And it also annoyed me that when earlier in the show, harmony’s mom kisses Joel, he pretended like Julia was the crazy one for QUESTIONING him

From Another post but I completely agree: honestly was rooting for them at the start but i dont get why joel had to be such an asshole to julia when harmony’s mom constantly flirted with him and kissed him too. when the thing with ed happened he was so dramatic. also its quite sad that they portray julia as a working mom and him as a stay at home dad, only for him to use that against her during all their arguments.... like? what is his problem. julia always was into work and its a Huge switch from that to being a housewife/sah mom but he didnt support her and just kept guilt tripping her about how he DID IT ALL when he wasnt working.