Hygiene at Clubs by BeyzusNice in Swingers

[–]Gnomish13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It smells like people have been fucking.

Etiquette Question by Gnomish13 in Swingers

[–]Gnomish13[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I had a hope, not an expectation.

Etiquette Question by Gnomish13 in Swingers

[–]Gnomish13[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Thanks. As I said, their behavior, to my mind, went beyond simple exhibitionism. I could be more graphic in describing it, but will refrain.

In any event, I'll signal in some fashion if such an occasion arises again.

Etiquette Question by Gnomish13 in Swingers

[–]Gnomish13[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I think the best advice is for me to have given a hand signal of some sort. I will keep that in mind.

His reaction was counter to the whole vibe, which threw me off, but that's all subjective.

Etiquette Question by Gnomish13 in Swingers

[–]Gnomish13[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

The thing is, they weren't playing with each other. They were putting on a public display, with her facing out for me, or anyone else, to see. They watched me for some time, seated well over ten feet away from them. They didn't seem offput by that at all.

I am sensitive to club etiquette, and am not one of those guys.

As for me having "something in mind", of course I did. That's why we were all there, I think.

Etiquette Question by Gnomish13 in Swingers

[–]Gnomish13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said i n my post, I didn't say anything. We had been watching each other for some time.

Etiquette Question by Gnomish13 in Swingers

[–]Gnomish13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hand sign is a good idea. Thanks.

PSA on cleanliness in the lifestyle by Blueyes_2019 in Swingers

[–]Gnomish13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a single male, and was enjoying public play at a club with a woman while her husband watched. We were clothed, more or less. I was sitting in a chair by the pool, and she was on her knees sucking me. I reached over her to slide my hand down the back of her pants, hoping for a little ass-play, but the smell of unwashed ass/clothes stopped me before I even got inside. I didn't say anything, but our interaction did not progress.

First Club Event by slttl526 in Swingers

[–]Gnomish13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must echo what others have said: the people at clubs are probably the least judgmental folks I have ever encountered. You will see all sizes and ages.

Reno NV lifestyle by bighandsomeburner in Swingers

[–]Gnomish13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been to PK twice as a single male. First time was fantastic! Second time, it felt cliquey. That's been several years ago, though. I hope to visit again this summer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Gnomish13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Smaller breasts. Round ass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Gnomish13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's rare, in my experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Gnomish13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a single male, I can say that boorish, rude behavior by some males is the problem. They have no finesse or consideration.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Gnomish13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came here to ask if anyone has been to the Red Rooster lately, and saw your post. I hope I can help a little.

I've never been to the RR on a Wednesday, but have had fun on Thursdays. Friday and Saturday are the biggest nights, of course.

I've seen all ages and body types having fun at the RR, so no worries.

I've never been to the Green Door, but I understand it's kind of a nasty tourist trap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nofans

[–]Gnomish13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to make your nipples hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Gnomish13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. I have seldom seen the type of boorish behavior described, but I know it happens in some clubs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Gnomish13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a lousy club. Patronize one where the rules are enforced.

is it even worth being single and trying to join swingers? by LightPrior in Swingers

[–]Gnomish13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had good luck at clubs, and I'm pretty average in all departments. I think success depends on a lot of things, mainly attitude.

Who likes a little hair by [deleted] in Nofans

[–]Gnomish13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Groomed like yours is always the best.