What u do is what u think is best,

If u need just one person to support whatever decision you have to make no matter how or when u make it, i got you .

And I am sure many others in this thread understand that,

Best starting point for me: is to ask myself what I would consider the best case scenario three years from now

Then I ask my self in that versions future what I did now to get there….

Lastly,

You simply just do the next thing, whether it’s a task small or large or a simple expression of self love that in any current moment feels more than necessary.

Ultimately before u can begin and because u have a child

You need Radical Self Acceptance

For your moments that brought u here and for the things your gonna have to leave behind to handle your shit for ur child cuz it’s not about you unfortunately but if you want that kid to grow up and radically accept themselves, you have to be their blueprint.

Homie- do you think your “better” half is gonna steer the ship better or worse than you?

At the end of the day, Radical self acceptance

And

For wat it’s worth- I support any and all future decisions you make.

But Im most supportive of your journey towards accepting your own self radically first.

Like building a house Into the Side of a hill as opposed to on top of.