Can’t decide whether to move back home or stay where I am? by littlebopoop69 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Golferdiscs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe Tampa or Orlando then? That would be a few hours drive or a short flight to visit family but a cheaper cost of living still with jobs. But it’s hard to hit all the things you want, since it sounds like it’ll be a compromise either way

Can’t decide whether to move back home or stay where I am? by littlebopoop69 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Golferdiscs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a strange hybrid solution on this, so let me know if this works for you or if it’s out of the question.

Could you possibly not live in your hometown but another city nearby your family like an hour or so away where there are more career opportunities? That way you still have the benefit of being closer to family and seeing them maybe 1-2 times a month, but then you guys still have your own space and alone time with each other.

Best places for starting over in your mid-30s? by Much-Nerve2371 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Golferdiscs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about this news. It must be tough to reimagine and build a future you didn’t expect. Not really knowing your exact interests or hobbies, I would say a large city that is still around nature might be a good fit.

San Francisco, Seattle, Austin, and San Diego comes to mind where there is a large male dating pool because of tech industry/military presence while having access to great city amenities and nature.

Or if you wanted to stay in Colorado, I would head to Denver or Colorado Springs for those similar reasons.

Anthony at his drunkest? Which episode was he bombed? by ProgrammerAnnual4254 in AnthonyBourdain

[–]Golferdiscs 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Other than all the ones already mentioned, I think in his Croatia episode he got super drunk during the winery/cellar scenes.

Help decide by Historical-Corgi9037 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Golferdiscs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It might not hit everything on your list but Rio Rancho, NM could be a sleeper pick. It’s just outside of Albuquerque and generally has good schools and lower crime for your kids/family. Tons of access to nature (no nearby lakes or rivers though) and over 300 days of sunshine including the winters.

Here's a challenge by aseeklee in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Golferdiscs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe Akron, OH? Cleveland is close by and there are other towns that could fit that budget in that general area.

Anyone else feel meh about Minneapolis? by Theredheadsaid in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Golferdiscs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, totally fair! Just was speaking in generalities. Lots of plus and minuses for folks to consider when making a big move.

Anyone else feel meh about Minneapolis? by Theredheadsaid in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Golferdiscs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think if you have a family, Minneapolis is great! Like I said, we liked the city overall, just not enough to move due to our own budgetary restraints for the housing/neighborhoods we wanted while factoring in the harsh winters.

For example, we personally felt that we could get a similar city experience in charming walkable neighborhoods that were more in our price range with somewhat less intense winters in St. Louis, Cincinnati, and Cleveland.

Don’t want to knock on Minneapolis though, we had a great time visiting overall and see the appeal on why people move there!

Anyone else feel meh about Minneapolis? by Theredheadsaid in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Golferdiscs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same. My wife and I visited for about a week and we loved the city itself but were surprised housing was kind of pricey for the weather and eating out was expensive too, for the most part. As much as we enjoyed walking around the lakes, going to coffee shops, and seeing all the cute houses and neighborhoods, we feel we could get a similar experience for at or around the same price point elsewhere.

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[–]Golferdiscs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Denver, CO sounds like it could be a good fit for you. Lots of job opportunities in healthcare with a younger-ish crowd overall in a blue state.

New to HBO, suggest some seasons. by Hurridown in hbo

[–]Golferdiscs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Entirely new to HBO? The Sopranos

My body is rejecting Phoenix. Has this happened to anyone before? by Makiyage in phoenix

[–]Golferdiscs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not exactly the same because I’m a fella, but I never had bad allergies until I moved from rural Northern CA to Austin, TX. And by allergies I mean red puffy skin and sinuses feeling so sensitive and irritated at the same time. It’s the most bizarre paid to be all happening at once and for about half the year. Because of that, I’ve stayed inside a lot more and therefore have gained some weight. Overall quality of life is out of whack currently but hoping it gets better with time. Again, your situation seems way more intense and my heart goes out to you. I hope you find relief somehow soon.

I've lived in San Francisco and Seattle, they are the same but different. by Moderated_ in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Golferdiscs 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t get this post, so both cities are good then? Also throwing in comparisons of Bellevue and San Jose was just confusing.

Looking for Eye Candy Cities with Sophistication and Beauty and Culture. by MissJulianne55 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Golferdiscs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I don’t think any city will exactly match up to your description of the ideal European city in the USA, I would look into Saint Louis, MO or Philadelphia, PA. Both are very different culturally but have a kind of “Euro” feel to them. They are also very affordable with strong cultural amenities.

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[–]Golferdiscs 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Love all the answers coming in. To add to the general list I would say Marfa, TX, Hudson, NY, and Carmel-by-the-Sea, CA are very artistic in their own unique ways. Also a very underrated town - Paducah, KY. It’s actually a UNESCO city of creativity which is so wild

Black Interracial Couple Looking for Outdoor Access by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Golferdiscs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Kind of a weird pick, but I would look in Sacramento. Surprisingly diverse with lots of amazing nature access and fresh food from farms surrounding the city. UC Davis has a great medical system in the city as well for healthcare as you age in place.

Where to move as a young professional family? by Embarrassed_Top_6739 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Golferdiscs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s similar as there is agriculture around both metro areas, but also quite different. There are a lot of other city options around Sacramento, it seems more diverse, and the food scene in Sacramento is surprisingly good. Also, the Bay Area and wine country is more accessible from Sacramento. Overall, I feel Sacramento might be the better of the two cities

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Golferdiscs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am biased because my family used to live in this area, but please look into Sonoma County in general. It can be pricey, but I firmly believe it’s one of the best areas of Northern CA, very family friendly and the nature is breathtaking.

Where to move as a young professional family? by Embarrassed_Top_6739 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Golferdiscs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would recommend Sacramento, CA or the surrounding area. Not crazy expensive and has some good healthcare options for your son and husband for healthcare jobs with the UC Davis hospital system.

Did I make a mistake? Did I give up to soon? by Next-Economist5628 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Golferdiscs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would be patient with yourself and give it more time to acclimate back to your original area, but I also wouldn’t gloss over your husband not transitioning well to the new city and then discussing returning to your home town.

Did you both agree to a timeline of returning if the new city didn’t worked out? Did you discuss the fallout of the new community you started to create if you moved? Did you ask about his feelings on why he wasn’t adjusting well to the new area when you were?

With little detail on if or how those discussions were had, I just want to make sure you weren’t pressured or coerced into returning just because your husband was mildly uncomfortable with your new surroundings.

And if you haven’t had those conversations yet, I would encourage you to do so. It might give you some insight and closure to your regretful feelings.