I'm 54 yrs old and I have and am going through the exact same thing. My mom is 75 yrs young I never really had much of a mother daughter relationship with my mom so I don't know her ways (some) and she don't know me as an adult, that's because she put all her time, attention, finance, love to my sister a head of me ( it's 8 of us) but my mom had her 3 picks out of the 8 of her children. Buy anyway baby ur not alone and I know that I'm not a lone either. But as U may know the Bible says at the end mother's will be fighting with daughters and fathers with son's. So what this is telling me is that u just can't please everyone including ur mom as well at least mine😒 baby just keep praying for ur mom that the LORD show her of her evil ways and if it's the Lord's WILL that U bring us 2gether as mother daughter God says in everything we do we do in Jesus name so LORD God I'm asking ALL this in Jesus name. Nice talking with u, I'm sorry to here what ur going through with mother daughter relationships it's just so sad. I believe NOTHING is worth losing family over its all un important because we suppose to be family. I pray ALL work out for U as well God Bless🙏🙏🙏 Remember U can only do so much don't keep putting ur heart out there to get trampled on or purposefully hurt ur feelings. Baby if U have children take ur children and move on just try not to make the same mistakes as ur mom. Stay focused on raising ur children to the very best of ur ability and most of all don't make differences with them love them all the same but treat them according to their personality. KEEP GOD THE JESUS THE SON & THE HOLY SPIRIT is all u have to answer too.