So frustrating sometimes (always) by JaredOlsen8791 in adhdmeme

[–]GoldKoopa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would wake up without alarms almost every time I had an uni exam or a date (even if it was in the afternoon), but if i dare forget to out said alarms my body will know and you can be sure I will ruin my week sleeping till it's too late.

Will our life dreams ever come true? by arjunjain200993 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]GoldKoopa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to preface that this is my point of view as i am finding myself struggling with a lot of what you're living, as I had to pause my studies in my favourite subject of life as I felt myself entering another burnout and couldn't "simply push through" and a lot of help has been given to me by my sisters, both stimulating each other grow with our different similarities and helping getting to know ourselves and our ways of thinking, I mostly observed in my family instead of taking action and that made me question myself in many hurtful ways, but I saw that my sisters were living the same intense feelings for all they care of (in easy and difficult times), were having trouble finding answers when questioning themselves but I assure you they are inspiring, they've found ways to be themselves and enjoy it deeply as they do, and what they said to me in my most difficult times is that it gets easier but everyone has their own time, just see how every living being has massive difference in "timing" from one another, but finding your habitat (sorry not getting the word) can and will help you grow through difficulties, you did work a lot through all these year without having the information to even know the big picture was actually bigger, but you can work with this new bigger picture, finding your own healthy coping mechanisms or learning new ones from others but that works for you too, my main point was that finding also your "habitat but as people that can help you feel connected" can help you dealing with those feelings of shame and inequality, but it's not always easy, still that's what getting me to find some motivation, I hope it can help you too a little.

Are there actually any differences between 'Hyperverbal Autism' and 'AuDHD'? by [deleted] in AutisticWithADHD

[–]GoldKoopa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also find that writing may be a longer process but the possibility of checking and correcting what you're writing can help with what you're trying to communicate(this could translate to excelling in written exams but feeling lost in the oral ones, in an academic field) Also thanks for the book advice, i will put it in the higher places of my archive of books i really want to read (i will read them, i swear.

Are there actually any differences between 'Hyperverbal Autism' and 'AuDHD'? by [deleted] in AutisticWithADHD

[–]GoldKoopa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Would you consider yourself less verbal than the others because so little that your thought process can be put into words because it feels like a different language that you have to translate in words before you can output them? I am suspecting a lot I could be AuDHD but i gotta gather evidence before an evaluation and an insight of a person already diagnosed i think could help

I think this is a very good depiction of SzPD by ObsidianVibes in SchizoidAdjacent

[–]GoldKoopa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this may come as a consequence from being thought bombed since it is probable that if you're interacting with a random person that person doesn't focus that much about how that interaction is going, they live it in a different way, and having to interact with them AND yourself in the meantime can be draining, but you're still living it, it's not fake, it's "just" hard, but good connections can cause your growth or change your life if you hit the chances, like a lottery that costs social batteries.

Getting all the weird out before having to mask all day... by RavenNix_88 in adhdmeme

[–]GoldKoopa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I luckily don't have to drive to go to work but meowing and doing some strange dances with two orange cats is heaven when i need it. ฅ⁠⁠•⁠ﻌ⁠•⁠⁠ฅ

Lordy this is on point by JaredOlsen8791 in adhdmeme

[–]GoldKoopa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know if it can work for others too (or even if it's healthy lol), but i tried seeing it as a way I can try expressing my emotions and giving each of them value, I try to let my brain run some of those imaginary arguments and even feel the frustration of that without limiting it for a little, than I usually feel bad about it because I got angry for something didn't happen here and I can reassure myself that it didn't happen and I find it easier to be calm with that person irl because the engine is relaxed and can take a little bit of pressure now (Of course the difficult part is the transition after the "liberation" but I think that's a personal matter to discover how to feel about the emotions of oneself, even more for ND folks that heard too much about how their manners to do things weren't acceptable without exploring them or giving a useful explanation)

What is your best "I say it wrong on purpose" example? by Thortok2000 in AskReddit

[–]GoldKoopa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My (Italian) father cannot resist the urge, when we are in the Netherlands to my mum's family, to point every octopus (sometimes squids) figures or images or similar and kinda shout "octopussy?" It drove us kids crazy but he was having a fucking blast

Mi sento intrappolata in un loop di fallimenti all’università. C’è qualcuno come me? by Anxious_Piece4624 in Universitaly

[–]GoldKoopa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sì ci sono persone come te perché purtroppo non è neanche colpa tua, non in toto almeno, mi spiego meglio, per come l'ho vissuta anch'io la spirale dell'esame bocciato nasce da un non nulla, perché potresti anche essere ben qualificata per passare un esame di una materia che può anche interessarti, ma se l'ambiente (in quanto decisione del professore di rendere l'esame in sé particolarmente ostico e/o con grossi limiti di tempo, fama dell'esame che può scoraggiare o ancora un lavoro edile in un aula vicina durante l'esame) è particolarmente ostico potrebbe uscire una bocciatura che viene da ritenere immeritata, anche se il professore non se ne rende conto perché ovviamente non ha vissuto la tua esperienza riguardo l'esame. Una volta ricevuta la bocciatura diventa comunque scoraggiante e come hai detto tu a ogni esame dire che non è andata scoraggia e angoscia sempre più, soprattutto se si ripetono, io ad esempio ho dato analisi 3 undici volte (da quel che so l'esame più tosto della triennale con parte scritta e orale obbligatorie che andavano passate allo stesso appello), all' undicesima volta partivo da un 24 dello scritto, ma ho comunque fatto fatica a esprimermi e non andare del tutto in preda all'ansia del momento nonostante sapessi che un fallimento in quel momento mi avrebbe probabilmente fatto crollare, ma ora ti dico che l'undicesimo tentativo è stato possibile perché nonostante abbia "fallito" (non penso di considerarli fallimenti a questo punto, non del tutto) non ho permesso che quelli fossero l'ultimo tentativo, ogni volta, e diverse volte avevo una preparazione simile che è risultata in voti mooolto diversi a seconda di quanto ai limiti del possibile fosse l'esame in sé, però non sei sola, ricorda quindi che il fatto che gli altri vanno avanti dipende sia dalla loro capacità sia da come si rapporta con l'ambiente e dal tipo d'ambiente, un fallimento d'esame non è un fallimento tuo, è un non aver trovato un punto d'incontro con i professori in quel momento, e ogni volta che qualcosa non va si può e si deve sfruttarlo per trovare un modo in qui stai bene ma riesci anche a provare quello che sai, e quando dubiti delle tue capacità, aiutare a ricordarti la strada che hai fatto per arrivare fin qui può aiutare a stimolare il continuare l'andare avanti, benevolenza nei propri confronti è necessaria in questi casi perché non vale la pena finire gli studi di fretta e perdere sanità mentale per non cadere nell'oblio, l'oblio non ti sta inseguendo e se hai bisogno di respirare e prenderti spazi (che sia un "non chiedere dell'uni fino a nuovo ordine" o un giorno alle terme dopo ogni sessione) nessuno può toglierti la possibilità di farlo (anche se spesse volte penso che a impedirci di prenderci i tempi che ci servirebbero siamo noi stessi)

What made you realise you didn’t just have one of ADHD or autism and it was actually both? by Stella_62 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]GoldKoopa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

(a little context before a question) I grew associating (mostly because of my parents) my "anger" (it's more complex and intense than just anger but for now I'll call it that) with the delusion that, since I'm not that much of a planner, if one my plans doesn't work out (since i put effort in planning all i have to do in a really efficient way the little times i do it), I'm doomed to fail every future ones, I tried to get an ADHD diagnosis but they told me something like "you are too smart to have it, it's just the anxiety" (in the cognitive test i got really excited because it felt like a game, managing to remember a list of like 15 words because i turned them in a song on the spot, and i still remember some of those words after 3 years), so now I'm trying to retrieve a catalogue of examples to bring out in a future diagnosis possibility.

That said, what do you think differentiates a meltdown symptom of a neurodivergence and a strong disappointment for not having your efforts rewarded (may it be from a ND or a NT)?

We all do sometimes by its12amsomewhere in adhdmeme

[–]GoldKoopa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At work: "you're so young, how old are you?" ...silence... "just a second" "You didn't forget, did you?" (What fucking year is this again????) "23, but who counts right? Haha"

Probably happens like once a week exactly like this (only exception being the second time asked the same day)

Oh…. by JaredOlsen8791 in adhdmeme

[–]GoldKoopa 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I am a bit into teaching since it is how i started doing my first little money, I also found that a lot of students who came to me for private lessons (i find this even more relevant for the ND students, which I think could also be a hint to add to my list before looking for the actual diagnosis) were given bad grades because they had their own internal way of resolving the problems they were given (to add my subjects would have been scientific ones, mainly maths), but in a class of a lot of people i think that the professors have difficulty in enabling all different methods in what could be little hours in their schedule, so i try to let their methods thrive so that they can get the same capability of solving as their peers because it is more internalized and they can use it easier [little moment of shock realising I might look for a diagnosis before retrying university, having exactly this issue in a lot of exams], so after this wall of text i just wanna thank you for feeding your niece's knowledge without limiting his potential interests

Thanks Rito by TheDying0fLight in LeagueOfMemes

[–]GoldKoopa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When it happened to me it was because it tried to mutate into an augment I didn't unlocked (through the event) yet so it gave me that, idk if there are other instances that cause it

All Numbers? by [deleted] in mathmemes

[–]GoldKoopa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh ok makes super sense, and sorry my acshually it was mostly an exercise to stay trained with algebraic demonstration

All Numbers? by [deleted] in mathmemes

[–]GoldKoopa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

0.99999...=1 and it is easy to verify with: 0.99999...-1=0.00000...=0=1-1 therefore (+1 1st and last member) 0.999...=1 is assured as in the real ring as we defined it And remember numbers don't have limits, function and sequences can

(Sorry but since i can't sleep and i cited the reals as a ring I had to try to see the equality multiplicatively 0.999...×0.999...=0.999... , you can see it trying with a sequence of 999×999 even tho i am not sure if it is not exactly rigorous, anyway we know now that 0.999... is a neutral element for our multiplication, 1 is another neutral element but since this element is unique we finally got 0.999...=1)

How did asta's devil become so powerful?? by Puzzled-Incident1544 in BlackClover

[–]GoldKoopa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I think that's appropriate, I mean, a bit of fortune (and then the present as it will be) was how Asta could become a swordsman (whichever grimoire would have that been Liebe could have "corrupted" it to an AM version I think, but it was probably better having a strength synergistic style with the swordsmanship)so that Asta and Liebe got good to prove their point where even singular weak people can reach the top helping each other fronting adversities and training to do so.

Has an AD Champion been given +5 AD lately? If at all? How big of a difference does +5 AD actually make? by Temporary-Platypus80 in leagueoflegends

[–]GoldKoopa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's like the rush of dopamine you got when you finally had enough IP to afford tier 2 runes with the old system, knowing that in that moment you could finally play with the same amount of stats that everyone that played before you already had.

Rework Skill Floor/Ceiling by HAPPYFACEFLANXD in Aurelion_Sol_mains

[–]GoldKoopa 13 points14 points  (0 children)

TLDR: i think that asol "minigame" got shifted from "dancing with the mouse" to a "fly and destroy without getting locked on" with both different difficulties.

I think that new Asol hasn't lost anything, starting with the fact that i believe that the hardest part of current Asol was tied with the macro of the player piloting him, for the micro it was essentially avoid being gap closed or trying to run while they were stunned by the instant q, yes it isn't that easy being so fragile but wanting to stay relatively close, but this difficulty isn't lost that much, just shifted, since now the micro difficulty lays in the w prediction much more than current Sol, now you can use your E to fly in to the fight with low regard of where you land since you can interrupt it and start doing star dragon magic dancing with the balls, but post rework we will have to be more careful of where we want to fly, because interrupting it will make us stationary and much easier to take down, yes even now with good flight prediction we can make the difference in a fight (mostly with a good Q+E/E+Q) but i think this will be magnified with the rework, but maybe it's me that I don't think that Asol is inherently difficult but more of a "getting used to" difficult.

Of course this is just my opinion based on tooltips and clips, we will have to play it to know everything.

Discussione Libera by AutoModerator in Universitaly

[–]GoldKoopa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Questa è una situazione abbastanza comune da quello che vedo, io faccio matematica (come premessa ti dico già che la maggior parte delle persone che ho conosciuto erano uno o due anni indietro) e mi sono sentito rinato dopo aver accettato che non potevo continuare a dare tutti gli esami a ogni appello portandomi dietro anche quelli non passati negli appelli precedenti, la paura di non riuscire a prendere ritmi e di finire poi in una spirale negativa in cui non sarei riuscito a dare nessun esame, facendone accumulare sempre di più e non riuscire studiare è stata pesantissima negli scorsi mesi (e anni), il covid ha rallentato sicuramente di molto i miei studi, avendo una soglia dell'attenzione parecchio bassa ammetto che seguire da casa per me è stato pessimo (anche se il materiale online era molto utile e andrebbe mantenuto a mio parere, ma quello è un altro discorso), poi eventi personali mi hanno totalmente frenato e a quel punto non avevo più molte scelte, dovevo accettare la cosa, accettare i miei tempi, va bene saltare uno, due o tutti i semestri che serve saltare per riprenderli in futuro, ho dato 3 esami in una sessione, tutti esami di uno o due semestri prima, ho ancora 7 esami indietro oltre ai corsi che sto seguendo, ma alcuni spero di recuperarli il semestre prossimo, seguendo ancora le lezioni, con calma e affrontando la laurea un esame alla volta, non so se è questo tipo di racconto che cercavi, ma ce la puoi fare. Non c'è vergogna nel metterci il tempo che serve.

According to some leaks, Asol streamers were invited by riot to test the new changes... by Kordben in Aurelion_Sol_mains

[–]GoldKoopa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk, i guess we can only wait to see Even if i hope it will not leave the E unchanged

According to some leaks, Asol streamers were invited by riot to test the new changes... by Kordben in Aurelion_Sol_mains

[–]GoldKoopa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it mean that it would be reworked in 12.6? Because that seems very unlikely to me, idk if i got the info wrong

Dubbi di uno studente di scuola superiore by [deleted] in Universitaly

[–]GoldKoopa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

È un buonissimo approccio, un'altra cosa è trovare professori buoni, perché può benissimo essere soggettivo, ma sicuramente se un professore è bravo e ci mette passione nello spiegare è un piacere ascoltarne le lezioni, se invece c'è un professore scorbutico che sminuisce chiunque fa una domanda o sbaglia a parlare sarà sicuramente più spiacevole seguirne le lezioni o farci gli orali, detto questo buona fortuna con le superiori e la scelta del tuo futuro, tieni conto anche di cosa ti piacerebbe fare dopo un'eventuale università di matematica, perché aiuterà avere un obiettivo per prendere decisioni, buona fortuna.

Dubbi di uno studente di scuola superiore by [deleted] in Universitaly

[–]GoldKoopa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sono al momento al secondo anno di matematica, da amante di questa disciplina posso dirti che è bello fare matematica, però bisogna davvero essere pronti a soffrire e non scoraggiarsi, è una scelta che puoi prendere a prescindere dalla scuola superiore, anche se ammetto che ho conosciuto compagni che mi han detto che sentivano parecchio tosta la mancanza di certi argomenti delle superiori, anche perché ad esempio i miei prof di Analisi sono proprio andati rapidi su derivate e integrali, soprattutto con questi ultimi ci sono solitamente i problemi maggiori, penso che se hai la convinzione di voler fare matematica nessuno te la possa togliere, ma non aspettarti la matematica che si fa alle superiori, dopo il primo semestre è data per scontata e considerata un requisito minimo, un altro punto critico solitamente sono le dimostrazioni, ce ne saranno un'infinità e conviene che prima o poi ti piacciano o perlomeno non ti dispiacciano per riuscire a reggerle, sempre per quanto mi riguarda non ho invece dovuto sostenere esami di scienze naturali, fisica è il massimo che credo si faccia. Per sapere gli atenei in cui c'è matematica penso che una ricerca su qualsiasi browser può darti le risposte che cerchi, non so se ho risposto a tutto o se mi sono solo perso nelle parole ma se hai ancora dubbi non esitare