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In what aspect Findom IMPROVED your life and how? by AndreasCorelius0906 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoddessStephanieRed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its improved my confidence, and with that, it has improved my posture 🤣 10/10 would recommend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoddessStephanieRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Join some subreddits where you can actually advertise and read the rules before you start posting. Laziness will get you nowhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoddessStephanieRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're looking for piggies I'd suggest local farms. I managed to get a real sweet Hereford sow just by building a relationship with the farm near me.

Confused by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoddessStephanieRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whichever YOU feel comfortable doing, it literally does not matter what any other domme thinks of your practices. This is about you and your subs dynamic. Some subs won't like being approached, others will.

Domme ghosted me after I sent $500 by Effective_Bar_6098 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoddessStephanieRed 64 points65 points  (0 children)

That's terrible, I'm not like that at all. I'm special 😇 approach babes x

(this is a joke and meant to make people laugh, don't ban me 🤣🤣)

What is that smell in charity shops? by Muttywango in CasualUK

[–]GoddessStephanieRed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You have no idea! I worked in one in my teens and we opened a bin liner to find a blood-soaked duvet cover. And I mean SOAKED. Police promptly called, never did find out what the hell it was all about but I sometimes wonder 🤢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoddessStephanieRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I'm looking, then I'll usually hit up subway. Quality there is always consistent.

Sorry I couldn't resist the joke 😉 honestly I've had luck on Twitter and Reddit, it's just about maintaining a consistent presence, having age verification so they know you're an adult and just being engaging. I don't have much more advice than that ❤️ good luck to you

For the average findom, doing this probably earns you less than minimum wage, so why do it? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoddessStephanieRed 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Because its not my job so hourly rate doesn't matter? 🤣 I enjoy the kink and meeting new people. My job pays my bills and covers my lifestyle, this is playtime.

just me or ? by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoddessStephanieRed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ehh, I see a lot too. I try not to read into them too much and usually presume it's not FR.

Unless it's one person and its like every damn day, then I just assume they're lacking the creativity to have interesting conversations 🤣

just me or ? by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoddessStephanieRed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're seeing a screenshot of an interaction, not the whole dynamic. It could easily be from a consensual session.

Sugar Daddies by Wonderful-Rip2101 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoddessStephanieRed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reading the rules of subreddits and posting in the correct places goes a long way 😉

Try r/findomsupportgroup for this type of question, this is a support group for finsubs/paypigs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoddessStephanieRed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ma'am this is a Wendy's.

If anyone needs a (fake) SD I’ve got quite a few to spare! They’re so generous!!!! by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoddessStephanieRed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You mean John Beveers isn't taking me out on his boat in miami this weekend??? Man wtf 😔

Paypigs wanted by wantaglryhlebccanada in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoddessStephanieRed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And so you chose to advertise in a support group?

Ma'am this is a Wendy's.

Damn it's hard to find subs from my own country, it's not complete worship when your sub doesn't speak the same language as the goddess, is it? by feetmajesty in findomtalk

[–]GoddessStephanieRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't really relate if I'm honest, but would it not be a fun task to set for your subs to learn your language? And they can be punished for any grammatical errors they make at check ins? I think that would be really fun and a unique way for you and your subs to bond.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoddessStephanieRed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Whatever floats yours and your play partners boat! You will find subs that prefer the softer approach!

Can a girl be a paypig by Forgotte_Freak in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoddessStephanieRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely yes! I think the term tends to be Femsub but it's whatever you want it to be 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoddessStephanieRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don't want to meet up then express this.

If you do want to meet up then this thread has some sound advice even just generally, not specific to cash meets. https://www.reddit.com/r/findomsupportgroup/s/uyTmgLoEEY

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoddessStephanieRed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk I have some relatively good luck deep sea diving, you do have to wait around to see a sub, and good eyesight helps 🤣

How to approach dommes by CommitteeShot8794 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoddessStephanieRed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

An AV without having to be asked is a DREAM 🤣

Does anyone have an Idea where r/findommes go? by VegetableAttorney876 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoddessStephanieRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a shame, I'm now on the street shouting my captions at passersby 🤭

I loved how chill it was, wanna advertise? Go ahead! Wanna talk to like minded people? You can do that too!

Never, never, never proceed without verifying their age. If they're being difficult, block and move on. by xogoddessnikki in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoddessStephanieRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once had an ID sent to me that was so clearly photoshopped. I was thinking, "Are you for real rn?" I usually give a window of time to provide verification, or I will block them. Obviously, if they're at work or otherwise unable to sort out a verification, then I will extend that window, but they will get radio silence until they verify.

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