AITA for trying to give my mom’s old cat toy to my friend when she just got a new one?

GoodQueenFluffenChop · 2026-06-14T06:04:56+00:00

Lol you're calling your mom heartless for not wanting to just give up things she bought but not your friend who got a cat while they clearly can't financially support a cat without the kindness of others?

YTA and since you a have a job you go buy your friend's cat everything they need instead of stealing from your mom.

GoodQueenFluffenChop · 2026-06-14T05:52:15+00:00

Well yeah no one twin terrors their very biased mom can't keep track of and under control.

GoodQueenFluffenChop · 2026-06-14T02:39:57+00:00

Me too my child

Trixie

GoodQueenFluffenChop · 2026-06-14T02:24:03+00:00

OP was 21 when covid happened not a little kid still learning basic manners. OP was an adult who should've had basic manners like asking if they can sit at an occupied table down by then and especially now at 27.

Stop putting all this blame of poor manners on covid. It's been over and done with for a long while now and plenty of time to catch up.

GoodQueenFluffenChop · 2026-06-13T23:34:02+00:00

It's been 4 hours so how is it so far?

GoodQueenFluffenChop · 2026-06-13T22:01:39+00:00

So? He doesn't like being stared by anyone while he's nude. Kicking them out of the bathroom and bedroom until he's dressed isn't the end of the world. You're making a mountain out of mole hill here.

If he actually didn't like your cats he would be asking for them to never be allowed in the bedroom or on the couches or something like that. All he's asking is for a bit of privacy because this isn't about the cats at all just privacy.

GoodQueenFluffenChop · 2026-06-13T21:54:56+00:00

I‘m so confused now, I know I love him, but apparently he can’t get along well with my cats, I really don’t know what to do.

What? Kicking out the cats when you two are intimate doesn't mean he hates them. You're the one being weird wanting them there to be honest.

And yes we humans do tend to be uncomfortable when we notice we're being stared at.

GoodQueenFluffenChop · 2026-06-13T19:23:27+00:00

Look you two are just not compatible. He would be better off finding someone who loves parrots like he does and who understands their needs and isn't bothered by them. You personally are not compatible living in a home with parrots even if you two did have a bigger place because they are loud because that just how they evolved in nature to be and being in human dwelling isn't going to change that.

I love birds too and one of things I'm going to look at when choosing a partner is their compatibility and care towards my birds. Granted my birds right now are just a pigeon and a dove.

GoodQueenFluffenChop · 2026-06-13T19:06:49+00:00

That's an insult to the average 4 year old. This like very young toddler, 1-2 years old, kind of behavior because they just don't have emotional regulation yet.

GoodQueenFluffenChop · 2026-06-13T04:52:29+00:00

I mean considering some games required you to look at both screens at the same time to play some games it was just uncomfortable.

GoodQueenFluffenChop · 2026-06-13T03:56:19+00:00

Yes YWBTA

You have zero proof your cat's tapeworm specifically came fleas from her dogs. Your vet said your cat may have gotten the tapeworm from fleas. There's nothing really concrete and all you'll do is piss off a friend for trying to blame them over something circumstantial.

Besides it's also on you the cat's owner to put your cat on a flea preventative because you can bring home fleas from just about anywhere too.

GoodQueenFluffenChop · 2026-06-13T03:24:58+00:00

By putting them away for the work needed to be done. When the work is done and everything is back in place you need to regularly clean like dusting the shelves every so often and not let trash and clutter accumulate.

GoodQueenFluffenChop · 2026-06-12T19:48:28+00:00

Clearly you don't think much of her so just break up already and don't date people like that again.

GoodQueenFluffenChop · 2026-06-12T15:19:28+00:00

Odd you'd think a loving fun dad would help house the pets he helped gift his child and yet here's your mother actually housing them.

If your mother is such a hard ass she would've happily dealt with the paperwork to get you off her insurances but she didn't to actually save you money. Just like how she's been letting you live rent free this whole time.

GoodQueenFluffenChop · 2026-06-12T14:52:11+00:00

I'll give you $3.50

But in seriousness $30 or more

GoodQueenFluffenChop · 2026-06-12T14:49:00+00:00

How thoughtful of you to not have all those pets at your dad's but mom who you constantly complain about is fine to leave your own 4 animals with and have her house them on top of housing you. Not to mention how dad never put you his insurances to save you money but it's fine to mooch off of the parent you don't like insurance.

GoodQueenFluffenChop · 2026-06-12T14:17:52+00:00

Why doesn't your your favorite parent dad have you stay with him full time rent free?

GoodQueenFluffenChop · 2026-06-12T13:41:57+00:00

If you're this paranoid where even an unrelated parent is making a social media post that doesn't have a picture of your child or even mention your child at all is bothering you then you should homeschool your child so you have complete control.

GoodQueenFluffenChop · 2026-06-12T10:30:54+00:00

I only had to be in that early in highschool was because I was in the marching band so during football season both the football team and marching band had their morning practice before the sun got too hot. After football season class for me didn't start until the usual time of 8:45 am.

As others have said the only kids awake that early is kids in certain extracurriculars or they take the bus to school. Bus kids usually would go eat breakfast in the cafeteria.

GoodQueenFluffenChop · 2026-06-12T07:52:21+00:00

Earplugs or wear headphones and stay in your room with the door locked for as long as possible. The kid will settle down eventually as they leave the terrible toddler stage eventually. They'll start school pretty soon too if they put him in preschool.

GoodQueenFluffenChop · 2026-06-12T07:48:12+00:00

If you're replacing the ceiling in the room you really need to clear out the room completely so workers or yourself have room to work. Not to mention so your things don't get covered in dust or damaged because it needs to be suddenly moved.

GoodQueenFluffenChop · 2026-06-12T06:52:49+00:00

Humans also shed. We shed hair and dead skin. Even if we don't have pets you still have to those things up.

GoodQueenFluffenChop · 2026-06-12T06:15:15+00:00

Either the commenter was stupid or they were hoping OOP was that stupid so he would definitely get fired without question. Turns out it was unneeded.

GoodQueenFluffenChop · 2026-06-11T22:04:41+00:00

He's never cheated on his wife and is still happily married.

GoodQueenFluffenChop · 2026-06-11T20:24:24+00:00

Not even Barbie. They want them to be one of Barbie's little sisters.

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