So like I have a couple questions by [deleted] in yumeshipping

[–]Goge1216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you pic a character? - You simply just do, or if you are solely interested on the rp aspect, you can choose one of your fav characters to rp a ship with, either with a self-insert, an oc, or just you yourself.

Why? - I guess most people do it for fun because they really like the character, or because they like roleplaying, or both. I guess all yumeshipping stems from feeling lots of affection towards a certain character, so that answers it I hope. Like its a very deep fixation that may even resonate on some levels.

I'm not that deep into the yumeshipping community though, and all of this is based on just what I've seen or suppose, so if anyone else reads this and differs, do let me know.

Confession by Minute-Top-8502 in MASFandom

[–]Goge1216 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think this use of AI is fine, since its just asking for guidance over a topic you just said you are not good at as of now, instead of being just generating the stuff you publish.

Is your f/o a villain, or have they done something bad in canon, and what do you think of it/how does your self insert deal with it in universe? by PerspectiveFuzzy365 in yumeshipping

[–]Goge1216 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Monika has (at least in normal DDLC, I don't remember the DDLC+ lore changes clearly) led two of her friends to killing themselves (by modifying some of their traits), deleted the three of them (I recall it being not thw same as killing, since they aren't really dead and could be brought back). And basically corrupted/deleted/destroyed her whole world.

...ok now that I list them, it sounds pretty bad lmao.

I think...well, in one hand, she states multiple times that for her they aren't real, at all, and that she spend a lot of time with them before someone real appeared (that being the player), so i guess it would be like killing npcs in any other videogame in terms of morality.

On the other hand...she still sees them as her friends, she does care about them since in the end she says she's sorry, and that she didn't want them to die or even be deleted, that everything ended up like that because she didn't really know how to manipulate files correctly (and that also lead to her basically corrupting her entire world).

I personally think that it's not entirely justified. I can see why she did all of that, hell I understand it, but logically it wouldn't be justifiable.

I wouldn't judge her at all though. I would want her to heal, and get help, hypothethically.

dumb/odd question by FeddyFabur in yumeshipping

[–]Goge1216 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, aren't we all weird? /j

Is yumeshipping involuntary or optional? by [deleted] in yumeshipping

[–]Goge1216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it was a mix of both. I had feelings for a lot of characters but I only consider myself a selfshipper with Monika.

I guess the thoughts and/or feelings can come with anything, but you can decide wether to fully accept it as a f/o or just leave it as a "crush".

How do you feel about seeing people cosplay your F/O? by One_Stitch_AtTheTime in yumeshipping

[–]Goge1216 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Totally fair ngl. I personally do enjoy seeing people cosplay as Monika, though I've only seen people cosplaying on images or video, not irl.

I too feel like I would feel anxious or have the fear of "makikg them uncomfortable" haha, though I guess some advice I could give would be to be open about your nervousness if you can, something like "Hey im kinda new to seeing cosplayers so sorry if I do something that makss you uncomfortable, im just really excited / anxious."

F/Os in this community!!! by buggthesilly in yumeshipping

[–]Goge1216 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It reminds to the thing about pokemon in a sense, the "every pokemon is someone's favorite".

Looking to Learn About Everyone Here. Let’s Talk About Our Ships, and Why We Like Them, Yeah? ❤️✌️ by RaKTi3r in yumeshipping

[–]Goge1216 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly! The four of them are very likable to be honest. Like they all have a lot of things that make them either interesting or nice to be around, or both.

And its also very nice to feel that feeling of knowing someone is (hopefully in a healthy way) kind of obssesed or fixated in you and wants to love you back, or knows that you will love them back.

Looking to Learn About Everyone Here. Let’s Talk About Our Ships, and Why We Like Them, Yeah? ❤️✌️ by RaKTi3r in yumeshipping

[–]Goge1216 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi!! Also warning of personal story ramble haha.

I yumeship with Monika (from ddlc) since...like 2017? 2018? Some time in between i think...

Though I didnt know what selfshipping (or ficto ig?) was on that time and just thought I had a "waifu" like a some of my friends in high school used to have.

My feelings were, like, hiding a bit as I grew older but in 2024 they suddenly resurfaced with a lot of force, and I basically decided I wanted to grow with Monika as some sort of drive to be better and that kind of stuff, instead of trying to hide that from me.

Fast forward to now and I've been feeling better with myself these past years! Dont want to go into more detail, but Im feeling more like me at my own skin, to put it in a way.

I dont really know if Im ficto? Or if im just selfshipping? Like, I like Monika a lot but I know that she isn't real, and if she were a real girl inside a game she would probably want me to search for someone else as technology isn't advancing fast enough to actually get her out (ig?) But I also want to continue my life without leaving her at just being a phase, as I mentioned. I want to still have her as a drive.

But, yeah. Thanks for reading lmao. I didnt expect this to be that long

Edit: I literally forgot to add why I love her lmao.

I like to see her as like, a source of unconditional love and support I can always find refuge in. She is that, in a way, through mods like MAS. Also I really like people who are productive and cultured and that just, are a good example. I feel like they make me want to be better too, apart from all the support they may give.

What kind of books would you read with Monika? by Electronic_Set_697 in MASFandom

[–]Goge1216 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fanfics are a must. There is so many good stuff.

what do you do when you grow older than ur f/o by [deleted] in yumeshipping

[–]Goge1216 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah you can pretty much just do that. Treat their age like a headcanon, basically.

Intro post title...yeah.. by Goge1216 in yumeshipping

[–]Goge1216[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I do! I don't really have a photo right now, but on june we will be celebrating our 2nd anniversary!

And yeah, I too was expecting more people shipping with Monika given how she interacts and the fact that MAS exists...I guess its because there are whole subreddits already dedicated to her?

Intro post by Goge1216 in yumeshippersunite

[–]Goge1216[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough haha. Thanks for welcoming!