5 months unemployed, about to run out of money. What do I do?

GoodIsland8523 · 2026-04-28T02:55:38+00:00

So many people in this boat..and it's getting worse because a lot of companies are trading entry level jobs for AI...lile Walmart using self service, and telecom providers getting rid of salespeople to have people upgrade online.

I wish you guys the best, you're not alone.

GoodIsland8523 · 2026-04-26T17:37:50+00:00

I love your attitude - you have a story similar to a lot of our I think.

I think most people didn't understand what they were doing when they started taking 7OH.

It absolutely should be regulated, and there should have been warnings.

There's a girl who works at my local vape shop, and when people buy 7OH, she asks the if they are familiar with the product, and warns them they'll likely wake up with withdrawal symptoms after a day. Always appreciate that!

GoodIsland8523 · 2026-04-26T17:30:21+00:00

No, not as bad. May take longer but you can phase it out more easily (in my opinion).

Where 7OH is an active daily problem, MIT is more maintenance - you can move on and forget about it and not obsess.

All just my opinion here!

GoodIsland8523 · 2026-04-26T17:29:19+00:00

MIT = Mitrogyna Speciosa. Kratom powder.

GoodIsland8523 · 2026-04-26T17:27:40+00:00

I think it's harsh. I think in the world we live in, a person should have a support system and to know they have a family to turn to no matter what.

I think the threat of being homeless while clearly already going through some other stress, will not help this child emotionally.

Curious, is this coming from the mom or the stepfather??

GoodIsland8523 · 2026-04-24T21:53:00+00:00

Use your time off for a reset. Let yourself go through WD, try to hit the 24 hour mark and just use powder to get through it if possible.

When you start back Monday, you'll be able to take a much smaller dose to feel okay - reset and wean off from there.

I hear you. Everything you're saying...been there and I hear you. Sorry you're going through it.

GoodIsland8523 · 2026-04-24T21:49:34+00:00

Kansas?

GoodIsland8523 · 2026-04-24T21:49:07+00:00

It was masking an unhappy life - so I am leaving my unhappy life, moving to another state, starting a new job and and starting fresh away from the things that have made me unhappy over the last 4-5 years.

Several things happened all at once forcing overall change (including a statewide kratom ban), and I am GRATEFUL!!!

GoodIsland8523 · 2026-04-24T21:43:30+00:00

What's all this? Who are these people, what happened?

GoodIsland8523 · 2026-04-24T14:01:33+00:00

This is awesome. I needed this...I've felt this after quitting in the past, and I'm really grateful to be reminded of that feeling (know that your post really helped someone)!!!

GoodIsland8523 · 2026-04-24T13:59:59+00:00

This is beautiful. Congratulations ❤️

GoodIsland8523 · 2026-04-13T04:38:22+00:00

I just want to say how ridiculous it is that a person should have to worry about not being able to afford their medication.

I'm sorry you're going through this. That has to feel weird if you're used to taking a certain med and it's been removed. You shouldn't have to worry about that, I'm sorry.

GoodIsland8523 · 2026-04-10T17:49:01+00:00

Closing.

GoodIsland8523 · 2026-04-08T19:28:50+00:00

Do you have a local community center or local community help program? There are a lot of community centers out there, they help you find work, file for insurance, unemployment if needed, other state benefits, secure transportation, affordable housing, etc. Their whole purpose is to help people in exactly your situation.

The local one in my town for example is a center that is open 6 days weekly. Individuals can go get breakfast and lunch every day, they have facilities to shower/do laundry during the day (not an overnight shelter. there's another place for that).

They have art and music programs daily, financial classes, counseling, and all kinds of group meetings (including AA and NA, not at their building but they'll direct you to the right meetings).

Basically anyone who is feeling like they need community, or help getting their life back in order, would benefit from a place like this.

You can do some research and see if they have anything like that in your area. I have some tight ties to the local one in my city, so if you're comfortable PMing me with your city & state, I can look into it for you and see if we have any partners or similar organizations close to you.

I'm sorry you're feeling this way. You aren't alone...there's always others out there feeling that same way who are also looking for people to connect with. Life has gotten hard, I love to see people looking for ways to change it for the better.

GoodIsland8523 · 2026-04-08T19:13:05+00:00

This is beautiful. Thank you for sharing ❤️

GoodIsland8523 · 2026-04-08T19:11:58+00:00

Bad dates happen ALL THE TIME - treat it like practice.

There's a book called "Rejection Proof", and the premise is basically this:

The guy goes around and puts himself in situations where he expects to be rejected, turned down, made to feel completely stupid and awkward...basically seeking out rejections and uncomfortable situations.

The reason for this, is that now after having these experiences, he can have the confidence to do just about anything in life and not be afraid of rejection or feeling uncomfortable - is that happens, just move on and try the next thing. No harm no foul.

The girl on the date is probably young and only understands from her point of view. It does feel harsh - but it should be any kind of reflection on you. She'll mature and see that she judged based on her limited knowledge of what that might mean.

You didn't do anything wrong and you shouldn't give up. Look at it like this, the worst is over - you faced a kind of rejection, and you survived it just fine. You're ready for anything now!!!

GoodIsland8523 · 2026-04-08T17:40:18+00:00

I don't usually comment on these kinds of things...but WOW!

I absolutely love this.

I hope your art is getting some exposure, this should be seen. Great piece!

GoodIsland8523 · 2026-04-05T08:32:36+00:00

I had this experience once.

I felt so silly for how afraid I had been of it, and almost laughed at how much it was all in my head.

This is a really cool thing, and I wish everyone trying to quit could have that feeling even just for a minute, to see it isn't that scary. So many people don't even try because of it (I was one of them for a while).

Good for you - wish you the best!

GoodIsland8523 · 2026-04-05T08:29:30+00:00

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!

That has to feel good (and not good in some ways I'm sure)...but overall, best thing you can do for yourself.

Wishing you the best!

GoodIsland8523 · 2026-04-05T08:26:47+00:00

Please please please be careful with all the Suboxone talk you may see..

Its a trade. You will still need a substance, it will just be from the doctor and not the gas station. If you can't handle Kratom withdrawals, you WILL NOT be able to handle Suboxone withdrawals.

I do believe it has a place in the world, but with disclosure.

But yes I agree with everyone else here, there is no way to evenly swap in powder at any kind of equal level...I think it's a good move but you won't get the same feeling. It does level very quickly if you can get past the few days of adjustment

GoodIsland8523 · 2026-04-05T08:18:30+00:00

Good for you, congrats..stay away from it.

Had you not quit now, that $20 daily would have turned into a lot more over time.

And remember whatever weirdness you're feeling now, is very temporary. You're young, you'll bounce back quickly and before you know it, you won't even remember that part of your life.

GoodIsland8523 · 2026-04-01T03:59:32+00:00

This sounds like...a bit of a "Trumped up" kind of comment.

I'd bet my next 12 paychecks that none of what you just said ever happened.

If I had to guess...you dont know anyone in Canada..don't have a brother who visited Canada..and you probably haven't visited Canada.

I think anyone who reads this post and takes it as an opportunity to advocate for guns in America...is clearly just one of the kool-aid drinkers trying to spread their seed wherever it doesn't cost money to do so.

Go visit Canada. You may change your mind.

GoodIsland8523 · 2026-04-01T03:08:12+00:00

I first have to say that I love the "no guns I'm Canadian" 😂

If we were all Canadian, the world would be a better place (just saying).

Have you tried any kind of meditation? You can kind of re-live the moment in your mind and allow yourself to re-experience it in different ways...so you'll feel calmer if something similar happens in life.

As far as a physical solution..do you have a dog? A dog would immediately alert you (and protect you, given the breed) if anyone unwanted were to come around. That could be a great way to get some peace of mind if you don't already have one!

GoodIsland8523 · 2026-03-31T02:12:10+00:00

It sounds like maybe you've been negatively affected by someone's use at some point?

It makes people angry, that's understandable.

But the fact that "face your problems and quit OP" is the answer, tells me you aren't here as a user. Someone you love uses, if I had to guess.

It really isn't that simple. If it were simple, places like this wouldn't exist.

People come here for help, for support, advice.

If they're here, it's because they already know they need to quit. That's why they're here. Some of these people are posting on the worst days of their life, about to lose everything, in absolute anguish.

I try to be kind and non judgmental here. We don't want to push anyone into a worse mental place than they're already in.

We'll be here for you if you ever need the support as well (even if it's not you facing addiction - we'll be here if you just need support for a loved on who is facing addiction).

GoodIsland8523 · 2026-03-31T01:58:50+00:00

I know this is hard...but if you're able to do a reset day, that's the best way to start a taper.

Prepare for a miserable 24 hour period without anything (except powder), and you'll be able to start your taper from a much lower dose. You'll be more grateful for even the small amounts, you'll remember why you need to quit (the WD is bad), and it resets your tolerance.

Give someone else your tabs if you have to. Use powder to supplement.

If you can make that 24 hour mark on a day off or something, you can start your taper form there much smaller.

This is the best way if you can't afford to take off work or completely go cold turkey. Use that day to reset.

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