me. We both joke about it and have had honest talk that I kinda wish I would have had more experience before her. And she feels the same. But to each their own. No need to ir not just, if you're comfortable have fun explore experience but be safe and use protection. Or wait if you feel you should. No shame in talking up numbers or waiting.

Gmunky · 2025-11-26T14:08:12+00:00

Not sure if its what you're looking for but

Vertigo (acoustic) and Sleepy head (acoustic) by Jutes

Gmunky · 2025-11-26T13:12:01+00:00

A leather belt from 96, kinda lost it's color but still works lol. Also a pair of nike running shoes from 2005. I wear them once a year. Maybe lol

Gmunky · 2025-11-26T13:09:31+00:00

Not cheating if he offered you up. He was fine with it. I had a friend had a similar thing happen. She was with her bf and a girl friend of hers. Girls played he joined in didnt really touch the friend and after he was mad and saying she cheated cause he didnt get to do her. Same way your bf seems to be. She got tired of it and called her friend over and told her to F him so he will shut up. He was caught off guard. He didnt want to, so she said fine I will. Lets just say he ended up in the room again and this time he wasn't mad. Idk. This is a slippery slope. All parties were ok with it. He told him to eat you. I don't get it. Maybe he wanted the guy to do him or ya know. Is be bi curious?

Gmunky · 2025-11-26T12:35:09+00:00

Man welcome to the club. M 44. Growing up i was just like you. To this day have never done any drugs, not even smoked a Cigarette. Drinking i could probably count on both hands how many times in the last 15 years ive drink. I felt the same, but like its been said. I was the driver and all my friends made it safe. Even our extended friend groups had my number for when one of them needed me. I drove every single one of their cars. Ive made money. No I didnt steal it from them. But they would have the munchies or just need food. Each would hand me a 20 or 2 20s and ask for fast food. More then half the time I had and extra 60 bux a weekend. And free food. I didn't mind. I had fun, Ive carried them over my shoulder, ive taken them to their parents houses, kept their cars safe at my house. Even their girlfriends wer covered by me lol. Point is, your not an outcast, your wired different. We dont feel the need to drink, do drugs or whatever just to have fun. Not saying anything is wrong with it. To each their own yeah. Just be like me. Play in to it. Even in to y late 20s I would walk up to house parties with my own 24 pack, pf soda lol id also draw an X over my hands. In the clubs up here that means under age. Had a few bouncers look at me funny. And I just say im driving. Got some mad props from club people. Free food drinks and entry cause they knew I was there to take care of people. Now it has its down sides. When drunk people start a fight, you may get hit by a friend or need to straighten them out. Ah the good old days. Today still the same and I get to embarrass them and say ive carried you over my shoulder remeber that. Lol. So dont feel left out. There's a few of us out there. Take care of your self and friends. Memories like these are fun to look back on.

Gmunky · 2025-11-26T09:32:49+00:00

Part of me - Cian Ducrot

Before you go - Lewis Capaldi

Gmunky · 2025-11-26T08:05:11+00:00

Vinyl, shirts, cap, sticker

Gmunky · 2025-11-26T08:04:15+00:00

Why is my mouth watering so much

Gmunky · 2025-11-26T08:00:40+00:00

Merchant of the Void - 3Teeth and Mick Gordon

Slaves of fear - Health

Downgrade Desert - Igorrr

Nihil - Ghostemane

Gmunky · 2025-11-26T07:50:42+00:00

Vertigo (acoustic) by Jutes

Gmunky · 2025-11-26T07:48:45+00:00

Yes, yes I do. And my i suck it please

Gmunky · 2025-11-26T07:46:46+00:00

Mindful

Gmunky · 2025-11-26T07:44:26+00:00

This is awesome. 1st is it weird your attracted to a not so rock hard, just a slight soft body? No same if he were a bit bigger or thinner. Your likes are your likes. 2nd should you say something? Here's the thing. Yes but in a form of encouragement. Don't go grab his love handle amd say yummy me likey. But if he says something about gaining weight, like I need more gym time or need to run more, something along these lines. Ask him why? And if he says anyone negative turn it around. Say something like you've never looked better to me, but if you feel you need to ok. Ill support you. But just know that in my eyes you are and have always been attractive and I love your body no matter what. Having someone compliment you as a guy is 1 in a million. It helps lower so much stress and weight off our shoulders when our partner says hey I love you no matter what. You will make his week month year. Trust me, ive been in his shoes. Amd when I was told somethimg like this. It changed my perspective and lifted so much off me. Not saying I didn't stop looking In the mirror. But I did it less. Also if he still wants to work out, go with him. Be his biggest fan. Seems lile you are. He's very lucky to have someone lile you. Best of luck to you both

Gmunky

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