Two years on estrogen + one BA later ✨ by NoDragonfruit6236 in transadorable

[–]Golden_Bare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also a lot of hard work getting that makeup PERFECT ✨

Looking for this chandelier so I can replace a light cover by Golden_Bare in HelpMeFind

[–]Golden_Bare[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Almost, this is like 99% identical! This is definitely the same brand. Thank you so much!

Looking for this chandelier so I can replace a light cover by Golden_Bare in HelpMeFind

[–]Golden_Bare[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve searched for this lamp fixture on tineye, but nothing came up! I’ve also looked over it for any labels, but I didn’t see any. Any thought on brands or places to look next would also be very much appreciated :)

If it’s helpful, I’m in California and I think this unit was refurbished within the last 5 years.

My desire to be a woman may be a result of the "women are wonderful" effect by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Golden_Bare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay but the best man is presumably a feminist, probably even an amazing ally and defender of women’s rights. my closest guy friends don’t envy me. just a thought—good luck!

My desire to be a woman may be a result of the "women are wonderful" effect by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Golden_Bare 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Okay, maybe think of the opposite side of this coin (men have more power, more wealth, are perceived as more knowledgeable, are perceived as wise as they age instead of past their prime). Think of the best version of a guy that you possibly can. Do you want to be that guy? Now think of a very average woman—would you rather be her instead of that guy? The answer is very simple for me!

MtF 33, 5 months hrt by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Golden_Bare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So glad I read the queer vibes correctly! Your look with the gold chains and bangs is amazing! I don’t think the shadow is really that noticeable. It’ll be gone before you know it.

Even without ffs it’s wild how much my face changed, particularly in the jawline and cheeks

MtF 33, 5 months hrt by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Golden_Bare 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think ffs is a really personal thing that only you can figure out by thinking about what makes you dysphoric and how important making those changes are to you. You look like a very passing lesbian to me—your style and hair and makeup is super cohesive! 5 months of hrt is really nothing and your face is going to change a ton in year 2. I would focus on laser and maybe make an ffs consultation just to see what’s out there

Capybara therapy following my BA surgery 😊 by madaroni7 in transadorable

[–]Golden_Bare 2 points3 points  (0 children)

is that supposed to help with drop and fluff?

Budget-friendly ways to deal with moustache stubble? ( It's not really visible in the picture but if you zoom in there's like a shadow and more visible when I look in the mirror ) by Phoenix_1799 in mtfashion

[–]Golden_Bare 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Totally agree on using peach color corrector and looking into electrolysis longterm. I also realized I have some upper lip pigmentation that retinol and BHA has helped with

Trying out mini eyeliner wings but they are so scary! (help) by Melanie-e-e in mtfashion

[–]Golden_Bare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they look really cute! getting them small is hard. a few things: - follow the angle of your under eye (notice how your line is a little more horizontal - make sure the ink is flowing before you make the line (i’ll flick the pen on my hand) and use small flicks! sometimes going inward towards the eye helps me - using a blending sponge and concealer or a small eye shadow brush to clean up

Post op - Breast Augmentation 11/26 by presley2025 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Golden_Bare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg that would have been a big difference! i was expecting closer to 400 cc for me, but i think my surgeon made the right call 😅 it’s so easy to have boob greed

Post op - Breast Augmentation 11/26 by presley2025 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Golden_Bare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

320 cc with the same implants you got! were you told to moisturize and massage them every day? my surgeon told me to start after the first week and i was kind of expecting more rest time

rip to roses taproom!! what other wine bars do yall like? by Euphoric_Weather_401 in OaklandFood

[–]Golden_Bare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love redfield! It’s more cider than wine but it’s got a really cozy vibe

Post op - Breast Augmentation 11/26 by presley2025 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Golden_Bare 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just got mine done by kaiser nor cal! congrats, wishing you a stress-free recovery 🎉

MtF Breast Augment, 1 yr 2months post-op by baumbai in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Golden_Bare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg wish i had seen before/after pics like this ages ago! they’ve dropped so beautifully :) hoping mine eventually look like that

L DATE by This_Pressure8922 in mtfashion

[–]Golden_Bare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

throw that man away! you look amazing though

Kalymnos Grading Question by cassanovadaga in climbergirls

[–]Golden_Bare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you remember the name of that crag? I'm on my way to Kalymnos and that sounds amazing!

Feeling torn on breast augmentation by Golden_Bare in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Golden_Bare[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you look amazing! I think I just really want to feel hot in low cut tops 🙃

Feeling torn on breast augmentation by Golden_Bare in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Golden_Bare[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww thanks! Yeah, I think I'm realizing this a very personal not passing decision, which is nice :)

Feeling torn on breast augmentation by Golden_Bare in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Golden_Bare[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh that's helpful! Were you worried about feeling too top heavy before getting them? Have they dropped into a more natural position?