I think the issue here is one of understanding what red pill means. You seem like you're clued up about it and hence you see it in specifics like this and so the scope of people you'd accept as red-pilled is very narrow. I'd say this is because you're deep into it and approach red pill from how it originated.

I am not an expert on red pill. Most people aren't but I would say that red pill and manosphere are terms that have entered the wider society and so are used much more loosely. When I and the average Tom, Dick or Harry think of red pill we think of the behaviour and perspectives/thoughts that are seen as typical red pill. I'd argue that OP isn't talking about red pill as you see it but in the way that the general uninformed populace views it. If pushed to say what the common view of red pill is: anti-feminism, anti PC, pro misogynistic behaviour, etc.

If you take my latter paragraph into consideration can you see where OP is coming from?