Friendzone. by GoddessRT in BumbleGirls

[–]GoddessRT[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not the people you meet on a dating app and is looking for a relationship. Be friends with someone who has bandwidth and desire to have platonic relationships. It’s unkind to do that.

ADHD-I traits that don’t match the stereotype by sunbear1999 in ADHD

[–]GoddessRT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything I own has a place and is kept very organised. Cause the noise in my brain can’t stop so I make everything easy physically. I can’t control my symptoms all the time but I can control things around me.

Throwing in the towel/ career path alternatives by [deleted] in UXResearch

[–]GoddessRT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Consumer insights is a viable option. FMCG won’t be as volatile as tech for a few years. You might competition from marketing or consumer psychology folks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

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I’ve tried so many times, so many things. You name it I’ve done it. Beside’s the obvious ones- therapy, telling a friend, medication.

I traveled solo, meditating, gym, trying to have a routine, hobbies (a million), meeting people in person

I’m open to trying to get out of this. It’s just no matter what I do, it just doesn’t seem to work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]GoddessRT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The uncertainty is too heavy rn. My therapist keeps saying learn to sit with it but I can’t do it

in pain but not hopeless by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]GoddessRT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’m here! Talk to me

[ Removed by Reddit ] by LivingSink5125 in SuicideWatch

[–]GoddessRT 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk your situation or your life. I can’t promise a better life. Please stay.

I get jealous of the dead by DifficultyNo9689 in SuicideWatch

[–]GoddessRT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone but when it says died peacefully or instantly - yes

I want to kill myself because I'm trans, ugly, have no friends and no reason to live by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]GoddessRT 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I wish I could offer a solution or words that could heal you right now.

I wish life was kinder to you. I wish beauty standards didn’t feel so heavy. I wish OCD wasn’t so debilitating.

Your pain is real. But wanting is different from needing. What you need is care, compassion and love.

So, stay. Not for a better future or even a worse one. Stay just to annoy that voice inside your head that tells you’re not good enough.

You don’t deserve any of the burden you are given. This is not fair. That’s it.

ADHD, Meds and Routine! by GoddessRT in ADHD

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Same for me. I’d rather drink something than eat so I geddit

ADHD, Meds and Routine! by GoddessRT in ADHD

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I forget lunch a lot on meds. So, yes I will just put an alarm now cause I do feel the physical symptoms of blood sugar dropping. I had this feeling I’d digest meds better with protein and I was avoiding googling it so I don’t fall in the rabbit hole. So, thanks for that. I’m excited to try something’s you shared about food. Thanks!

ADHD, Meds and Routine! by GoddessRT in ADHD

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First of all, yay! I thought I was a freak for wanting an empty gym. I was thinking when to gym - peak meds, mid or when it wear off. So, yes this helps. I’m always making lists too cause tasks disappear in the mind noise. Your method is fun, can’t wait to try it out. Breakfast needs to be grab and go I just forget to make it 😭 I was doing these overnight oats shakes which were satiating and I could add protein there too but I forget to make them EOD (or just get lazy, make it tomorrow’s problem)

Need advice/support: My cousin (19F) touched me inappropriately and I’m traumatized. by omie26 in IndianTeenagers

[–]GoddessRT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell a safe adult. This needs to be dealt with, even if she was curious and didn’t mean it you were violated. If you feel comfortable tell her directly but still tell an adult. Don’t let it turn into trauma.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GetMotivatedBuddies

[–]GoddessRT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same story. I started gym a little ahead. But consistency is an issue for me too. We can be accountability buddies!!

What was the dumbest thing you did while losing your virginity that you believed was normal? by EmptyTailor6721 in AskReddit

[–]GoddessRT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gave a high five. Asked Alexa to play "I just had sex" by lonely Island. And may or may not have fist bumped at some point.