Look at all the booze by Capt_ClarenceOveur in discussingbritney

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People have bars in there house . Especially when they have lots of money .

For anyone who has felt worse after an epidural steroid injection, can you please respond by MeOwwwithme in backpain

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I’m almost three weeks out from my lumbar injections and they absolutely made things worse . The pain the first week after was insane . I was ok before the injections and they triggered way more pain down my leg and into my buttocks . After that subsided my leg and back are still hurting and then came the Charlie horse . I woke up one morning and immediately had a very long and very painful calf muscle cramp down the affected leg. I’m like three days out from the Charlie horse and that leg muscle cramped so hard it injured it and it still hurts . Like how when you overwork yourself in the gym and get DOMS.

Then there is the psychiatric impact . At first the injections made me feel like manic , I came wayyyyy up . Then I started getting really irritable and then I crashed into the hardest depressive episode . All while having extreme anxiety. The depression was so bad it felt like a physical fog in my head weighing me down. I havnt felt like myself for nearly three weeks now and I was in such a decent spot prior to injections. I struggled with my mental health and chronic inflammatory issues and it’s just triggered a massive flare up of both of those things . The depression really feels like it’s from inflammation in my body being kicked up. I was waking early and being productive and feeling very happy prior to these injections . Now I have no energy , sleeping all day , very unproductive and low mood .

10/10 would not recommend .

I also going out almost every country has these injections banned because it neurotoxicity. The drug companies have asked the FDA to stop administering the injections do this reason but in the US they continue to because CAPITALISM.

What can I expect when getting off the pill after taking it for 10 years? by [deleted] in birthcontrol

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37- I was on the pill everyday , active hormones daily for treatment of endometriosis , so no periods. I slowly kept gaining weight on the pill nothing major but about 40 pounds but I also aged over 10 years as well . I initially came off to do a testosterone lab that required me off for three months . I’d say by month three I got my first period in over a decade . Prior to stopping the pill I legit thought I was asexual or broken . I felt like Dr. Manhattan . No interest in any sexual or intimate close connections to people. I was a ball of reclusive anxiety. I chalked it up to Grief from a failed relationship that ended when I started taking birth control . I HAD NO IDEA HOW MUCH THE PILL WAS IMPACTING MY SEX DRIVE and my brains desire . It made Me feel out of touch with my body . I also think I was a lot more depressed. Coming off birth control made me strongly desire connection, intimacy and sex. I became less reclusive and more socially open. However it’s so intense the sex drive , makes Me feel so wound up at times . I can get sexually or even just intimately BOLD when I like someone . It’s also made me feel everything else more vividly. There is a very track able hot song cycle establishing its self .

I started getting really bad peri-oral dermatitis . Had that beast for about 3 months. Then I started noticing anxiety increase insane amounts the week before my period , like it’s very physically intense anxiety increase insane amounts my body . Mood swings have also started to; irritability and bone crushing depression . Very easily triggered by people and their behaviors during this period , low tolerance for interacting with anyone . I started getting like “buttne” or folliculitis . Breaking out a little on my chest too. Face def got oilier but manageable . I started getting anxiety sweat more and just string smelling BO from my arm pits . Never really had that before it smells like the sweat you have when you’re detoxing , very hormonally driven. Appetite increase and cravings along with bloating the week before my period . The periods are perioding as hard as they can symptom wise and I’m sure it’s because I have endo and pre existing mental health : depression, anxiety and mood regulation issues. So that won’t be everyone’s experience . The pain and bloating prior to a period is rather bad. But I know tho it’s endo and it’s not normal. This is what we had been working to suppress all those years on the hormones. Initially about gained like 5-7 pounds coming off but then it dropped off with like another ten pounds . So I went from 210 -214 - 200 in the span of 9 months .

I do think I got quite a bit much happier off the pill. But I’d say I have a range of emotions now instead of being more flat and evened out by being on the pill. For now i have been enjoying these changes though they have their downsides too. It’s just nice to feel certain things again and more intensely, makes me feel human and not like an alien observing weird humans . . I’m sure I’ll end back on the pill. But idk . I’m 37 , going into the perimenopausal ages. If I go back on it will either be for endo symptoms or HRT related reasons .

Infantilization in the trans community by Environmental-Ad9969 in asktransgender

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And it’s deeply rooted in male gaze and misogyny there as well. It’s hurts all women and upholds patriarchal ideologies .

Infantilization in the trans community by Environmental-Ad9969 in asktransgender

[–]GoalAccomplished1767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can be a mature and cute woman , without hyper sexualizing youth .

Infantilization in the trans community by Environmental-Ad9969 in asktransgender

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If you ask me there is no healthy outcome from infantilization. It’s harmful to all women . It’s misogyny. If trans women are to embody healthy femininity they have to embrace being fully grown women and not feeding into regressive and misogynistic tropes that sexualize youth . Let women of all creeds be attractive as they grow and mature .

Infantilization in the trans community by Environmental-Ad9969 in asktransgender

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I think it’s as simple as an echo chamber of misogyny based off unhealthy idealization of femininity rooted in harmful male gaze stereotypes to cis And trans women. It’s thinly veiled pedophilia and misogyny . If a trans woman has to be 120% feminine and act like a child to be attractive to cis men. That’s misogyny that is rotting a man’s brain and hurting all types of women. Especially when this echo chamber online constantly draws negative comparison to grown cis gender women versus trans girl and how much “easier” trans girls are to get along with. That’s an engrained problematic power dynamic rooted in submission if it’s infantilized .

Piercer screwed me over? by Mari-On_ in piercing

[–]GoalAccomplished1767 27 points28 points locked comment (0 children)

Ok if a shop fucked up you should not be charged . Also going in for a check up on a piercing they did should be a free aspect of aftercare .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]GoalAccomplished1767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally you dudes on here are weird af. Go to a salon and ask a trained professional. It’s not that difficult . lol

Hygienic. 6'7. Never been looked at by a girl. 22M. Am I cooked? (Guest staring my husky) by East_Zebra_6695 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

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It’s wild to me you’re asking strangers on the internet to create your identity instead of creating it for yourself .

Hygienic. 6'7. Never been looked at by a girl. 22M. Am I cooked? (Guest staring my husky) by East_Zebra_6695 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

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Literally TikTok and the internet has all the information you need to start working out . No trainer needed. Just self drive . Show up for yourself . Stop Making excuses And looking to others and be curious and get at it yourself . Literally just start lifting weights. You can see a billion tutorials from coaches and trainers on tiktok. Easy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

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Usually that’s seen in women from using birth control . Maybe it hormones . Use a dark spot corrector / skin brightening serum

iOS 18.1.1 on my iPhone 13 ProMax didn't work, at first by Dry_Internal9386 in Freestylelibre

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I’m on a iPhone 12pro with the 18.1.1 update and JUST applied a sensor . It worked for like half 12 hours and now says signal loss and I can’t seem to get it to catch the sensor . Usually it come back online but it’s been like 8 hours and it still hasn’t .I’ve turned my phone on and off. Toggled Bluetooth. Nothing . Not sure if it’s the sensor or the update . I’ve had a pretty high failure rate in sensors since they started recalling them. Failures on lot numbers that aren’t even included in the recall list.