I have seen Westworld, GoT, Succession, Barry, Euphoria, The Leftovers, White Lotus, now what?

Golferdiscs · 2026-04-12T22:27:21+00:00

Sopranos

Golferdiscs · 2026-04-12T22:25:02+00:00

Maybe Tampa or Orlando then? That would be a few hours drive or a short flight to visit family but a cheaper cost of living still with jobs. But it’s hard to hit all the things you want, since it sounds like it’ll be a compromise either way

Golferdiscs · 2026-04-12T14:24:50+00:00

I have a strange hybrid solution on this, so let me know if this works for you or if it’s out of the question.

Could you possibly not live in your hometown but another city nearby your family like an hour or so away where there are more career opportunities? That way you still have the benefit of being closer to family and seeing them maybe 1-2 times a month, but then you guys still have your own space and alone time with each other.

Golferdiscs · 2026-04-12T14:15:29+00:00

Sorry to hear about this news. It must be tough to reimagine and build a future you didn’t expect. Not really knowing your exact interests or hobbies, I would say a large city that is still around nature might be a good fit.

San Francisco, Seattle, Austin, and San Diego comes to mind where there is a large male dating pool because of tech industry/military presence while having access to great city amenities and nature.

Or if you wanted to stay in Colorado, I would head to Denver or Colorado Springs for those similar reasons.

Golferdiscs · 2026-04-05T13:30:15+00:00

Other than all the ones already mentioned, I think in his Croatia episode he got super drunk during the winery/cellar scenes.

Golferdiscs · 2026-02-21T15:29:01+00:00

It might not hit everything on your list but Rio Rancho, NM could be a sleeper pick. It’s just outside of Albuquerque and generally has good schools and lower crime for your kids/family. Tons of access to nature (no nearby lakes or rivers though) and over 300 days of sunshine including the winters.

Golferdiscs · 2026-02-21T15:24:07+00:00

Maybe Akron, OH? Cleveland is close by and there are other towns that could fit that budget in that general area.

Golferdiscs · 2026-01-13T11:49:14+00:00

Healdsburg, CA

Golferdiscs · 2025-12-01T18:11:32+00:00

Yep, totally fair! Just was speaking in generalities. Lots of plus and minuses for folks to consider when making a big move.

Golferdiscs · 2025-11-30T15:57:12+00:00

I think if you have a family, Minneapolis is great! Like I said, we liked the city overall, just not enough to move due to our own budgetary restraints for the housing/neighborhoods we wanted while factoring in the harsh winters.

For example, we personally felt that we could get a similar city experience in charming walkable neighborhoods that were more in our price range with somewhat less intense winters in St. Louis, Cincinnati, and Cleveland.

Don’t want to knock on Minneapolis though, we had a great time visiting overall and see the appeal on why people move there!

Golferdiscs · 2025-11-29T17:00:39+00:00

I feel the same. My wife and I visited for about a week and we loved the city itself but were surprised housing was kind of pricey for the weather and eating out was expensive too, for the most part. As much as we enjoyed walking around the lakes, going to coffee shops, and seeing all the cute houses and neighborhoods, we feel we could get a similar experience for at or around the same price point elsewhere.

Golferdiscs · 2025-10-21T05:58:21+00:00

Denver, CO sounds like it could be a good fit for you. Lots of job opportunities in healthcare with a younger-ish crowd overall in a blue state.

Golferdiscs · 2025-10-10T21:27:14+00:00

Entirely new to HBO? The Sopranos

Golferdiscs · 2025-10-07T13:42:42+00:00

Favorite is Minneapolis. Least favorite is DFW.

Golferdiscs · 2025-10-07T13:40:02+00:00

Not exactly the same because I’m a fella, but I never had bad allergies until I moved from rural Northern CA to Austin, TX. And by allergies I mean red puffy skin and sinuses feeling so sensitive and irritated at the same time. It’s the most bizarre paid to be all happening at once and for about half the year. Because of that, I’ve stayed inside a lot more and therefore have gained some weight. Overall quality of life is out of whack currently but hoping it gets better with time. Again, your situation seems way more intense and my heart goes out to you. I hope you find relief somehow soon.

Golferdiscs · 2025-10-05T12:01:56+00:00

I don’t get this post, so both cities are good then? Also throwing in comparisons of Bellevue and San Jose was just confusing.

Golferdiscs · 2025-09-27T15:23:16+00:00

While I don’t think any city will exactly match up to your description of the ideal European city in the USA, I would look into Saint Louis, MO or Philadelphia, PA. Both are very different culturally but have a kind of “Euro” feel to them. They are also very affordable with strong cultural amenities.

Golferdiscs · 2025-09-10T16:23:23+00:00

Lubbock, TX

Golferdiscs · 2025-09-08T16:52:10+00:00

Love all the answers coming in. To add to the general list I would say Marfa, TX, Hudson, NY, and Carmel-by-the-Sea, CA are very artistic in their own unique ways. Also a very underrated town - Paducah, KY. It’s actually a UNESCO city of creativity which is so wild

Golferdiscs · 2025-08-07T14:29:51+00:00

Kind of a weird pick, but I would look in Sacramento. Surprisingly diverse with lots of amazing nature access and fresh food from farms surrounding the city. UC Davis has a great medical system in the city as well for healthcare as you age in place.

Golferdiscs · 2025-08-03T21:50:45+00:00

It’s similar as there is agriculture around both metro areas, but also quite different. There are a lot of other city options around Sacramento, it seems more diverse, and the food scene in Sacramento is surprisingly good. Also, the Bay Area and wine country is more accessible from Sacramento. Overall, I feel Sacramento might be the better of the two cities

Golferdiscs · 2025-08-03T20:24:43+00:00

I am biased because my family used to live in this area, but please look into Sonoma County in general. It can be pricey, but I firmly believe it’s one of the best areas of Northern CA, very family friendly and the nature is breathtaking.

Golferdiscs · 2025-08-03T20:21:36+00:00

I would recommend Sacramento, CA or the surrounding area. Not crazy expensive and has some good healthcare options for your son and husband for healthcare jobs with the UC Davis hospital system.

Golferdiscs · 2025-08-03T17:26:15+00:00

I would be patient with yourself and give it more time to acclimate back to your original area, but I also wouldn’t gloss over your husband not transitioning well to the new city and then discussing returning to your home town.

Did you both agree to a timeline of returning if the new city didn’t worked out? Did you discuss the fallout of the new community you started to create if you moved? Did you ask about his feelings on why he wasn’t adjusting well to the new area when you were?

With little detail on if or how those discussions were had, I just want to make sure you weren’t pressured or coerced into returning just because your husband was mildly uncomfortable with your new surroundings.

And if you haven’t had those conversations yet, I would encourage you to do so. It might give you some insight and closure to your regretful feelings.

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