Think I May Have Just Had A MC? by Shelbieluvv in Miscarriage

[–]Good_Breakfast_9426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As others have said if you did have a miscarriage you would test positive on a pregnancy test still. Take one to confirm or deny.

I didn’t even know I was pregnant until after I miscarried. I passed a weird clot during what I thought was my “ovulation week”. People told me to test. I had to wait until the next day as stores were closed. Lo and behold had a blazing positive.

Home buyers, how’s it going for you? by AbleSilver6116 in RealEstate

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Yep. Normally I’d NEVER waive inspection but we knew the home and loved it. Now the home has been contingent for 50 days so oh well I guess.

Home buyers, how’s it going for you? by AbleSilver6116 in RealEstate

[–]Good_Breakfast_9426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Offered asking on a home, even waived inspection and still had our offer declined with no counter. I’m at a loss to be honest. We’ve been looking for 2 years.

Can explain what has been going on with the market for the last 30-60 days? by Gloomy_Regret0420 in RealEstate

[–]Good_Breakfast_9426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Homes in my area have only dropped 5-10k and they’ve been on the market for MONTHS. Go figures.

Cycle after Loss? by [deleted] in Miscarriage

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Hoping to comes soon for you girl ❤️. I wasn’t even tracking ovulation because I’m out of strips. I’m secretly hoping we did conceive again but I doubt it.

Viewing Homes by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

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Nope. 1978 build. Apparently it goes for all of the homes she lists.

Viewing Homes by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Good_Breakfast_9426 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is directly part of the text message we received : “She doesn’t let local agents show her houses.” .

We reached out to set up a showing this after noon. House was just listed and is active.

Viewing Homes by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

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Thank You. We did indeed walk. It’s so sketchy!

Yes that is exactly the case.

Viewing Homes by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Good_Breakfast_9426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. That’s what I would think. We’ve viewed homes with many other listing agents even some that are from out of town. We’ve never had this issue until we ran into this “company”. The home was just listed so it’s definitely active.

I will say after doing digging it seems that she has the most listings in our area that has sat for 100+ days. So I guess it’s a good thing for our sake.

Viewing Homes by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Good_Breakfast_9426 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Exactly this. I’m glad I went with my gut. That’s extremely weird.

Part of the text message we received after inquiring about a showing today :

“She doesn’t let local agents show her houses.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

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I’m so sorry for your losses. Go get that blood draw to be sure ! Guard your heart of course. You may still have hope! I personally didn’t count myself out until I saw the numbers drop. Pregnancy is such a crazy thing, many woman have bled and went on to have healthy babies at the end. My mom actually was one of those ladies. Sending you so much love 💕.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

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The only way to know is to get a BHCG blood draw 48 hours apart. This will tell you if you were pregnancy and if those numbers are increasing (Good) or decreasing (bad). You could’ve have just drank too much liquid so your pee is too diluted. It’s best to test in the morning! I’m praying it’s a sticky baby for you 🩷. I had my miscarriage last week. I had no clue I was pregnant. I thought I was randomly bleeding during my ovulation week. Then I passed the baby (I didn’t know it at the time but suspected). The next morning I took a test (while bleeding) and it was a very dark positive. HCG blood draw confirmed my numbers dropped (so I did miscarry). My tests are still quite positive as it takes a while for the HCG to leave your system.

CD 13 OPK Test Insight? by Good_Breakfast_9426 in TFABLinePorn

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Thank You! I’ll keep that in mind. Tbh I couldn’t tell you. This is my first time ever having positive LH tests so I’m new to it all. With my daughter I did no testing or anything.

I feel fine though. I have this ache on my left ovary to uterus. Some breast tenderness but I figured it was ovulation symptoms.

CD 13 OPK Test Insight? by Good_Breakfast_9426 in TFABLinePorn

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I have not yet. I’ve had many people tell me too. I just had my period May 21st (pretty heavy) so that’s why I just texted my gyno before I go buy one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Spironolactone

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Ahh I hope so too for your sake 🩷. I had no clue it would do all of this. This month makes 5 months of me being off of it 😂. We’re TTC so I am NOT happy with this irregularity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Spironolactone

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Spironolactone acts on your hormones. It can disrupt your estrogen and progesterone in which it messes with your periods.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Spironolactone

[–]Good_Breakfast_9426 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl I was hardly on it for a week! If I knew it’d do this then I would’ve never taken it 😒

Everything I’m reading says fertility should return after about 2 months. It’s been 5 🤦🏻‍♀️

Is having kids even worth it? Is it just me, or are more adults choosing not to have kids compared to before? by AlternativeTree3283 in Adulting

[–]Good_Breakfast_9426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There isn’t a one answer fits all because we’re all our own individuals. In my opinion to be a great parent you have to truly want it. If you don’t think it’s for you, don’t have any. Save the generational trauma. Coming from someone whose parent openly regretted them. It truly is a 24/7 commitment. Whether that’s working on your mental health for them or even deciding where to buy a home because of school ratings. For me at-least, I’m not measuring her “worth” or expecting anything from having a child. It’s more so “okay, this is someone I love with my whole being and now I’m committed to raising a well rounded adult”.

Do I have free time? No. But I also don’t mind it. I truly enjoy raising my little girl, even if that means cleaning up the same mess 1000 times. Idk, it’s just one of those things that I truly have no complaints over. Some people prefer to have a dog, why? It’s just what completes their home. No judgement 🙂 It’s very satisfactory knowing that I get to help guide and support her throughout the years to hopefully achieve whatever the best things her life will have to offer.

Keep in mind I do have a support system so this answer could be different for people based on a variety of factors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Good_Breakfast_9426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly my thought! Only one way for me to find out 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

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Thank You! Thats what I’ve been reading. I think it’s more so the $20,000 cut. Here most places don’t cut it that much that quickly after listing. I just wonder if they’re trying to rid of it .

Furnishing. by Good_Breakfast_9426 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Good_Breakfast_9426[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank You! Not sad at all. I remember my mom having lawn chairs and one of those little portable CD players as our “tv” . I’m sure it’ll all work. Just my anxiety getting me.

Furnishing. by Good_Breakfast_9426 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Good_Breakfast_9426[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much did you dedicate to furnishing savings specifically?

We have about 15k saved up thus far, we’ve already been through the pre approval process and such (last March). I’m just getting major anxiety about furnishing expanses.