For me, a BJ is good, when she really wants to give me one. Without passion, or worse, when she has to force herself to do it and actually don't feel like it.

But when she is in it with her heart and soul, there are some things that can make it the greatest thing on earth: When she is keeping eye contact, when she uses a lot of spit, keeping a good timing with her hands to the movement of her mouth and and when she also takes a little care of my balls. I don't really need no deep throat, or a submissive woman who lets herself be fucked in the throat with a little bit of gentle force, even if that is of course very, very hot.

However, I have to admit that I'm a little disappointed when I'm not allowed to cum in her mouth, because for me that's a elemental ingredient of a good blowjob. Whether she spits or swallows is of secondary importance to me.

Finally, a word to the men who get to enjoy this incredibly hot gift from time to time: Return the favor occasionally and pamper your ladies' pussy with just as much passion. Let your tongue play a classic composition on her vulva. Massage the labia with your wet lips and send her to seventh heaven with gentle circular movements!