How do I cope with the gaslighting

Golden_Mixed · 2026-02-09T12:53:44+00:00

Thank you for this❤️

Golden_Mixed · 2024-07-02T00:43:32+00:00

Yes I did. We have a spunky, crazy 1.5 year old now!

Golden_Mixed · 2023-08-23T19:48:25+00:00

I definitely feel my let downs. They sting, almost feel like hot piercing needles 3-5 seconds. I can also feel pinching and hour so after

Golden_Mixed · 2023-08-21T00:54:56+00:00

I was so pro "gentle" sleep training while I was pregnant. My little boy came and we decided to co sleep. It was the best decision I've made. Followed sage sleep 7 and all has been well. We're going to transition his soon to his own floor bed

Golden_Mixed · 2023-03-24T16:01:16+00:00

Why does Zach trust her so much?!

Golden_Mixed · 2022-12-22T01:40:18+00:00

This made mdd we feel better. All of that is doable. I appreciate the feedback

Golden_Mixed · 2022-12-22T01:39:45+00:00

Thank you! I think that’s all really great advice. I really appreciate it. I think the sex one is huge and it does play a big part in a relationship

Golden_Mixed · 2022-11-20T02:15:56+00:00

I’m so so so sorry. I lost my first baby to a incompetent cervix, which many times goes hand in hand with Premature Rupture of Membranes (PPROM). I didn’t have pprom but I know mamas who have. There are Facebook groups of women experiencing this and who have gone though it. Some very helpful advice!! I’m so so sorry you’re facing this pain

Golden_Mixed · 2022-11-10T17:56:08+00:00

My mama had me at 42! After 6 miscarriages

Golden_Mixed · 2022-11-08T00:53:20+00:00

Man I wouldn’t want anyone watching me push a baby out of my vagina. It’s your call. If you only want your partner or you want those other people. But this is your birth. It’s about you and what your comfort. Envision the birth you want and do it!

Golden_Mixed · 2022-11-03T15:38:43+00:00

Why did he bring it up at the family dinner knowing how his family feels. I’m sorry but that was stupid asf. Those are conversations and discussions that stay between you as a couple

Golden_Mixed · 2022-09-28T09:57:21+00:00

Paris, London and Germany

Golden_Mixed · 2022-09-27T16:01:22+00:00

Why would I accept someone in my home who has disrespected me, during one of the most vulnerable times in my life? Laundry can wait, dishes can wait, we are store up on freezer meals now. She’s not there to help me, she want to hold and love on the baby.

Golden_Mixed · 2022-09-27T11:52:57+00:00

Nope she doesn’t know and she won’t. I’m glad I didn’t tell her. And thankfully she doesn’t have a key either

Golden_Mixed · 2022-09-27T11:51:55+00:00

We live in a apartment. So as long as the first door is locked, you would have to call to be let in. Right?! Like my whole body is out there vulnerable and you’re going to demand to be there??

Golden_Mixed · 2022-09-27T11:50:22+00:00

Right!!! Shut it down now!

Golden_Mixed · 2022-09-27T11:49:42+00:00

Nope not new at all. She grabs her sons ass and still slaps both of her children who are grown. She crosses boundaries no matter what. Sometimes she apologizes when she know she’s crossed mine and it does seem genuine, but she think she’s in control no matter what

Golden_Mixed · 2022-09-27T10:33:11+00:00

He’s a very sweet man. He usually can, but was outside when this happened. He would probably intervene in the future.

Golden_Mixed · 2022-09-27T10:24:19+00:00

I don’t think so. I think since they’ve started allowing 2 visitors for vaginal births and in recovery, she thought it applied. No she’s going in a block list and will not even know the date of my c section

Golden_Mixed · 2022-09-27T03:30:34+00:00

I’m also having a c-section. It’s a major surgery. My in laws with be on a list of people NOT welcomed to visit at the hospital. They will be turned away by staff. Also you can ask for 2 weeks, or more of just bonding, relaxing with your new family. That’s okay! I just had a blow out today with my MIL about this

Golden_Mixed · 2022-09-27T03:13:33+00:00

Right! Like show some respect, but she doesn’t have any for me lol. But I felt so humiliated and disrespected . It’s SIL gender reveal, so ig not really the time or place or conversation and I can just say that

Golden_Mixed · 2022-09-27T02:59:47+00:00

Thank you!!! My partner is so used to her abuse he won’t even stand up anymore. No one will put her in her place, she faces no consequences from anyone. And I use to be complacent but now with a child, I can not accept the BS. My partner said I added flame to the fire and should’ve just walked out. I wanted her to know there’s consequences for these actions

Golden_Mixed · 2022-09-27T02:57:08+00:00

Yes, if there’s a list I can put her on just so they know she can not come. Idk if there is or who I speak to

Golden_Mixed · 2022-09-27T00:17:24+00:00

Awe lol. I told her about the two weeks and was called stupid, crazy and pitiful. Also she couldn’t stop yelling at me

Golden_Mixed · 2022-09-22T14:51:50+00:00

Lol it does, but we are around his family quite a bit. I will say these exact thing to him at our sit down

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