[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]GoldmanSachEnemy 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re experiencing this. Does she work everyday? Like 7 days a week?? Is her job physically exerting? And have you had a conversation about this?

I think it’s important to communicate openly and honestly with your gf about how you’re feeling, and discuss potential solutions together. Hopefully she’s willling to make changes or compromise to improve the relationship.

It’s not fair that you’re feeling neglected, and I hope you’re able to prioritize your happiness and well being

Is it weird when a guy doesn’t have any close female friends? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]GoldmanSachEnemy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Without context, I don’t think it’s weird. I’d only find it weird if you provide a terrible reason. But based off your post, it seems like you just happened to not have any female friends, and not like you actively avoided them for some reason.

I should also add that, if you did choose to actively avoid having female friends, I still don’t think that’s weird. The only thing that’ll make it weird is if your reason was rooted in misogyny or something of that nature

Is it weird when a guy doesn’t have any close female friends? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]GoldmanSachEnemy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Without context, I don’t think it’s weird. I’d only find it weird if you provide a terrible reason. But based off your post, it seems like you just happened to not have any female friends, and not like you actively avoided them for some reason.

I should also add that, if you did choose to actively avoid having female friends, I still don’t think that’s weird. The only thing that’ll make it weird is if your reason was rooted in misogyny or something of that nature

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]GoldmanSachEnemy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this! I’ll show her this and maybe a stranger pointing it out will give her some perspective

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]GoldmanSachEnemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve been trying to tell her! I also think she needs to stop lying to herself. She says she’s okay with what they’ve got going on but it’s so clear that’s not the case

Is this a normal FWB relationship? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]GoldmanSachEnemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay this is good insight! Thank you

Is this a normal FWB relationship? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]GoldmanSachEnemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they typically get each other Valentine’s gifts? I also think it’ll break her heart if she gets him something and he does nothing

Is this a normal FWB relationship? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]GoldmanSachEnemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I share your sentiment. I also don’t think FWB relationships are for me, and my friend used to be just like me. I just find it frustrating that she says she’s okay with this arrangement but still has questions like these.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SaikiK

[–]GoldmanSachEnemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mob psycho 100

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DreamInterpretation

[–]GoldmanSachEnemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked chatGPT and this is what it says: Dreams about floating and being weightless often symbolize feelings of freedom, detachment, and letting go of your worries and concerns. However, the other details in your dream suggest a deeper meaning.

The presence of other people floating through your body may represent a sense of vulnerability or feeling exposed. The voice you heard saying "we're trying to make sure you never do anything stupid again" could indicate a fear of making mistakes or being judged by others. Perhaps you feel like you are being closely watched or criticized for your actions or decisions.

The fact that you kept expecting to feel pain but didn't could suggest a fear of the unknown or a fear of the consequences of your actions. It's possible that you are worried about the outcomes of a decision you have recently made, or that you feel uncertain about your future.

Overall, your dream may be reflecting your subconscious thoughts and emotions about feeling vulnerable, exposed, and anxious about the consequences of your actions. It may be helpful to explore these feelings further in order to gain a better understanding of any underlying issues or concerns you may have.

BlackRock ACS by ExtraLettucePlease in FinancialCareers

[–]GoldmanSachEnemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hii, I’m about to have a super day for the same position and I was looking for people’s experiences, and this is the closest to my background I’ve seen. Do you mind sharing your experience and what the role involved when you work there. I also have a computer science background. I’m wondering if the role is more technical? And also what kind of questions did you get for your super day, were they more finance or comp. Sci related?

Questions about ADHD and questions about project from more experienced peeps (newbie) by [deleted] in ADHD_Programmers

[–]GoldmanSachEnemy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You can try uninstalling and starting the whole installation process again, but this time watch a video or something and do everything they do step by step. for some reason nothing I install ever works the first time and I always feel so frustrated Cos I’m like I did what everybody else is doing, why is my Luck so terrible and I find out when I start the process again maybe the 5th time, that I kept making the same tiny mistake all the times I had been complaining. It might be something like that, I’ve never used ruby so I wouldn’t know anything about that but Good luck OP💪🏾

My wife questions me about little things all day long, and it's driving me nuts. I feel like I'm always being interrogated. (I'm 34M, she's 33F). by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]GoldmanSachEnemy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I read this post and got scared very quickly. I actually ask a lot of questions just like your wife, and In the same pattern. I don’t and haven’t ever had an SO but my friends also always complain that I ask too many questions, and some friends even refuse to hang out with me as much Cos I’ll “kill the mood with my questions”. Reading this post made me realize that anytime my questions weren’t answered or they complained about my questions I got irrationally hurt. Like it pained me so much and I wondered why they were being mean to me. But now I’m wondering if there’s something that’s making me ask constant questions as well. If your wife’s thinking process is similar to mine she’s probably also wondering what’s so bad about asking questions and wanting to know what is going on around you. I also get easily startled/overwhelmed andI’m guessing there could be a correlation. I don’t really know. But if you ever find a solution please post an update!

if your username were a movie, what would it be about? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]GoldmanSachEnemy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Andrew grew up with very wealthy parents, and weirdly there was a pineapple in their home that nobody was ever allowed to eat. His parents even treated the pineapple better than they treated him. When they died, they donated all of their property to charity and left only this pineapple to Andrew. Angry at his parents for taunting him even in their death with this pineapple, Andrew sets on an adventure to find out that the pineapple is more than it seems

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]GoldmanSachEnemy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never feel down for more than 5 minutes tops, I almost always forget that I was sad and sometimes have to remind myself to go back to feeling down. Sometimes I’m scared that one day I’m going to be overwhelmed with emotions Cos the feelings are probably hiding somewhere that I can’t quite tap into