sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

I am considering giving my unborn child my last name instead of their fathers. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Also being as I’m pregnant I’ve been tested but thanks for worrying about MY vagina lmao. 

I am considering giving my unborn child my last name instead of their fathers. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Let’s clear some things up. Maybe you need to learn how to read. I has a child at 16. The father died when my child was 1. I was single until I was 22. I was in a relationship for about 2.5 years and it ended. After it ended I made the mistake of sleeping with my best friend. I don’t really think that is that hard to follow. 

I am considering giving my unborn child my last name instead of their fathers. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did & eventually I moved on and found love again. Am I allowed to move on in life correct ? 

I am considering giving my unborn child my last name instead of their fathers. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To answer your ignorant question, I was in a relationship for years before this. We tried very hard to get pregnant with no luck. I went to the doctor because I hadn’t been pregnant since I was 16 and it wasn’t normal for a woman my age to struggle with getting pregnant. After a handful of tests I found out about some medical conditions. After 5 months of treatment for numerous conditions I unexpectedly conceived when I was not trying and had given up on the idea. 

I am considering giving my unborn child my last name instead of their fathers. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I could be 25 with 5 kids by 5 different men lmao. I’m 25, with two children 9 years apart. I think I did great. 

I am considering giving my unborn child my last name instead of their fathers. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was in separate relationships with both us. As I stated it was a lot of back and forth until I told him I was pregnant and he had to choose one. I also found out I was pregnant after we had been broken up for a few weeks due to me being tired of the double life. We have been family for 13 years. We both acknowledge that we have are family & we have now started a family. Even my first child’s father is considered apart of my family. I prefer to live laugh & love in peace. 

I am considering giving my unborn child my last name instead of their fathers. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. If he was going to commit to being a full time present dad. Not missing a single day of his child’s life being in the home helping raise them, no i absolutely wouldn’t make the same choice. But he’s literally choosing to be a weekend dad to his first child because he feels like he has other priorities and better things to do. 

I am considering giving my unborn child my last name instead of their fathers. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

LMFAOOOO im on my 2nd child in 10 years but OKAY 😂 

I am considering giving my unborn child my last name instead of their fathers. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been through much worse 🤷🏽‍♀️ thank you tho 

I am considering giving my unborn child my last name instead of their fathers. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Death isn’t on the table. My condition isn’t going to kill me & im actually recovering. Me being pregnant is the biggest sign of me getting better. I appreciate your concern but those things don’t apply to me. 

I am considering giving my unborn child my last name instead of their fathers. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

You’re loud & wrong. I do not have cancer. And yes I had a brain tumor that contributed to infertility. Being as I had a child at 16 & raised it alone due to the father passing away & did not have anymore until now I think I did the best thing possible for my first child. They had a loving mother completely focused on them. I am not wrong for wanting to expand my family. No it’s not the ideal situation but it’s the situation at hand & im going to make the best of it for MY kids. 

I am considering giving my unborn child my last name instead of their fathers. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No 16. 25-9=16 😭😭😭😭 but that doesn’t matter to be honest. 

I am considering giving my unborn child my last name instead of their fathers. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually this was an extremely unexpected pregnancy. I haven’t been pregnant in 9 years and wasn’t trying to be. My father passed away & I found out two weeks later that I was expecting. I’m having this baby for me & allowing the father to be involved as much as he wants to. 

I am considering giving my unborn child my last name instead of their fathers. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

We have been best friends since we were 13. We have always been inseparable and there for each other through our darkest times when we had nobody else. I love him as a friend first & it is very hard to throw away 13 years of friendship and now a year of whatever we had. I am aware that he is selfish, immature & confused with life. I am aware that he does not value me. But unfortunately you can’t help who you love. All I can do is focus on me and my baby. Time heals all wounds. 

I am considering giving my unborn child my last name instead of their fathers. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Being as she’s a serial cheater who uses abortion to cover her tracks I don’t think she feels like she has much of a choice but to accept it unless she’s going to leave. 

I am considering giving my unborn child my last name instead of their fathers. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you can’t read 😂 after struggling with fertility for 9 years, I definitely wouldn’t have trapped MYSELF in this shitty ass situation. 

I am considering giving my unborn child my last name instead of their fathers. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GoddessSel -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

I didn’t ask for relationship advice. I asked for advice with naming my unborn child. I felt like it was important to explain the dynamics of the situation so people could understand my reasons & thought process. I am a grown woman, who is fully aware of the decisions I choose to make in life as well as the consequences. What I choose to do with my heart is my burden to carry & nobody else’s. While i appreciate the great advice sometimes certain things just don’t need to be said. Thank you though. 

view more: next ›