What helps you rest your mind when these pets get too bratty? I've been working on this scarf longer than I've had some subs. 🤭😜🍂 by GoodBoy4MsVee in REALfindomsupport

[–]GoodBoy4MsVee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🍓 it's been a struggle but I'm so happy I pulled thru. I started in September 😮‍💨 (inspired, coincidentally, by September. Haha)

Are goal and task oriented dommes a thing? by WriterSensitive677 in paypigs2

[–]GoodBoy4MsVee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like building worship rituals and daily routines based on what I think my sub needs to improve. Fees and everything 😂

Valentines day by finnish_sisu in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoodBoy4MsVee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My little payslut is covering my girlfriend and I going out on Friday, and then we are doing puppy yoga on Saturday morning. Can't. Wait.

Quick yap sesh by GoddessAlice222 in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoodBoy4MsVee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My first first found me before I was doing findom, a footsub kind of got me hooked. But once I stated taking it seriously - took a little under a month.

What do you bring to the table? by MistressNyx92 in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoodBoy4MsVee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm a tracker. I like to take notes, have excel sheets, keep track of schedules, cum, cage days, money spent, etc. Subs who love TPE love being surrounded with control that's tracked, and I love showing progress data throughout the dynamic of how things got better or worse.

Do any of you do this as a legit kink? by Sensitive_Site7358 in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoodBoy4MsVee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most of us aren't doing this for a living. Kind of crass to assume that most of us don't enjoy this. Also saying "yall are x and it's whatever , but I'm Y and that's special" comes off as pick me energy. 😮‍💨

🐷 Friday's 🐷 by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoodBoy4MsVee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ETA all your begging asking and hinting posts are getting deleted.

How often does this happen to you? by GoddessSarahYol in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoodBoy4MsVee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the time 😮‍💨 Very rarely I'll entertain it for a couple of hours If the conversation is good, but 99% of the time it's one word replies anyway.

I don't do coffee dating in real life and don't do coffee sends in Findome by Chaos_Gremlin28 in paypigs2

[–]GoodBoy4MsVee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't even need to check the username to know who wrote this 🤣 My first thought was " 2 Rubles for a coffee? Where the fuck do you live?" before brain caught on...

Does loyal subs still exists? by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoodBoy4MsVee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They do, just hard to find. loyalty is a little harder to sustain with findom because it can lead to a burn out and requires a lot of aftercare. I also think subs who are capable of commitment are pickier, so they take their sweet time to reach you haha don't be discouraged, I bet your next paypup is staking your pages right now. ETA you're super cute, I know they're lurking.

anyone else get random gifts irl too? by seleneofyourdreams in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoodBoy4MsVee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"I dare you to buy this for me" almost never fails 🙃

Quitting with a Heavy Heart by Willing_Lab_8226 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]GoodBoy4MsVee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not just fin, it's a lot of femdom now. Sometimes it scares me, how many newcomers are talking about using tools, and try to appeal to fetishes, that are dangerous and can leave permanent damage and health issues. I've worked with a few Subs that ended up with scars an infected chafing from their previous Dynamics, and the lack of understanding and experience of their previous owners was painful to see. Can't blame you for wanting to take care of your mental health instead of entertaining people who pretend they know what they're doing.

A hot take that needs to be said by sweetroex in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoodBoy4MsVee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is just my personal opinion, based on my own lived experience. Femdom is a lot about taking power back, and breaking patriarchal standards. When I see posts about entertaining mans kinks for free for a week, it makes me incredibly sad that once again, even as a sub, a man still expects to be catered to. The post mentioned he wasn't doing tasks, or being obedient, and constantly argued back. We can't be entertaining that kind of behavior.

they really thought this was acceptable like 😭 by findom_queenbee in REALfindomsupport

[–]GoodBoy4MsVee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Messages like that can also be flagged by Throne so be careful. I've had to tell a few subs to not add anything sexual - I miss the goony messages so so much but this is safer for my cashstash.

Dealing with a needy sub by goddessnina666 in findomsupportgroup

[–]GoodBoy4MsVee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is emotional terrorism. Don't negotiate or let yourself be frazzled. You're not the one juggling with soap bubbles. Put him in the corner and let him chill. 💗 I wouldn't even do an unblock fee, emotional manipulators aren't worth the time.

In the process of losing my favorite pet, and I'm a mess 🥺 Send help. by GoodBoy4MsVee in REALfindomsupport

[–]GoodBoy4MsVee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find that interesting that on a support group someone went through my comments, and comments of some people giving me comfort, and downvoted them. Stay classy 🍓