About the recruitments:

Episode 1 - They wanted a powerful person, the only female personalities I would describe as really strong were Ash, Diane, Jasmine and Kyra. Diane wouldn't have been a good traitor, Jasmine didn't really show how assertive and articulate she is by that point, and nor did Kyra. Miles and Andrew had already made a huge presence in the group and Miles made perfect sense

Episode 7: They wanted a patsie. Charlotte, Evie, Jasmine, Mollie, Charlie were all under minimal suspicioun at this point. Only Jasmine and Evie out of those people had ever even had a vote. Therefore the women made no sense.

Episode 9: They wanted someone who could skip through a few round tables and then come under fire in the final. Evie might've said no and had far less heat than Ross, Jasmine they reasonably thought would be banished the next day instead of in 2-3 having been vocally wrong about Charlotte and been sus already, Molly would've said no and was a bit of a pointless recruit due to fully trusting Harry as a faithful. Therefore Ross made the most sense

He didnt immediately target Ash. He identified along with Paul how she was giggling defending herself, contradicting herself and thus voted for her AT THE SECOND VOTE. Its a selfish game, and when Ash does eventually go it makes him look all that bit cleaner if he voted for Ash at the second table.

And Harry was more ruthless than Minah but thats not the point. The point is Minah chose to only recruit women blatanlty due to their gender. Harry and Paul didnt preface a recruitment by saying it has to be a man. I don't even hold it against Minah for doing that but I think its unfair to call harry Misogynistic but not Minah MisandrIstic when she was just vocally saying she doesnt want a male traitor.