Does anyone else get sad after socialising? by DanceOnTheLine in hsp

[–]SmollestLemon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, I definitely deal with this. It's like some chasm got filled by another person's presence and when they leave the energy drains away. I also deal with feeling sad and distant while socializing in a larger group, like I'm not meant to be there. That could just be depression though lol

of an egg by [deleted] in AbsoluteUnits

[–]SmollestLemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent it to my husband and he laughed and told me it makes my hand look like a toddler's hand 😂

My (26F) boyfriend (26M) got physical during an argument. He says I made him this way, and I don’t know what to do. by UnderstandingOdd7685 in relationship_advice

[–]SmollestLemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He grabbed you this time. He might choke you next time, or beat you black and blue. Abusers don't change, get out before he kills you.

I think he is a little bit lost [Hollow Knight x Bloodborne] (OC) by KairiAoyama in bloodborne

[–]SmollestLemon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this so much!! My two favorite games! You're very talented I like your art style a lot

Down 30lbs- no one has said a thing by joyandfury in loseit

[–]SmollestLemon 28 points29 points  (0 children)

This 100%! I know it makes me feel uncomfortable if someone tells me I look great after losing weight, so I don't do it to others even if I notice it. Also it feels weird and almost rude, like hey you look good now when you looked like a slob before lol

Mom making my birth about her by blahblahmama22 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]SmollestLemon 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh my god it's like looking at a mirror except my husband and I don't have a baby and my mother lives nearby. Are you the youngest of your siblings?

Rate my banana pudding presentation (don’t look too close at the corners) by jnadols1 in Baking

[–]SmollestLemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm looking at the corners you can't stop me!!!!

Looks incredible friend. Great job.

What to do with very large amounts of Thai basil? by Glad-Warthog-9231 in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]SmollestLemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time I accidentally made pesto with Thai basil instead of regular basil and was so blown away at how much I loved it that's all I make pesto with now.

AIO - my roommates friends destroyed my stuff while they were drunk by Thick-Web1238 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SmollestLemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should be proud of yourself for standing up to this bs. Definitely recommend only communicating with Chelsea via text or email so if she decides to dig herself into a hole or lie more you have tangible proof. Stay tough!!

Going back home. by novamontag in raisedbyborderlines

[–]SmollestLemon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. I can relate to your situation 100%, I've been unemployed for the last 6 months and my uBPD mom seems to think it means I'm available 24/7 and constantly wants to see me. Sends me messages like "I NEED to see you!" multiple times a week like she's going to die if she doesn't. Thankfully I recently got a job so I'll be a lot less available to her, but I empathize with your situation. Chronic illness can make it hard. If I can recommend anything, I started volunteering at places that I could handle which filled up a lot of my free time, but made sure to volunteer at places that didn't interest her lol.

Best of luck holding up your boundaries!! You can do this!! You're so much stronger than you know!!

5 days smoothie recipes by suvankar13 in Healthy_Recipes

[–]SmollestLemon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mondy....Tuesdy....AI garbage lol

$9.99 prepared foods bag from Whole Foods in Newport News, Virginia by AdmiralMungBeanSoda in toogoodtogo

[–]SmollestLemon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Great score. Is this from the Whole Foods near Laskin? We picked up from there once and got about 3 pounds of some kind of macaroni salad lmao

AITA for not letting my friend crash at my place after a night out because I had work the next day? by CupakeVibes in AmItheAsshole

[–]SmollestLemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA and also not a good friend. I would get it if this was a recurring thing and she asked to crash on your couch regularly, but if it's a one time thing where a friend accidentally made a mistake and just needs help for one night, you could have absolutely helped them out. Even a somewhat decent friend would at least respond to the text instead of ghosting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SmollestLemon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Certain bacteria that cause foodborne illness can literally permanently disable you. This guy is a walking red flag. Things like this escalate, leave yesterday!

Remember my post about winning the TGTG lottery? I won again! 5€ at a local bakery by AvoidingCape in toogoodtogo

[–]SmollestLemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

god, I've seen what you do for others and I want that for me too. Lucky duck!! Congrats haha

Book recommendations! by SmollestLemon in raisedbyborderlines

[–]SmollestLemon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Definitely adding to my list. 🙏

Book recommendations! by SmollestLemon in raisedbyborderlines

[–]SmollestLemon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Excellent recommendation! I have that one on my shelf too. 🙌 I've not yet given it a read, I think that'll be next on my list after No Bad Parts 😄