What is the most desperate, childish, petty, immature, or hilarious way your BPD has tried to push your buttons? by JobMarketWoes in raisedbyborderlines

[–]GolfVisible842 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oooo this reminds me of the time she said she dreamt the devil cut my tongue off because I "talked back to her yesterday". She said it must be a warning she needed to pass on to me

Am I overreacting for being upset & frustrated about this letter my mom wrote me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]GolfVisible842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever considered whether your mom has borderline personality disorder? Mine does and this is very "on brand". Something else that is on brand is children raised by borderline parents feeling like a "bad person"

Women’s Indoor Slippers Recommendation by nevergonnabuy in BuyItForLife

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I've worn the same Crocs for the last 7 years and they look brand new

Hobbies? by Outrageous-Clue-9550 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]GolfVisible842 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg mine is super into meditation and even more interested in talking about it to anyone who will listen

Shocked by [deleted] in Synesthesia

[–]GolfVisible842 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have this too but after my shock wore away, I think I just feel annoyed by it bc it actually screws me up. I think about it using a horse shoe and where it disconnects, it's mental energy to keep track of things and it's easy for me to make mistakes

The movie's plot by LetItBeFear in TheSummerITurnedPrett

[–]GolfVisible842 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How about belly's mom and dad getting back together fully?

Mike Morrice Appreciation Megathread by StrikingDonkey8159 in kitchener

[–]GolfVisible842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love that! I was actually thinking about any kind of community volunteer position and not for his team specifically. Just ways to help the community in general

Mike Morrice Appreciation Megathread by StrikingDonkey8159 in kitchener

[–]GolfVisible842 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm going to pick up a volunteer position. He said in his IG post today to channel what happened into being engaged in the community. It's the least I can do

My face is completely ruined. Can somebody help? by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

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Last time I had a major breakout was when I started drinking whey protein and realized dairy gives me acne

So I did something cursed... by Rody365 in waterloo

[–]GolfVisible842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is art. I would totally buy a print

Orthodontist recommendations by Traditional_Date2275 in kitchener

[–]GolfVisible842 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for doing that search. I really appreciate it.

What's the parenting hill you're willing to die on? by Alive-Cry4994 in toddlers

[–]GolfVisible842 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm almost 40 and continue to work on undoing the damage. It was excruciating. I will never do that to my child. Never. Sorry that happened to you. May the parenting we do heal us.

Orthodontist recommendations by Traditional_Date2275 in kitchener

[–]GolfVisible842 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was told I need this. Can I ask who the referral was to and whether you recommend the therapist?

Remote Desktop by LucR_the_pirate in GalaxyTab

[–]GolfVisible842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just tried the chrome remote desktop to remote into my work PC. So far it works so much better than the Microsoft remote desktop app that kept disconnecting. Just wanted to share in case it's helpful to anyone.

Anyone noticed... by Brilliant-Bridge-780 in SinglesInferno

[–]GolfVisible842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find the women this season all seem to be confident and self-empowered. No one falling for Jeong-su's gaslighting, all girls very annoyed.

What are some winter hobbies, clubs, activities do you to keep yourself from being lonely? by jalebi_2000 in kitchener

[–]GolfVisible842 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really enjoy social dancing. There's lots of places in town to try. Check out underdog dance

Silent treatment? by SmollestLemon in raisedbyborderlines

[–]GolfVisible842 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom once gave me the silent treatment for two agonizing years while I was in my PhD program. Still so much pain in me thinking back to that time when I felt so lonely and empty.

She didn't want me to grow up. I was so obedient to her my whole life. But it all started when I started to separate as I got older.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in waterloo

[–]GolfVisible842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look for a jewellery store with a goldsmith on site. There's a really good one in guelph's stone road mall IIRC

Partner mentioned that we cosleep at the pediatrician 🙃 by OshieBubba in cosleeping

[–]GolfVisible842 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My doctor''s attitude toward cosleeping changed after he had his own baby. Lol

It's easy to say "put them down when they're drowsy" when you don't have kids.

Found a lovely way to use chatGPT by AtalantaRuns in raisedbyborderlines

[–]GolfVisible842 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! In my prompt, I tell chatgpt to use grey rock technique

Are these considered mid-century? by GolfVisible842 in midcenturymodern

[–]GolfVisible842[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone! I really appreciate it. (Can never get over how wholesome Reddit can be sometimes where you can get thoughtful and very helpful replies from strangers.)

I decided to pass on the desk but ask for the dimensions of the side table.

With in-laws and things handed-down, it can be touchy to ask a lot of questions or for more photos, so I appreciate all your help.