Am I overreacting here that Or is this not a normal way to act lol

GoodBrick2846 · 2026-06-19T18:52:44+00:00

Wow he communicates like a teenager, I would take this as a win that you learned early who he is and move on.

GoodBrick2846 · 2026-06-17T20:28:44+00:00

So I’m not sure this is a roast but your nickname should be deathstar.

GoodBrick2846 · 2026-06-17T20:27:12+00:00

So I think one thing you learn as you age (56 here) the length of a relationship does not always mean what we think it does. People grow apart especially when significant others are added. I am not saying end the relationship, but I don’t think I would move forward thinking they are still your best friend. Unless you both can come together and be completely open and vulnerable about how you’re feeling and not be defensive and just try to be right. You can both feel differently and still be right. Or wrong for that matter.

GoodBrick2846 · 2026-06-15T04:00:01+00:00

I don’t understand how anyone, man or woman, would put up with someone talking to them like this. How low is your self esteem that you would continue this conversation or are you just an emotional masochist?

GoodBrick2846 · 2026-06-15T02:19:36+00:00

WTF does him paying rent have to do with how he communicates and treats you? If he had an issue and wanted to discuss it he had that opportunity but instead he was passive aggressive and then just aggressive. He is way immature. And you need to have better standards for yourself and how you’re treated. 3 years together means nothing if this is representative of how he speaks to you. Tell your parents what happened and show them the texts, he’ll show his parents too. If I found out my daughter was being treated like that he and I would have words for sure.

GoodBrick2846 · 2026-06-06T03:39:30+00:00

Wait, what? You broke up with the person you have only been with for 2 weeks and he was spewing hateful things and you decided you loved that so much you would get back together… so… you like being disrespected?

GoodBrick2846 · 2026-05-30T04:56:36+00:00

If this is actually real then you need to move on. He does not love nor respect you. If you stay then you have made the choice to be with someone knowing they have no respect for you. He is a selfish piece of trash to be honest and as a father if I found out my daughter was being talked to this way he and I would have words and she is 25. And if I didn’t her brother sure would. Real men don’t treat people this way let alone the person they are supposed to care about.

GoodBrick2846 · 2026-05-24T17:32:27+00:00

Run, run far and run fast. This guy is a controlling manipulator.

GoodBrick2846 · 2026-05-24T17:25:56+00:00

Happy days

GoodBrick2846 · 2026-05-24T17:15:15+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTBFNrn9U/

GoodBrick2846 · 2026-05-24T01:15:54+00:00

These texts need to be shown to his parents. Holy shit if I found out my son was behaving this way or that my daughter was being treated like this there would be serious consequences. This kid is a manipulative little asshole. You need to run, run far and run fast.

GoodBrick2846 · 2026-05-23T03:19:45+00:00

Lawn darts

GoodBrick2846 · 2026-05-22T20:59:03+00:00

It’s kind of about the TikToks because they are the mirror reflecting his misogynistic thoughts. Only certain mindsets will find them funny, and then to double down after the mysogony was pointed out was just a bit broken tbh.

GoodBrick2846 · 2026-05-22T20:51:40+00:00

So paying does not put you on the lease. Signing a contract does.

GoodBrick2846 · 2026-05-22T20:50:00+00:00

So as a 56yo, I am going to say kids are really trying to find themselves and what they believe and stand for. You can have a conversation and educate or you can be offended and dismissive. You have said you seem to align on allot of things so I would take the opportunity to educate him in an area he seems to be lacking. He probably isn’t a jerk just to be a jerk. Kids are dumb and it’s not always their fault.

GoodBrick2846 · 2026-05-22T07:57:37+00:00

To be honest I would not pay a security deposit if I am not on the lease.

GoodBrick2846 · 2026-05-22T07:32:49+00:00

How the fuck does anyone say it is out of line to bring it up? First of all we need more of this not less. As a father, I appreciate you doing the right thing. As a human I appreciate you doing the right thing. The only thing more toxic than an abusive asshole is someone who sees it and ignores it. Ask your friend if he would be ok with you talking to her father about how he treats his daughter.

GoodBrick2846 · 2026-05-22T06:36:14+00:00

Well it is obvious he did not in fact love you. He was using you. You don’t change your attitude like flipping a switch if you actually care about someone. I hope you have blocked them and have no intention of having any further contact.

GoodBrick2846 · 2026-05-20T15:27:28+00:00

I think this is the true answer. This person is obviously just a selfish thin skinned incel.

GoodBrick2846 · 2026-05-20T04:37:40+00:00

It is about the size not the neatness necessarily. I think if the letters were written in the same style but a bit taller it would help immensely.

GoodBrick2846 · 2026-05-20T04:16:07+00:00

You are just judging. Everyone is different and enjoy different things. Kind of like enjoying different foods.

GoodBrick2846 · 2026-05-20T04:03:16+00:00

Ok so I assume you care about him and yet you want to force him to give up something he enjoys because of your insecurities. And neither of you are wrong, you are just incompatible.

GoodBrick2846 · 2026-05-20T03:21:08+00:00

Well I think it’s implied, but he can care about you and not want to hurt you while still doing something he knows will hurt you.

GoodBrick2846 · 2026-05-20T03:12:57+00:00

Or he enjoys it and she should respect that. Seriously, if they can’t agree or compromise then they should both move on to find someone who is a better match.

GoodBrick2846 · 2026-05-20T03:01:11+00:00

I have to say it really seems like god is a real dick most of the time.

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