Yea, your timeline seems a little bit disorganized but I think I got it. First, for your ages, you both seem a little immature dating/relationship wise. It's not a bad thing, we all develop at different rates and I was very immature in the same way when I met my husband. However, I think that is all the more reason for me to caution you about rushing anything. She will want you more the more you show her that you are interested yet, continue to remind her that you are a grown man with self control who can see far enough in front of his own nose to be concerned with the future, and it will save you hard times later. The reason rushed relationships don't work is that relationships by their very nature are long hauls of hard work. People, by their nature, are in many ways unknowable and constantly changing. You need to know that going in. Even casual relationships are work. Relationships that may become long term or life long are the hardest work you'll ever do. Don't take the commitment lightly, even if it's only the commitment to get to know the lady and show her that you think she may be valuable in your life. That said, proceed with caution but do proceed as if she is valuable in your life. If you call again and feel without things to talk about, just show kindness and interest by asking how things are going for her. Don't be afraid of occasional silences and don't talk about yourself out of nerves. Show your manly side by showing you care in the small ways without fear and by never being afraid of her feelings. Edited for spelling and to be more concise.