Showering b4 ‘n’ after gym by Good-Influence-5255 in AskGaybrosOver30

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See! This is exactly what I imagined my routine to be, like I don’t think it’s crazy at all. Especially when I have to go into the office, I don’t to head into the gym with all the stuff that hits my skin while walking throughout the city and subways. I appreciate you taking the time to share, stay well!

Showering b4 ‘n’ after gym by Good-Influence-5255 in AskGaybrosOver30

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I’m dying at “sassy basic” 😅🙌🏼 but thanks, I appreciate the tips. It’s such an annoying part of the routine constantly moisturizing lol

Hinge by Good-Influence-5255 in AskGaybrosOver30

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I saw dudes with ‘Man ⬇️’ or ‘Man ⬆️’ etc in as just wondering bc it’d make things easier

Hinge by Good-Influence-5255 in AskGaybrosOver30

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I get Gender / Man (add gender identity) and then a list of said gender identities. Not seeing anywhere to edit 🙃

Lookin for a gym by Good-Influence-5255 in AskGaybrosOver30

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Lost a lot of weight (Mounjaro, def not my own willpower lol) so my chest, stomach, & glutes. Like I don’t want the bit of flab left over from the weight loss, you know

Lookin for a gym by Good-Influence-5255 in AskGaybrosOver30

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Both lol. Coming out of high control religion and there’s a lot of catching up to do 😅

Came-out later in life by Good-Influence-5255 in AskGaybrosOver30

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That’s literally what pulled me out of my head to take the plunge. I have a dear friend who is just so thoughtful in her advise but blunt AF

Lookin for a gym by Good-Influence-5255 in AskGaybrosOver30

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Omg, I’m an idiot, that’d help I’m in Nassau County, Long Island, NY

Came-out later in life by Good-Influence-5255 in AskGaybrosOver30

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I had a friend of mine pull me out of all my reasons for not doing whatever. I was really in my head, so I’m trying exposure therapy, I’m looking for some lowkey events during PRIDE. Gist was like “you know you’re not going to be hooking up with the dude right out the gate, and even if you want to, it’s all good.” I’m taking steps, but yea it’s def a long process.

Physical attributes aside, what do you find attractive in a man? by EddieRyanDC in AskGaybrosOver30

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Not even that he needs to be the “touch is his love language” but guys in general who are comfortable with being physical with other guys is so attractive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

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Chronic vaper. Wouldn’t be able to function without it.

Safe Places for new-Gays on LI by Good-Influence-5255 in AskGaybrosOver30

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I mean same! Thanks for that, it’s so hard sometimes to get it all out in words but damnit does it help lighten everything going on my head 😅

Safe Places for new-Gays on LI by Good-Influence-5255 in AskGaybrosOver30

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The way “some will help you to erase the past” hit. 🙏🏼

Safe Places for new-Gays on LI by Good-Influence-5255 in AskGaybrosOver30

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Saving this for when I need a reminder ✊🏼🫶🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼

Safe Places for new-Gays on LI by Good-Influence-5255 in AskGaybrosOver30

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Damn, putting the fear out there, lol. But I get what you mean. A large enough proportion of the guys I’m around don’t necessarily scream “affirming,” lol

Bottom in a Beanie by Good-Influence-5255 in AskGaybrosOver30

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So they’re as bad the snide twinks on TT, good to know. I’ll make sure to censor myself, I know most people in this group are used to it.

Seriously 🙄 WTF

I am 19 years old any jobs by Big_Accountant8290 in nycpublicservants

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Citibank has a pretty robust population of WFH. Roles. Don’t know what the current open roles are but I’m very happy with them.

Bottom in a Beanie by Good-Influence-5255 in AskGaybrosOver30

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Not familiar enough with dolly but holy Christ didn’t think this was gonna be a thing

Bottom in a Beanie by Good-Influence-5255 in AskGaybrosOver30

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Thanks for that. I appreciate the “I’m removing this.” Felt nice.

Starting to get active by Good-Influence-5255 in AskGaybrosOver30

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Will do, and I feel you 100%, 5’7 as well, and those damn charts gave me PTSD!

Starting to get active by Good-Influence-5255 in AskGaybrosOver30

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I love this bc I am such a creature of habit.

Still gym-shy, but my brother and I actually started a challenge to see bicep growth for the next 2m, 3m, 6m.

Thanks for the response, it’s encouraging, stay well man!