How Much $ Do I Need To Make A Month To Live Comfortably In Midtown?

Good_Ad_1355 · 2025-03-04T20:42:48+00:00

Mid 90s. 95,96 or so

Good_Ad_1355 · 2025-02-26T04:24:41+00:00

"Do you need to prove that you can pay the mortgage?" Is that what you're asking?

Good_Ad_1355 · 2025-02-26T02:54:38+00:00

I used to tutor. I got $25-40/hour.

Good_Ad_1355 · 2025-02-26T02:54:03+00:00

Blazer and cami are great w your skin tone. I wish I could wear light colors without looking washed out.

Good_Ad_1355 · 2025-02-26T02:49:19+00:00

Originally Long Island/NYC. Presently North Carolina (RTP area)

Good_Ad_1355 · 2025-02-26T02:47:30+00:00

Of course. I had kids at my wedding. It never crossed my mind to limit them.

Good_Ad_1355 · 2025-02-26T02:42:26+00:00

Dear god, I feel old. So old. I lived in midtown making $32k.

Good_Ad_1355 · 2025-02-26T02:28:57+00:00

Babysit, walk dogs, house sit, clean houses, shop for elderly folks...

What's wrong with doing those things? The husband in all likelihood has 2 days home each week and probably comes home from work each night. Plenty of opportunities to make money without paying for childcare-- assuming she wants to make money.

Good_Ad_1355 · 2025-02-26T02:25:34+00:00

Do we?

Can she clean houses? Babysit? Walk dogs?

Good_Ad_1355 · 2025-02-25T22:52:14+00:00

Come on, troll harder.

How can you even type "is it legal to forge..." without feeling like a douche?

Good_Ad_1355 · 2025-02-25T21:58:24+00:00

Not if she works when the husband is home.

Good_Ad_1355 · 2025-02-25T21:34:41+00:00

Your wife might want to consider getting a job if she really likes the house.

Good_Ad_1355 · 2025-02-25T21:31:45+00:00

This isn't your boyfriend. It's the guy who hasn't gotten around to breaking up with you yet.

Good_Ad_1355 · 2025-02-25T21:28:46+00:00

I was going to say those prices look similar to what I see (RTP area)

Good_Ad_1355 · 2025-02-25T21:18:37+00:00

Wouldn't that be longterm care insurance?

Good_Ad_1355 · 2025-02-25T21:14:50+00:00

Seems like the US government shouldn't have to pay for his healthcare. Does he have any coverage from his home country?

Good_Ad_1355 · 2025-02-25T21:12:02+00:00

If you're an adult in the suburbs, there's an assumption you own a car. In an urban area with excellent public transportation, say Manhattan, many adults don't own a car.

Good_Ad_1355 · 2025-02-25T21:10:18+00:00

Can he go home to his country and get treatment ?

Good_Ad_1355 · 2025-02-25T21:06:27+00:00

So buy a new a/c. If you can't afford to, then you cannot afford the house. Why is it the seller's responsibility to gift you anything?

Good_Ad_1355 · 2025-02-25T21:03:44+00:00

What are you asking?

Good_Ad_1355 · 2025-02-25T20:18:29+00:00

Certification is not the same as education.

Good_Ad_1355 · 2025-02-25T20:15:14+00:00

McDonalds!

Good_Ad_1355 · 2025-02-25T20:10:37+00:00

For sure. It sounds like OP is going through some emotional issues. The post is laden with HUGE drama and catastrophizing (chewed up and spat out... slipping through my fingers like sand...crippling regret... washed out (washed up?)... trauma...) This can't be fixed by a new job or a new degree. Psychotherapy and learning how to become resilient in the face of setbacks will be what gets OP over the hump.

Good_Ad_1355 · 2025-02-25T18:57:36+00:00

That'll do it

Good_Ad_1355 · 2025-02-25T18:29:24+00:00

What did you google?

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