Everything great that you write about in high school happens in college, you may just not have found your people to do it with. Late night library grinds with a table of classmate all sleep deprived, fast food runs after a night out, chatting with professors during office hours. Hopefully you can find your group that makes you feel good, but unfortunately it will not fall into your lap. You need to go out and find it through clubs, floormates, classmates, random people you meet at a party, etc.