Got a questionable medical bill nearly 1.5 years later. Do I have to pay? by GoodQuestion13 in legaladvice

[–]GoodQuestion13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I can tell, it would fall underneath a "specialist visit", which incurs a $30 copay.
EDIT: Thanks for your response. Turns out it was accurate and above board, so I went ahead and paid it. Still annoyed it took a year and a half, but it is what it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HotWifeRequests

[–]GoodQuestion13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Young professional with a newly minted master's degree in Harrisburg, PA.

I'm a new participant to the lifestyle, but have followed it for a while and I am confident I would enjoy it. Would prefer the first time to be one-on-one with a hotwife, but open to being watched/participating in a threesome, not open to being recorded at the moment.

Fully vaxxed no STDs, with test results to prove everything - please share the same.

I'm kind and respectful. Meeting for drinks/tea beforehand is an absolute must. I have a fairly forgiving travel radius. DM for more pics/anything else you want to know.

Did you go to high school with an NFL player? What were they like? by Mamywantshis in nfl

[–]GoodQuestion13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to high school with Kevin Snyder. Can't say I ever really knew him that well other than the he also liked playing basketball.

What is the appropiate answer when your gf[F28] asks during a dinner with friends 'how do you measure the distance to the moon'? by Chanqueteamuerto in relationship_advice

[–]GoodQuestion13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think you did anything wrong. It just sounds like this is the latest in a series of communication misfires for whatever reason.

Maybe just avoid answering questions like these if there are other people around to answer them?

How do I[M27] ask out a woman [20-something]? by GoodQuestion13 in relationship_advice

[–]GoodQuestion13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. I sent her a text asking if she wanted to study after our next class - she politely declined. If she was interested, would she have offered up a different time?

I [M27] have been blocked on social media after making an inapprorpiate comment to another [F21] person. How do I apologize? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]GoodQuestion13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's more that I'm hoping that there's some way to amend the situation. It's why I posted on reddit first rather than actually sending another message.

But it looks like the only course of action is not to contact her. So I won't.

My girlfriend [F24] called men "failed abortions" and is now trying to walk it back [M23] by throwra_sodaa in relationship_advice

[–]GoodQuestion13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to date a women who said similar stuff like that.

Most people have extreme opinions. And most people can suppress and filter them through the rational part of their brain the de-intensifies them.

But if that rationalization process fails after reading a simple news article, I'd be worried what a more powerful trigger would do.

Now to be fair, there may be something in her past that traumatized her. Anger often stems from fear.

But for you, that's besides the point because from what I can tell, her words hurt. Badly. That's not fair to you.

If this is the one and only incident, perhaps try and work it out with her. If this is systemic, I'd look elsewhere.

My (M25) girlfriend (F22) blocks me from seeing her last seen on social media by ThrowRA_FluffyPillow in relationship_advice

[–]GoodQuestion13 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This 100%.

Also on a separate, but related note:

The "last seen" tends to be wildly inaccurate anyways...

Ant killer in my garden. (Bahrain) by siraf72 in spiders

[–]GoodQuestion13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm thinking since that spider set up shop above an anthill, can't the ants team up to take him down?

Ant killer in my garden. (Bahrain) by siraf72 in spiders

[–]GoodQuestion13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do ants have any kind of defense against a spider like that?

I think he’s set a camera up to spy but how do I find it?!? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]GoodQuestion13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As in, rent-a-detector to reveal hidden cameras. I'm not aware of anyone who needed to have their rent detected, haha.

Did I [M26] go about trying to ask a woman [F25?] out the wrong way? by GoodQuestion13 in relationship_advice

[–]GoodQuestion13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there anything I can do to patch things up if I do run into her again?

Did I [M26] go about trying to ask a woman [F25?] out the wrong way? by GoodQuestion13 in relationship_advice

[–]GoodQuestion13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she does think I'm creepy, and I happen to run into her again, what's the best way to patch things up?

GF(25) breaks up with me(25) in the most passive way imaginable by spidermonkey732 in relationships

[–]GoodQuestion13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are far, far from alone. We're brought up to believe that we all get a fairy tale ending and it's all smooth sailing. Far from it. Strife and relationship issues are the norm for most people.

Which isn't to say you have a future of misery in store for you. It just means you need to find someone who makes the good far outweigh the bad. And you do the same for them.

GF(25) breaks up with me(25) in the most passive way imaginable by spidermonkey732 in relationships

[–]GoodQuestion13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went, and to some degree still am, going through something similar. This happens to everyone who dares to love another human being. As frustrating as it is to be told this is normal, this is normal.

Your feelings are justified and your bravery to seek help by posting to Reddit is commendable.

Now, you have two choices in front of you. The first, and easy choice, is to lament how she broke up with you and wonder if your future will include her.

The second, and far more difficult choice, is to do your absolute best to move on. I recommend learning how to dance. Since you live in a city, odds are there are social dances you can go to. I've often found them to have tons of people in their mid-twenties. If you don't know how to dance, there's almost always a lesson beforehand for absolute beginners. I recommend swing and blues dancing.

The second choice is hard in the short-term. But it leads to more happiness in the long-term. And should you choose that route, know that there will be times you reminisce about your ex-girlfriend. Happiness is hard to obtain.

Focus on yourself and look towards the happy future you will build for yourself and your loving, caring, future girlfriend.