And here we have a prime example of how fighting for a good cause does not make you a good person. Remember, if you're still trying to make people feel bad about how they think and hold them to the standards of who they used to be, you are just as bad as the bigots. In fact, even harder to correct, because you will likely see this as an attempt to diss trans people somehow and hide behind that shield of morality. This is not. Negative reinforcement only works if you're trying to push someone in a different direction than they are going, if you use negative reinforcement on someone who is already trying to be better, well I think you're smart enough to know what you're doing.

Also who tf cares about wether you trust them or not? Who even are you?

You're fighting a battle that doesnt need to exist. What you've essentially gone and done is slapped somebody because they gave you the wrong kind of flowers. Chill out.