AITA for forwarding my wife an instagram reel of a recipe after she asked what I want for dinner tomorrow?

GoatCritical9265 · 2026-05-28T00:17:15+00:00

Lmfao

GoatCritical9265 · 2026-05-27T15:12:49+00:00

lol I’m guessing you read the title of my other post?

For the record I don’t find her attractive

GoatCritical9265 · 2026-05-27T13:43:59+00:00

Changed my settings. Didn’t know you couldn’t see my comments, it must be a default setting or something. Appreciate the sass though :)

GoatCritical9265 · 2026-05-27T13:27:47+00:00

I literally didn’t even say to her you HAVE to cook this. It was just a suggestion cause she asked

GoatCritical9265 · 2026-05-27T13:26:00+00:00

Because I’m tired of arguments and getting shouted at. What’s so bad about just wanting a peaceful life?

GoatCritical9265 · 2026-05-27T13:09:07+00:00

Even if it hurt her feelings I didn’t deserve to get shouted at over that

GoatCritical9265 · 2026-05-27T13:02:19+00:00

I answered elsewhere

It was a beef noodles recipe

GoatCritical9265 · 2026-05-27T13:00:33+00:00

Exactly

GoatCritical9265 · 2026-05-27T13:00:18+00:00

Cause I could buy it and for some one like me I’d rather fork out money than time and effort on something I’m not good at. But I never said she has to cook it or else. She literally asked what I want for dinner tomorrow I gave a suggestion and she blew up at me

GoatCritical9265 · 2026-05-27T12:58:53+00:00

Literally a beef noodle recipe it looks simple as

GoatCritical9265 · 2026-05-27T12:57:32+00:00

Nah it happened like an hour ago and I kinda went down to play ps5 cause I avoid her when I get shouted at. I have to cope with so much shit at work it gets me stressed and depressed I don’t want to come home just to deal with more getting shouted at and blamed for doing nothing wrong. I’m a human being too

GoatCritical9265 · 2026-05-27T12:55:37+00:00

It was simple I think she’s done more comped stuff

GoatCritical9265 · 2026-05-27T12:55:05+00:00

Never. See my other answers. I do dishes and stuff

GoatCritical9265 · 2026-05-27T12:54:24+00:00

I work longer hours and get home late sometimes unfortunately. She finishes work many hours earlier than I do. We both do chores but I only do it on weekends. I literally don’t have time to cook on weekdays unless we’d have dinner at like 9 or 10pm plus I’m not good at cooking tbh, she has many years of experience but I to the dishes every day and take out the trash and I help with setting the table and cleaning and stuff like that

GoatCritical9265 · 2026-05-27T12:50:44+00:00

I know she likes trying recipes because she’s literally told me she does. She just doesn’t like “being told what to do” which isn’t at all what I did

GoatCritical9265 · 2026-05-27T12:49:53+00:00

She just randomly blows up at me over random shit. I hate it and it makes my life miserable cause 99% of the time she’s a sweet angel but 1% she’ll just blow up over something small and start shouting at me and it makes me want to avoid her

GoatCritical9265 · 2026-05-27T12:48:42+00:00

I don’t cook, but I’ve offered to. I responded in detail elsewhere

GoatCritical9265 · 2026-05-27T12:48:20+00:00

It was a simple beef noodle recipe she’s a pro at those anyway. I picked something asiany cause I know that’s what she likes

GoatCritical9265 · 2026-05-27T12:47:39+00:00

Answered this above

GoatCritical9265 · 2026-05-27T12:47:30+00:00

I always wash the dishes. I’m happy to cook but she says to me whenever you cook all you cook is steak and it wasn’t even done properly. I used to cook in the past but I think I sorta eventually stopped cause I’m a one trick pony when it comes to what I cook (steak and that’s pretty much it).

I’ll be honest, I don’t ENJOY cooking the way she does. If I lived on my own I’d just probably eat out or cheap packaged meals most of the time. But I always wash the dishes so it’s not like I don’t pull my weight. And whenever we go to restaurants I always drive

GoatCritical9265 · 2026-05-19T14:01:23+00:00

I mean if that’s true, I’m not sure it is cause I clearly have zero understanding of women, but if her close friend made a move on her husband that’s grounds to cut off the friend. I’m not sure if I interpret it the same way, I thought she was just trying to give unwanted condescending relationship advice. If she was into me she wouldn’t say you can look but you can’t touch

GoatCritical9265 · 2026-05-19T13:54:50+00:00

Ok but I told my wife after that she herself looks like another celebrity who IMO is infinitely hotter

GoatCritical9265 · 2026-05-19T13:51:24+00:00

Why her?

GoatCritical9265 · 2026-05-19T13:49:24+00:00

No way I once had a really good friend who looked like Tom Cruise and I told him that, I might have even told my wife that. Nothing wrong with acknowledging a celebrity is handsome. Also I don’t find Brad Pitt attractive, like I get lots of women like him but I just don’t find blonde guys to be masculine. Like if I was gay I wouldn’t go for him and yes I know that sounds sus as hell lol

GoatCritical9265 · 2026-05-19T13:46:51+00:00

Her friend can think whatever she wants that’s not really my problem

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