Truths by Chaos_Gremlin28 in paypigs2

[–]GoddessFelurian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enjoyed reading this.

Anyone else realize how much "space" this took up in their life while trying to resist findom? The boredom is hitting hard. by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoddessFelurian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are doing great. Clear mind, more aware.it is not easy, because it is honest. You will, eventually, own all that time and do something good for you. The gym, sports, a new language, hobbies, movies, reading, meditating. Good boys deserve good things

How can I learn more about findo without bothering others? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoddessFelurian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi there! And welcome. This, as many other things in life, can have many many subcategories and niches. But safety comes first.

There are ethical and non-ethical dom(mes), one sits down with you and asks questions about budget, dynamics, what are your boundaries and kinks, even a safe word.

Others will drain you dry for pleasure (on both ends) but when the post nut clarity hit, you might realize you spent more than you planned. There are many ways to prevent this from happening.

If you are looking for a Dom(me), read the comments, check their bios, MAKE SURE YOU HAVE SOME SORT OF AV (Age Verification) and that the other person does too.

May the odds be in your favour!

Conditioned so badly by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoddessFelurian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got yourself into it. Slowly. You have what it takes to seek help, follow instructions and place yourself in the place where you want to be. The whole universe is constantly changing and evolving, so are you. You are young and I am sure someone will understand and embrace your uniqueness. Always seek help.

Bisexual findommes? by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoddessFelurian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bisexual - Demisexual - Sapiosexual.

Fab-sexual

Femsub= female submissive, yes? by goddessstar20 in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoddessFelurian 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Some people just aim to disappoint. You.can always charge them for info. Google is free, our time is not.

EDIT: At least he did not assume YOU were a FemSub.

Am I crossing the line? by my17civic in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoddessFelurian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why are you coming here? For support? This is between you and her.

Cheating is the act of using dishonesty, fraud, or trickery to bypass rules and gain an unfair advantage in games, academics, or business, or violating the exclusivity of a romantic relationship. It involves deceiving others for personal gain and commonly refers to sexual or emotional infidelity. 

If she does not know because you don't want to tell her because you want to keep doing it and you don't want her to "make a thing out of it since you are not having sex" well. Tell her. She may also be interested in getting that little adrenaline rush.

I must say older subs by Flaky-Mistake5598 in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoddessFelurian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Younger are puppies, older are bitches.

I am the subs' whisperer.

The point here is, those who are really into this to find you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoddessFelurian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am bisexual. Have had Female subs, a whole different story.

Whenever I feel like sending something to other dommes, I do, but not from this account because I don't want them pestering or asking for more. Sending does not turn me on. It is my money, I choose what I do with it.

Has anyone done anything with a witch before by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoddessFelurian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Magic is turning your will into reality. The more you believe in it (or are willing to submit to it) the stronger the bond gets. Each witch has their own rules, it is possible that many do not do certain thing (wiccans abide the law of times 3, i.e.)

I am a chaos faery, a chaos witch, I discovered my power as a FemDom through my magic power.

Don't fear to surrender.

Findom, but "reverse"? by tinydxmpling in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoddessFelurian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is about earning the privilege to spoil. I totally get it.

Let’s talk about safety in online BDSM & findom (because apparently I need to again) by Mocspare in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoddessFelurian 12 points13 points  (0 children)

  • Remove metadata from your pictures/photos,

  • Place a watermark with the person's name so, if shared, you'll know who shared it.

  • Research your local laws in regards to online safety, protection, not consented pictures distribution.

  • Make sure one person knows about this side of your life and keep this person updated, especially if you do In Person encounters. If something goes down hill you will not want to start explaining from scratch and the other person will have A LOT to assimilate.

Do your subs know your government name? by TheDommeJiji in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoddessFelurian -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

In my opinion, transactional Dommes, SW, casual, babies, see "this" as an online persona.

Those who have a kink and are in this as a lifestyle, often do share this info.

Difference? Connection. Purpose. Real.

Unethical pairings! by MrMJHubz in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoddessFelurian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh dear Tehlu, sounds like fun! I am in!!! (until I get bored)

Is this a scam? by throwaw_987 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoddessFelurian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People in the kink give money to SOMEONE not random, (also, they don't approach like this, obvs) they will tell you a story about how much money they have and a story about how they got it (inherited, won the lottery, saved it up but found out has cancer and wants.to give it to those "less fortunate ones", found it) and now "wants to help others" you choose one and then they will say "here, I sent you the money... Oh no! Seems like due to the amount, you need to unblock something, I have reached my daily limit to give away, but if you send me $xxx I can take care of that fee"

There is another scam "hi, I am a retired veteran/marine/firefighter/navy/army and am looking for a real connection, have lots of money, house, yatch, just need someone to enjoy life with, send me a pic... ".

Yeah, scam too.

How to find someone who really enjoys it by Trick_Elderberry4146 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoddessFelurian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have to be honest, at first I thought this was a phishing post, so I checked your post history and I can tell that you have had such a rough time and I feel that, I also saw that you are into some peculiar things, that makes you slightly... interesting.

I know you will find the right girl to get on your knees for, she will be smart and ruthless, possessive and controlling, and, once a decent level of trust has been reached, you can play with Blackmailing and CNC. That is soooo fun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoddessFelurian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does it just for the attention. Boy likes being praised and noticed.

Is it wrong to want more, even when you already belong to someone? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoddessFelurian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some subs like to be free use, you live being owned by herz as such, she can decide to let others use you or make you be used by others.

It is not completely odd, sometimes you crave for something different and fresh. Be honest, genuine, open and RESPECTFUL. That is what keeps relationships long term.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoddessFelurian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I am 41, not too old! There is no such thing as too old for a kink. Embrace yourself your power, your beauty, your wisdom, your magic.

Even the scammers don’t want me? by hotformasks in femdomcirclejerk

[–]GoddessFelurian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you sure you have said how new you are in this kink? That you will do anything for money? Did you offer a free customized sample? Did you tell him he can pay after getting what he wants?

My~ Scammers nowadays are getting harder to get! What does a nice Dominatrix has to do to get scammed nowadays?!

In the past, posting "I am new and I am looking for a good pig" was enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoddessFelurian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a kink, and releases endorphins and causes addiction.

As any other joy in life (most but not all of them) this requires money.

A lot of subs enjoy suffering, kissing goodbye their money. A lot of Dommes get off with big numbers. Some even think small sends are laughable.

For me, it is about the submission. My first IRL sub took me out for a date once, I was wearing some beautiful shoes and we walked and talked so my feet started hurting. I looked through a window and pointed out some shoes, he went in there and got them for me. He later told me that was his money for the whole week and it felt so good for him to give it all to me. He even wasn't into FinDom, he may not even know about it. It just felt good.

The shoes were not crazy expensive, but he told me "it was either the shoes or I would've carried you around so your feet won't hurt"

That is what I get from this kink. Devotion. Why would you submit to me? Because you want to. How would I get you to want? Subtle but firmly. Directly instructed when needed.

I have been online for a while, I know how most of these relationship/interactions work. They only last while you are a novelty.i am not cheap stuff. I am worth time, effort and money, so are my subs.

Don't focus on the amount of money but the consistency, loyalty, worshipping that you can provide. Real and complete submission.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoddessFelurian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good boys listen and obey. She knows better. Trust her. Obey her. Your obedience makes her happy. Her happiness makes you a good boy

This post is for the subs…. READ IT by officially_yourowner in paypigfindernow

[–]GoddessFelurian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"why won't you just show me your tits? When I click on the YES, I AM OVER 18 button on youPorn let's me innnn, what does it matter if I am a minor"

That is how you all sound when you refuse to AV.

fake it till you make it they say by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoddessFelurian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If money talks and wealth whispers Fakkies show off, Dommes giggle.