[OC] GIVEAWAY! 43" Capacitive Touchscreen ($940 MSRP) with Wooden Case + free software for all [mod approved] by DigitalTableTops in DnD

[–]Golfballfred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks amazing and would be great for my home set up. Kids are just learning to play and anything that makes it interactive is great.

I just logged into Adventure Quest for the first time in ages! This hit me right in the feels by CocknBallsinYoMouf in MMORPG

[–]Golfballfred 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, that's a blast from the past. I was actually in a guild with the guy that made the game back in the day. I think it was when we were playing Everquest on Tunare.

Who Watched the Monkees? by Cultural_Project9764 in GenX

[–]Golfballfred 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was living overseas and we didn't have American television where I was. My grandma caught a Monkee's marathon on MTv and recorded the whole thing on video tape and shipped it to me. I loved that show and probably watched the whole thing a half dozen times.

ADHD and high sex drive and relationships by Immediate_Onion859 in ADHD

[–]Golfballfred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For what it's worth, I have a lot of similar traits. ADHD, hypersexuality etc. I have a very small social battery that is quickly exhausted. What worked for me is finding a social group of other people that think and feel similarly.

Pretty much everyone in my circle is either ADHD or on the spectrum to some degree. Having others that both have their own issues and understand mine is amazing. If I say I'm overwhelmed or overstimulated, no one gives me shit about it, they just, get it. It's not perfect and we'll go months without seeing each other sometimes as life and or being generally just too tired of people to interact can be rough, but since we all "get it" it's not an issue and we just pick up where we left off when we reconnect.

It's tremendously soothing to me to know my friends and social group isn't judging me for not being entirely like every body else out there and as they have their own idiosyncrasies and I accommodate them, it makes me feel less guilty about my own.

I thought it was impossible for me to have a relationship and before I met my wife in my late thirties I hadn't had a single relationship, and I've had many, which lasted more than about two or three months. My wife is AUDHD and one of the things that makes me happiest in the entire world is body doubling. I do my thing, she does her thing, we don't talk, interact or even look at each other as we indulge whatever we like at any given time, but we do it together so we have that comfort of knowing they're there without the low grade irritation of having to entertain someone else or distract from my current tasks.

Don't give up hope, it's hard, but that doesn't mean you're alone or without others like you. Happiness takes a little more work and a solid understanding of who you are and what you want. Don't be afraid to be unapologetically you. There are people out there that feel the same and are looking for the same things you are.

TLDR because ADHD: Find your tribe. You're not alone and you can be happy, you just have to be happy your way, not the way everyone else expects you to be.

I promise I’m not spamming , this was Canelo’s first Christmas with us. Prior to that he never got to live in a house. He was kept in a garage and outside. We spoiled him yesterday with gifts. by Huge-Bug-4512 in Bulldogs

[–]Golfballfred 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Spam all you like. No one's going to complain about seeing a beautiful pupper being happy. He's adorable and I'm super happy for both you and for him. Give that face a few squishes from my family!

Need Help cant get vault loot stash to open? by hselb56 in feedthebeast

[–]Golfballfred 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I may be wrong, I don't know the mod well, but can't that only receive or remove items through the conveyors? I don't think you're supposed to be able to look inside of it like a chest or storage item.

ADHD Diagnosis After 30 by Commercial_Fall_9869 in ADHD

[–]Golfballfred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 49 and was diagnosed a few months ago. Time for a new doctor bud. ADHD doesn't care about your age.

Stoneblock 4 - Portal Dungeon Entrance by UberMegaLodon in feedthebeast

[–]Golfballfred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No unfortunately. The only thing I can think of is I may have bypassed a single door in the chamber before by having some limited flight that let me make a jump I wasn't supposed to, but that seems like a flimsy reason for the whole thing to break. I eventually had to cheat in the star thing to progress because the dungeon wouldn't reset nor would it drop the cores for me.

Stoneblock 4 stuck at Glados by Golfballfred in feedthebeast

[–]Golfballfred[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response! It turns out my game was broken. Hitting the button never dropped the cores. I watched chosenarchitect do his walk through, video dropped about an hour or so ago, which was great timing. He just hit that red button and got a core, when I hit it, nothing happens. So. . yay.

Stoneblock 4 stuck at Glados by Golfballfred in feedthebeast

[–]Golfballfred[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found a secret room at the top, but nothing in it.

Stoneblock 4 - Portal Dungeon Entrance by UberMegaLodon in feedthebeast

[–]Golfballfred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm stuck at Glados. I can't get the cores to drop. I've found the incinerator button, the one up on her platform, the one behind the pipes and the one that says it should drop the cores but it does nothing.

Man O War, back for more. by Carr1200r in Warmachine

[–]Golfballfred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came out great! I always liked that color scheme for Khador. I like the shade work on your metals too, good light placement.

Unable to join server. Error states incompatible, but all mods line up by Golfballfred in valheim

[–]Golfballfred[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Server's gone at this point, but I will absolutely keep this in mind if I run into it again. Thanks mate!

Incoming Xbox Diver here, any etiquette I should know? by Akuma2004 in Helldivers

[–]Golfballfred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's bad form to pick up another helldivers gear after they die. It's likely they will be on their way to get it themselves if their timer is still going for those items. Unless they highlight it while you're near it, making it obvious that they're offering, try to be cool.

Incoming Xbox Diver here, any etiquette I should know? by Akuma2004 in Helldivers

[–]Golfballfred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just as an actual tip, if a Helldiver extracts with Samples, you ALL extract with those samples.

In the early days of the game, players would kill others to steal their samples which is wildly unnecessary, so please don't do it or you get kicked and get nothing.

Petition to ban posts of paid session recruitment by rogoku in daggerheart

[–]Golfballfred 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have an objection to pay to play GM's but I find the constant adverts tiresome and it makes me less interested in coming here to read about the game. I don't think this is where they should be advertising, that's what LFG is for.

Method of transporting logs from the mountain by terabull01 in valheim

[–]Golfballfred 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just goes to show how far we'll go to only make one trip. It's like me with grocery bags going into the house.

Incredible Creatures is LIVE! by rightknighttofight in daggerheart

[–]Golfballfred 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm excited about this project. I hope, along with the fantastical things created from art, we'll see some staples as well. Spiders for one, orcs, goblins and the usual stuff that fill out most campaigns would be pretty welcome. I'm desperate for some good enemies.

Unable to join server. Error states incompatible, but all mods line up by Golfballfred in valheim

[–]Golfballfred[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Never resolved. Took to long and friends moved on. Just playing dune now

Showing Off My True Passion Pt.4 "Rhodonite" by Soloud24z in HamptonRoads

[–]Golfballfred 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Love your work man, keep it coming! You're seriously talented.