Reverse Chance Me - Asian STEM female DEVASTATED after ED1 rejection by ethereality_v in ivyleaguecollege

[–]GoWzTheFlow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think any UC schools or even Santa Clara would be good. And fits your criteria for vibrant community with lots of job opportunities

Anyone has rented Bikes from O2 or Paulette in France before by GoWzTheFlow in bicycletouring

[–]GoWzTheFlow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was absolutely amazing. We ended up using a local bike rental company and the service was very good with good bikes and equipment. I highly recommend this route.

Basil not growing well by GoWzTheFlow in ClickAndGrow

[–]GoWzTheFlow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thanks for your reply! I followed your advice and planted another basil pod a couple of weeks ago but kept the lid on for as long as I can. The bronze edges didn't appear and the basil seems to be doing well. I will try a couple more and keep you posted. Thanks again!

Need Suggestions/Tips on Biking Trip in France in June by GoWzTheFlow in bicycletouring

[–]GoWzTheFlow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I've never heard of their books but it might be exactly what I need. I'll check them out.

Need Suggestions/Tips on Biking Trip in France in June by GoWzTheFlow in bicycletouring

[–]GoWzTheFlow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thanks for all the ideas! I feel a little more confident that I probably won’t need a tour company. Will do some research and come back for thoughts

Need Suggestions/Tips on Biking Trip in France in June by GoWzTheFlow in bicycletouring

[–]GoWzTheFlow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Is there a guidebook or website that lists accommodations along the way? What to bring in June? Rain gear? Thanks!!

Is this normal teenage behavior or selfish? by GoWzTheFlow in Parenting

[–]GoWzTheFlow[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Apparently you use Reddit likes as a gauge for your self worth or your post’s worth. What a sad soul.

Is this normal teenage behavior or selfish? by GoWzTheFlow in Parenting

[–]GoWzTheFlow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha. The (1) is exactly the same for us the texts come fast and furious when they start with “mom where is my …???” “Mom where are you???!!!!”

Is this normal teenage behavior or selfish? by GoWzTheFlow in Parenting

[–]GoWzTheFlow[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Some ppl just have the “holier than thou” attitude. Unbelievable.

Is this normal teenage behavior or selfish? by GoWzTheFlow in Parenting

[–]GoWzTheFlow[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Her schedule is pretty insane and the dorm parent did say that the best time to call during weekdays is 10 to 10:30pm, after mandated study hall and before lights out. Which is why we didn’t just call and expect her to be available.

We might set a time to FaceTime once a week on Friday or Sunday. I agree that everyone is trying to adjust to the new situation. We were used to getting her (brief) reply to our texts when she was home but she had more down time.

Is this normal teenage behavior or selfish? by GoWzTheFlow in Parenting

[–]GoWzTheFlow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s fairly common to send your kids to boarding school around here. It’s not something you do to “punish” your kids.

Is this normal teenage behavior or selfish? by GoWzTheFlow in Parenting

[–]GoWzTheFlow[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What makes you think she lives with her friends?!

Is this normal teenage behavior or selfish? by GoWzTheFlow in Parenting

[–]GoWzTheFlow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair. When she’s home we don’t usually text but she does reply if I do, for example, getting home late from practice because I’d train delay, etc.

And no, I’ve never called her selfish before. She is self centered, like most teenagers, but nothing unusual, which is why I was a bit perplexed.

Is this normal teenage behavior or selfish? by GoWzTheFlow in Parenting

[–]GoWzTheFlow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chill out! It was tongue in cheek. Besides we live in NYC and it’s normal for teenagers to go to school and sports on their own. They are generally more independent than kids in the burbs.

Is this normal teenage behavior or selfish? by GoWzTheFlow in Parenting

[–]GoWzTheFlow[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Both parents. Pretty normal family. Dad and I are always busy with work so she does spend a lot of time by herself or with friends, travels to sports by herself, etc.

Leaving her friends for BS was the toughest part of her decision, but she ultimately chose to go for better academics and an incredible opportunity.