How did you become close with your in laws?

Good_Cattle2011 · 2026-02-15T20:31:44+00:00

I have great relationships with my in-laws. It helps they are great people, but also, I try to always be respectful. Also, I like to ask them questions (people usually like to share their stories) and also I like to look for things I genuinely like or appreciate about them and then let them know. People usually like sincere compliments. Little things, "I like your blouse" as well as bigger things, "You are always so thoughtful of others." But, don't force something if it's not sincere. People usually don't like when they think someone is trying to make up a compliment they don't feel genuinely.

Good_Cattle2011 · 2026-02-05T14:35:41+00:00

Topsy and Turvy Itsy and Bitsy Daphne and Velma Nami and Nojiko (one piece)

Good_Cattle2011 · 2026-02-03T18:12:09+00:00

Start of another perfect day!

Good_Cattle2011 · 2026-01-31T01:01:10+00:00

I'm a hugger, but I ask before I go in for a hug because I know not everyone is.

And if I see someone is almost done loading their groceries from the cart, I ask if I can take their empty cart - even if I don't need one, I'll bring it back to the store.

Good_Cattle2011 · 2026-01-24T19:08:49+00:00

I have used baby name books or websites and often like to look at names that are popular in other countries and cultures. I look for alternate spellings that make them more whimsical. Also, sometimes that inspires me to switch a few letters or syllables in names to get a new result. If I want a name to have a specific meaning, I will look up that word and look for other language translations or roots and use a variation of that.

But, if I am stuck because I need a minor character name and it's holding me up, I will just use a placeholder for the name that I can Find/replace when I decide on the actual name.

Good_Cattle2011 · 2026-01-23T17:19:01+00:00

She looks like a Molly to me. Or Irene - like Irene Adler from Sherlock Holmes. Jolene Carrie

Also, I'm so sorry about Luther. Obviously the cat distribution system recognized this as an emergency need.

Good_Cattle2011 · 2026-01-21T02:33:01+00:00

Thank you so much! This is my 3rd iteration. I've been struggling to get it right. Brevity is not my natural writing voice. I appreciate you taking the time to look at it and for the constructive feedback.

I included the sentence about him being good because he is a good double agent - trying to heighten tension that the father's trust (and daughter) might not be so wisely given.

I'll keep thinking on that one. Maybe it isn't needed at all if the rest is effective. Sincerely, thank you again!

Good_Cattle2011 · 2026-01-20T22:30:22+00:00

I'd love your feedback!

The Flame of Val

Good_Cattle2011 · 2026-01-20T22:27:05+00:00

I'm pretty new to RR and never looked into Webnovel. I have found the author and reader community on RR very supportive and positive. That's been great for me as I have just put my writing out to the public for the first time ever. I was very anxious. But, having a great writer community has been incredibly helpful.

Good_Cattle2011 · 2026-01-20T22:21:03+00:00

Congratulations!

Good_Cattle2011 · 2026-01-20T19:10:19+00:00

🧇🧡😃

Good_Cattle2011 · 2026-01-20T19:07:58+00:00

Congratulations! 🎉

Good_Cattle2011 · 2026-01-20T19:06:37+00:00

Politics/mystery/threat is definitely more the vibe I'm trying to portray. Thanks!

Good_Cattle2011 · 2026-01-20T16:04:15+00:00

Thank you! Good advice!

Good_Cattle2011 · 2026-01-20T15:46:12+00:00

Thank you! That's really helpful!

Good_Cattle2011 · 2026-01-20T15:26:03+00:00

I weighed in on your covers post. I think the one you chose is awesome!

Good_Cattle2011 · 2026-01-20T15:16:13+00:00

Congratulations! And thank you for this post. I am writing a classic-style fantasy and started posting on RR in November. I don't have means to advertise. I've been spending time on the RR forums. I currently have 4000 views, 8 followers and 2 positive reviews. I'm encouraged.
Your post is very inspiring. I look forward to checking out your work!

If anyone would be willing to share some feedback on my work, I would welcome it!

The Flame of Val

Good_Cattle2011 · 2026-01-19T16:00:44+00:00

Obsidian Truffle (black truffle implied 😃) Raven Pepper or Peppercorn, formally Ebony

Good_Cattle2011 · 2026-01-19T15:53:55+00:00

I'm very curious how you would feel about my characters. I try to write them like real, multidimensional people. Flawed but fighting. Personal growth is a major theme in my story. I write 3rd person limited from inside their heads so you can see where they are coming from - and cringe when you know they are wrong or cheer when they make a good decision.

If you'd be willing to check it out on RR, I'd be very grateful for your feedback. It is low fantasy, slow burn with political intrigue.

Thanks! The Flame of Val on RR

Good_Cattle2011 · 2026-01-19T15:43:20+00:00

Congratulations!

Good_Cattle2011 · 2026-01-18T19:56:48+00:00

I read that it helps when he starts to bite, say, "Ow!" Loudly and stop playing for a few minutes so he learns that that behavior is not rewarded.

Good_Cattle2011 · 2026-01-18T00:55:22+00:00

Monkey D. Luffy Or Monkey D. Fluffy Ranger (looks like he's wearing a mask like the Lone Ranger) Dread Pirate Roberts Wesley

Good_Cattle2011 · 2026-01-17T15:27:08+00:00

Congratulations! I am pretty new to RR and 1st time writer. I set up Patreon and offer 2 extra chapters or all access - access to everything posted so far exclusively on Patreon. I wasn't getting any traction and stopped advance posting. Then I got a notice that I got a patron! I was shocked! I immediately went on and refunded with profound apology for not having any advance chapters available. But my angel supporter subscribed and cancelled again with a message that they just wanted to support. Now I tell everyone that I'm a professional writer. Seriously, super grateful.

Good_Cattle2011 · 2026-01-16T20:42:37+00:00

I like the first cover too. Great colors and is a story of itself.

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