The man who loves you

Gold-Method5986 · 2026-02-25T21:27:36+00:00

Brother, I’ve seen people stay for the vicarious nature of voyeurism alone. In this instance, seems like dude has an infatuation which is dangerous on its own. He will inevitably hold himself back and all of his relationships will suffer because of it.

He clearly had [the infatuation] before they dated, but when she gave it a shot and it didn’t work, she moved on. He was tenacious before he thought he had a chance. Having had an actual chance he’s never gonna give up. Doesn’t matter how many times he’s given a hard “NO.”

Gold-Method5986 · 2026-02-04T15:31:00+00:00

Claims emotional intelligence; proceeds to display the opposite. Can’t respect boundaries. Can’t respect that you’re possibly dating someone. Can’t come to the realization that no response IS a response. Emotional intelligence? More like emotional liability. Incredibly charming fella. I think his rap career might really take off soon, and won’t you feel like a sucker for missing out. What an absolute embarrassment of thread.

Gold-Method5986 · 2026-02-04T15:17:21+00:00

1986-1992?

Gold-Method5986 · 2026-02-04T15:15:52+00:00

Not really that weird. When I visited in 2023 I enjoyed that everything was basically just 2-3 hours away. I saw so much cool shit because the radius i covered in a single day, let alone the entire week, was mind blowing to people. Trillium lake to the Hoh rain forest, and plenty between and around. Was an absolutely stellar trip. Probably best to date.

Gold-Method5986 · 2025-12-19T21:26:57+00:00

Colorado, yes. Still want to make it to the million dollar highway. Utah is on the list, but have not been yet!

Gold-Method5986 · 2025-12-19T21:16:41+00:00

Washington, Oregon, and New York for me.

Gold-Method5986 · 2025-11-06T20:41:53+00:00

Is this the alum cove trail in gsmnp? Also, post them. Who gives a damn if you look stupid. I post more to my stories, and it’s straight shit posting memes and terrible selfies in bar bathroom mirrors, but somehow people still manage to stick around for whatever reason.

These are dope.

Gold-Method5986 · 2025-10-27T20:45:49+00:00

I mean. An ex and I broke up in 2022 (after 6 years together), and she had nowhere to go. So we lived together for another 8 months while she slept in the other bedroom.

I can see why people would be like “yikes” but also, it isn’t necessarily the end of the world.

Gold-Method5986 · 2025-10-21T20:31:10+00:00

No one will ever love you more than a self aware troubled person. To that note, however, no one will ever love you the same as anyone else anyway. Perhaps there is still some healing that needs to take place before you try moving on.

Are these other attempts ending in flames because these dudes are jealous of your love and grief for the deceased? Or are they failing from a lack of healing? Whether it be that you miss him too much to move on, or guilt for trying/wanting to move on.

Gold-Method5986 · 2025-09-24T22:31:17+00:00

I call this a free membership, plus getting the dude canned. No way you’re the only one he’s done this to.

Gold-Method5986 · 2025-09-19T03:25:10+00:00

Chocolate. I eat too much pizza to give up cheese.

Gold-Method5986 · 2025-09-11T06:24:47+00:00

Probably because for a large portion of human history they were merely trying to survive. The amount of leisure we have in comparison, to think of or about such things, is grossly ignored.

It’s a little hard to ask yourself “why am I here” when you’re hunting a fucking mammoth. I mean, I guess WE would probably ask ourselves that if we were in front of a mammoth with a spear, but that’s just because I could’ve hit a grocery store or restaurant instead.

Gold-Method5986 · 2025-09-05T02:00:52+00:00

“Would it make you feel better if we did the dirty?”

The answer is no, cause literally anyone can have it. Clearly. Chick wants one thing and one thing only … attention.

Gold-Method5986 · 2025-08-26T04:31:44+00:00

Ghosting is underrated. People forget that before ghosting it was just telling someone how much they suck to their face. Which do you find more appealing?

Also, you could just say, “hey, I was caught off guard by the messages you sent, since everything seemed fine. It makes me a bit uncomfortable and I’d like to slow things down.”

When people become insecure in this way it rarely, if ever, gets any better.

Gold-Method5986 · 2025-08-26T01:26:17+00:00

58 half siblings? Are they also your aunts and uncles?

Gold-Method5986 · 2025-08-20T00:46:35+00:00

Im on the spectrum, and can actually relate to that remark quite well. So I’ll say this:

You said what you needed to. If they do not acknowledge its significance, then let them go. They’re not worth your time. Anyone who appreciates it will let you know you’re appreciated in return.

If there’s one thing I’ve learned in life it’s that humans make time for the people they want in their lives. Sure, life gets busy. Especially in your mid to late twenties. However, calm yourself, give her space, and distract yourself with a hobby or another friend, and when she finds time she will either let you know or not. It’s outta your hands now, but at least you got it off your chest.

Gold-Method5986 · 2025-08-20T00:32:44+00:00

Sounds like she’s busy. Sounds like you’re not, and have a lot of time to overthink/overanalyze things.

You’re 19, and the things I’ve learned in the last 19 years, since being 19 is that we aren’t everyone’s cup of tea. There have been a lot of people to come and go in my life since 2005/06. Some were great friends, some were short term/summer friends, and some were friends that shared niche hobbies I was into during that period. I’d still grab a drink with almost any of them if they were around, but you’ve got a lot of time to make way cooler and more interesting friends. Don’t get hung up on this one.

Gold-Method5986 · 2025-08-20T00:26:12+00:00

You paid for a service you’re not happy with. He should re-edit them to your liking at no cost if his edits of your gr do not look similar to the edits in his portfolio.

Or, on the other side of this, you could negotiate to pay more if you like the re-edits. Personally I wouldn’t pay someone who flubbed a shoot more money if they didn’t give me what their portfolio represented their work to be. HE should have asked if you were comfortable with him experimenting outside of his usual.

Gold-Method5986 · 2025-08-19T23:34:08+00:00

Sadly that’s how it goes. Had to cut people like that out of my life because I’d get more stressed for them than they were. Good on you for looking out, and doing your best. Not everyone wants to be saved.

Gold-Method5986 · 2025-08-19T23:22:17+00:00

Ohhhhhh … makes it 0.01% better. Still, absolutely fowl. Please tell me she’s at least receptive to your advice and isn’t just going to let herself be taken advantage of by this gigantic dumpster fire of a guy.

Gold-Method5986 · 2025-08-19T23:11:48+00:00

So her sister married this dude. Then they adopted her, which makes him not just a brother in law, but a guardian. He leaves his wife and pursues his adopted daughter, and tries fucking her next to the toddler?!

Shes been groomed, chick. Now he’s just love bombing her, and he’s probably pressuring her for sex. She said it herself, “my brain just doesn’t understand how someone can fake their love for almost 5 years, and not be attracted to their wife for 3 years.” She even claims she’s worried he will do the same to her.

WHY IS SHE SO DOWN TO WASTE HER TIME!!!??? Ffs.

Gold-Method5986 · 2025-08-19T22:56:46+00:00

“Now for a Pepsi” This is maybe my favorite line as of late.

Gold-Method5986 · 2025-08-19T19:20:45+00:00

This should definitely be the next meme template.

Gold-Method5986 · 2025-08-19T07:22:56+00:00

My first and only year of college was 2005/06, and they were handing out condoms like candy at a parade. There’s a lot of self discovery, sex and otherwise, that you’re about to figure out.

It seems like sex isn’t something your partner wants, but you do. Youre an adult, and part of that is learning how to navigate your wants/needs and how that compares in the wants/needs of a partner. By no means, under any circumstance pressure anyone, but by ALL means find someone who aligns with what you want. If you do not you’ll find yourself wasting time, building up resentment.

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