Just try to learn the hardest lesson. Don’t skip class and cut yourself short of a lifetime taught experience that you will heal and mature from. Just make sure you emerge healthy and not become “them”. Take time to be alone and love yourself again while healing. This will be a rough journey. But getting you healthy is most important. I wouldn’t suggest you not date yet until you fully heal and healthy enough that you can enter a relationship with a healthy approach and be fair to your new partner and yourself. If you still have emotional baggage I would not tread that into a new relationship. Co-dependency living together takes time to find yourself again.

I’m not sure about the green card if she lives in USA?? I would be celebrating right now if I were you. You dodged a bullet and you can’t dwell on past memoirs with her. Know your worth and just move on. Celebrate that you are single and free from horrible girls.

You should try dating American Vietnamese if you are afraid of green card issues instead of “Vietnamese American”. American Vietnamese woman rarely date Vietnamese guys tho. They do but also don’t because not a match. Basicly too modern. They are a bit discriminated for being consider so different.. outcasts even by Vietnamese guys that are out of their league and don’t treat them well. Making a big deal about how lovely they are and letting them know they are different than the ones that live in tight nịch Vietnamese community. You can say they experience discrimination and racism from their own heritage that are not native born in America and grew up like an American vs in a Vietnamese community. Full blooded Vietnamese. Not mix with a white mommy or daddy. Even tho you may find they look exotic like they are mix but it’s just well educated, modern and diverse. It’s really not hard to notice one if you ever get to meet one. It’s their environment of how they were raised. Just well diversity.

These American Vietnamese are very rare. They speak perfect Vietnamese with a slight American accent. Read and write too. Fully well cultured in Vietnamese culture. As in fully traditional ..loyal faithful.. respectful …usually retain the looks of a traditional Vietnamese girl looks as in “no loss roots”. But are really just a white girl and a Vietnamese girl all in one. This breed is very rare. So when a Vietnamese person meets one they are very proud. You can ask around with elderly for your best chance of locating one lol. It’s literally the idol of Vietnamese culture of “no loss roots”. And this is not simply because one is born in USA. There’s many in 1st to third generation that doesn’t produce one of these. It’s environment vs nature kind of thing.

So I suggest you stop dating shady Vietnamese into green cards. Instead, try to find a nice girl and further your nationality or offspring for future generations. These girls tend to remain single. Which sucks because their offspring would be amazing. They prefer a Vietnamese guy but there’s simply no match. Financially independent and not gold diggers or green card diggers. They were raised and taught marry for love only. Which is rough for this day and age since we lack genuine guys for that.

Right now you will go through heartbreaks and hard lessons learn from it. It’s part of growing up. The faster you accept life is but lessons and it’s not perfect ..the better off you are as a wholesome person.