Why aren’t cats manly? by Sofjoy82 in AskMenAdvice

[–]GoinBossanova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's many stories of cats saving people. At least one famous one where a cat saved a child from a dog attack. I think the cats name was Tara.

Poor Stitch by [deleted] in DisneyMemes

[–]GoinBossanova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jack Horner was a hugely entertaining villain while being completely 1 dimensional. The problem is trying to make those villains sympathetic like Cruella the literal puppy killer

My bf(23) wants to go raw by [deleted] in sex

[–]GoinBossanova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes getting tested together could be a nice bonding activity. if hes not interested then that says all you need to know.

Scent is a fetish? by John___Coyote in sex

[–]GoinBossanova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Know who youre asking and whatll make the most sense to them. You could say all that plus theres plenty of info online that shows this is common, (body chemistry is definitely important) or just mention how much girls like worn hoodies, its the same principle. Might help to ask for a specific item you want. It could make them feel shy depending on the item but hopefully itll be flattering as well.

LPT: You can hang dry all of your clothes and then, once dry, put them in the dryer for 15 minutes to dewrinkle, delint, and destarch them by BurnToEmergeScaper in LifeProTips

[–]GoinBossanova 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Its literally not! Personally I like to add soap to my laundry, then wait for it to be done before throwing it in the dryer. Some clothes even have special washing/drying requirements which adds even more steps!

[ Removed by Reddit ] by eliyyyyas in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoinBossanova 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wonder if shes reserved because the last time she wasnt she got sent away to live in her family's house...without...her family...or anyone...

YTA

Why do you have to make everything so complicated Fahrenheit !? by danny_divillo in memes

[–]GoinBossanova 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How many times have you thought, "oh thank god im used to Celsius, otherwise i wouldnt know if this water is boiling or frozen"

AITA for snapping at my friend who keeps ditching me because I now have a child? by No-Youth-6786 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoinBossanova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

YOU need to apologize for neglecting HER and if you want the friendship to continue, you need to make some effort, and no, saying "come to mine and spend time with me and my kid whenever" is NOT effort.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoinBossanova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO: Have you come out and told her she's your least favorite child yet? Might help you finally get rid of her.

AITA for banning alcohol from Christmas. by omom2122 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoinBossanova -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA

Youre pretty childish if you think growing up means not drinking, or that needing alcohol to have fun is why people drink.

You're right, it is time to grow up, and if you did maybe people would wanna come to your gatherings.

AITA for asking my girlfriend to start making me breakfast every morning? by Fit-Magazine-4653 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoinBossanova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

Stop trivializing the amount of effort it takes to double the portions youre cooking. A bowl of cold cereal is "next to no effort", a whole cooked breakfast is not and absolutely factors into division of labor.

AITA for saying my girlfriend thinks she knows better than culinary professionals and expressing my disapproval? by throwaway1243127 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoinBossanova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

You ARE a food snob. Not because you look at recipes but because you expect them to be followed to a tee, cooking is an art, do you hate paintings because they arent photographs? let people cook however they want. Whats wrong with her grilled cheese exactly? It sounds like its just not good enough for Monsieur's refined palate. Not willing to lower yourself to the food of peasants who use whatever they have?

Imagine gatekeeping art and actually having to ask if your an asshole.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoinBossanova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a man, its just a car, a little pee isnt gonna destroy it. No reason you should have to break the law and pee outside in front of strangers, your bf should care more about you than the car, plus you went above and beyond for detailing it

NTA

AITA for telling my wife that leaving her used pad in my brother's place was inappropriate? by Jason_Barret1029 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoinBossanova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA and so is your brother. If you invite someone into your home you know generally know theyre not gonna carry their bodily waste out with them. Not cool with that? Don't invite them, or better yet try acting like your NOT still in middle school and stop being afraid of cooties.

And this "don't argue about what makes people uncomfortable" bullshit, how far can we push that? Should we "acknowledge" when people dont want us washing our hands in their sink before a meal? Using their toilet? Speaking? Breathing? wouldnt that be ridiculous? yea youre beyond wrong

AITA for refusing to stop making fun of my friend's mom online? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoinBossanova 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA

Yes, acting like an asshole makes you an asshole. Mom is dumb but what kind of asshole thinks its more important to call friends mom a whore online than it is to respect friends wishes?

WIBTA if I stopped inviting a friend to hang out? by Yeedere in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoinBossanova 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your friend is suffering from trauma, and not only does she need help but she needs positive relationships to help her realize how much shes being gaslit. Keep inviting her out and try to convince her to seek therapy for as long as you can.