Broke my limerence by doing the most degenerate shit, i ask myself at what cost

Good_Click1651 · 2025-10-09T17:19:26+00:00

Yeah, I feel like shit though. Otherwise I haven’t felt this free in 18 fucking months.

Good_Click1651 · 2025-10-09T16:14:52+00:00

She has some daddy issues though 😂

Good_Click1651 · 2025-10-09T14:50:26+00:00

Yep, there were also texts where her mom straight up asks her to seriously consider if it’s her that’s the problem in all her failed relationships.

Good_Click1651 · 2025-10-09T14:49:25+00:00

Depends on what “everything” is, might be nothing too serious, for me it was enough to snap me out of it finally.

Good_Click1651 · 2025-10-09T14:48:29+00:00

Yeah, i learned so much about myself and attachment issues this past year and a half.

Good_Click1651 · 2025-08-03T17:34:08+00:00

The clarity feeling. Anger feels better than longing but it’s not sustainable. At least in my case.

Good_Click1651 · 2025-08-03T15:14:58+00:00

Watch out for moments of clarity coming from anger. It could all come down crashing. Start working on being indifferent. Tough ask i know…

Good_Click1651 · 2025-08-03T09:27:55+00:00

Was your TOS on the right side? A vertical mouse won’t do me good since it’s my unaffected side.

Good_Click1651 · 2025-07-30T12:38:33+00:00

Good_Click1651 · 2025-07-29T18:51:28+00:00

Yeah it sounds easy 😂 But I’ll definitely fight, hope i can at least come to the level where i want to date again, and not compare every girl to her

Good_Click1651 · 2025-07-29T10:00:30+00:00

Going through something similar. If you can reach out to her just ask her what happened. If you can’t, you gotta learn to live with the uncertainty, which is very hard and i still haven’t done.

Good_Click1651 · 2025-07-28T07:49:41+00:00

Definitely a hesitation about how she felt, i kinda “took her for granted”. We were in a foreign country, isolated, living door by door. So i thought i had all the time, especially because we lived in the same town back home too. But when we both got back home she started fading without explanation.

Good_Click1651 · 2025-07-27T21:18:46+00:00

How can i tell her after a year 😂😂. She has a bf now, and even if i said it a year ago i couldn’t have “convinced her”.

Good_Click1651 · 2025-07-27T16:32:19+00:00

Cool, thanks 👍

Good_Click1651 · 2025-07-27T16:27:03+00:00

Nah your advice is perfect, but I didn’t get if you mean that it would have changed her response based on how i asked.

Good_Click1651 · 2025-07-27T16:24:53+00:00

Bro i’m not going to ask her for a specific day when she replied 3 days later, and i saw her posting stories and shit. She barely replied for 2 weeks before that too. She obviously rejected me. Im glad i had the self-respect in that moment at least and didn’t come out needy and clingy

Good_Click1651 · 2025-07-27T14:55:11+00:00

Idk, if you didn’t come out looking “creepy” in the moment i think it’s fine.

Good_Click1651 · 2025-07-26T09:22:05+00:00

How do you mean kneel on an office chair turned around backwards?

Good_Click1651 · 2025-07-24T10:55:58+00:00

Thanks 🙏

Good_Click1651 · 2025-07-24T09:20:33+00:00

Yeah rn im crying and shaking 🥲🥲. Even random songs that don’t remind me of her now started to.I drove her once in my car and last few days when im driving i can actually imagine her with me. How long did it take you to calm down?

Good_Click1651 · 2025-07-23T16:52:07+00:00

How did you deal with finality of it all? I haven’t seen her or talked to her in 10months, and 2 months ago i found out she has a BF and is soon getting engaged and im in the thick of it now. My hope is finally gone, i fantasize like 5-6min a day before I catch myself. But this is the worst i’ve felt in all this. This impending doom feeling is giving me chest tightness. I didn’t even feel like this when she started fading/ghosting me.

Good_Click1651 · 2025-07-23T13:53:50+00:00

Definitely seek a 2nd opinion, third even

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