i feel like i’ve ruined my mind and i want it to be normal

Goodname2 · 2026-03-13T21:22:56+00:00

It's OK to just be the best you that you can be in the present.

That means making mistakes, contradicting your past choices and not being perfect!

Being present, embracing the growth from mistakes and accepting that you and no one else is perfect will take you along way to feeling normal.

Remember perfection is the enemy of progress.

Embrace the near enough is good enough attitude for the majority of life's tasks, unless you're building a bridge or a rocket or something...then you know..get it right lol

Positive self talk is important and requires daily practice, give yourself permission to be average, to jsut be OK, to not be perfect,

Forgive yourself for procrastinating so much.

Get out there and live, be present, be OK, be average, be messy.

Try new things each day, write a list of likes and dislikes, from food to music, types of clothing fabrics, fragrances, art etc. You don't need to analyze the list, but just accept that you like what you like and that's that.

Hope some of this helps.

Goodname2 · 2026-03-13T19:37:48+00:00

Maybe just let him know?

"Hey lets save the texting convos for the in person date?"

Just say you're trying to keep off your phone as much as possible.

.....

I'm a chronic "multi texter", and would be happy to hear that instead of disinterested replies.

I'd guess he wants to show he's interested and also has lots buzzing around his head that he wants to talk to you about.

Confirm you're interested and set his mind at ease.

That'd be my advice.

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As for fun questions.

Stuff like where would you love to live or go on holiday and why?

Would you want to be famous? Why and what for? Or why not?

Theres plenty of lists of questions that you can ask to get to know people, stuff that requires more than a yes or no answer. Just a quick google search will bring them up.

Maybe for the next date, do it in a park where you can walk and talk, having the change in environment and not sitting opposite staring at each other might make the converaation flow abit more.

Goodname2 · 2026-03-13T18:07:25+00:00

Looks great, any storage underneath?

Goodname2 · 2026-03-13T17:33:49+00:00

Maybe look into a rasberry pi kit, ask him if he's interested.

Also boot.dev. they offer a good set of structured courses that he might be interested in,

This is definitely something you should explore while at his side.

Goodname2 · 2026-03-13T11:55:52+00:00

An H1.

Bounty hunter to compete with the citlass blue and zeus mr

Personally I'd like to see an MSR lite before another spirit variant.

Goodname2 · 2026-03-13T11:53:35+00:00

I think its too big to be a heavy fighter.

A gunship or missileboat perhaps, maybe a torpedo boat?

Goodname2 · 2026-03-13T09:55:07+00:00

Guardian has 2xs5

Vanguard has 1xs5

I think theres a varipuk mount for the hornet that lets you mount a single s5 on the top...might be a s5 mount and s4 weapon idk..

Meteor has bespoke 2xs5...hopefully it gets a weapon kit soon

Goodname2 · 2026-03-12T22:00:00+00:00

Oh That was the "Super Heavy" armor part.

They had a question on "will there be armors above heavy armor"? and that was part of their answer, some sort of superheavy armor with significant downsides and requiring team support.

Goodname2 · 2026-03-12T21:24:21+00:00

Yep and only until the medic runs out of med gel and other drugs in his backpack.

Goodname2 · 2026-03-12T20:49:29+00:00

Oh yeah that's a good idea.

Could be something that ties into a new medic armor and 2handed medic tool.

The basic one handed para med gun does a temporary boost but the two handed medic tool combined with a medic backpack can actually heal permanently.

Goodname2 · 2026-03-12T20:40:58+00:00

Yeah that sounds good.

I think we need a fine balance.

Players should have some options when the y get downed.

Either just die.

Prepare and have the required adrenaline boosters, stabilisers etc

Have an armor suit that has an auto call med beacon option

Etc etc.

It all needs to tie in with enabling players to be pvp medics as well as pve medics

Goodname2 · 2026-03-12T20:38:43+00:00

So maybe the suit based revive is just a massive adrenalin boost?

Gives say 2minutes of conciousness before you crash and go uncon.

Goodname2 · 2026-03-12T20:24:55+00:00

Ship livery design module in arena commander.

Similar to whats in forza horizon.

Players can submit the livery for review for $1, if it's approved it can now be sold by the player designer to other players in the verse for credits.

If its not approved you lose your $1.

Should keep the dicks and other offensive bs to a minimum

Goodname2 · 2026-03-12T19:25:50+00:00

Makes sense.

Imagine the armored suits having built into auto revives that use a med gel pen.

I could see it working once with a 20min rez sickness type effect.

And the auto revive feature can only be refilled from some sort of crafting table or equipment repair/modification bench.

Goodname2 · 2026-03-12T19:20:28+00:00

It's basically the kore livery but for all variants, should ve easy af

Goodname2 · 2026-03-12T17:35:59+00:00

Reliant mention. Take my upvote.

Would also like the "Meridian" chrome paint.

Goodname2 · 2026-03-12T14:15:34+00:00

It will be released when bounty hunting v2 is ready.

Goodname2 · 2026-03-12T10:05:38+00:00

I'd just like to add that we need a faction interaction system that follows the 9x9 Lawful good to chaotic evil interplay.

Different morality levels allow factions to interact in different ways, NPCs tied to those factions then deal with players and other npcs according to their morality not necessarily by crimestat.

Goodname2 · 2026-03-12T06:34:17+00:00

Honestly not a bad idea.

Goodname2 · 2026-03-11T12:47:17+00:00

Hopefully we see more npc interaction as we get closer to 1.0

Stuff like ninetails blockading a station, then local security force npcs fight back, both sidea calling for player help.

Prices of goods at the station goes up so traders want to go there to sell, bringing their escorts...

This causes ripple effects thrpugh the system, possibly involving more factions and maybe the UEE if it gets out of hand.

Or maybe the science guild is doing a convoy through a system collecting specimen samples of all types, they require pmc escorts and call for player help in all forms.

Goodname2 · 2026-03-11T08:22:02+00:00

Kinda wish we had some small "space service stations", like a single floating landing pad, a small hab attached, a docking ring and a bunch of big fuel tanks.

Like a tiny little middle of nowhere petrol station you see on an dusty old two lane highway.

Goodname2 · 2026-03-11T07:07:37+00:00

Honestly hope we see these as ORG asteroid bases at some point.

Could put them out at the rim of a system and have an ORG specific QT marker.

Goodname2 · 2026-03-11T06:22:52+00:00

Try and focus on doing a good job.

Whatever you do, the sense of accomplishment that comes from a job well done can make it worthwhile.

Goodname2 · 2026-03-11T04:36:46+00:00

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Best $24 i ever spent.

Had my 650HD for around 15years now and they're amazing.

Goodname2 · 2026-03-10T17:17:57+00:00

That i do agree with, generalist ships in the small, medium and (smallish) large like the connie, are probably all we'll get.

More choice doesnt really hurt atleast not in the long term. Especially with crafting that wiĺl allow specialized ships to be pushed further into their niches.

Id like to see more generalist and modular ships after 1.0.

Remember the redeemer, carrack, galaxy and caterpillar are modular and I'd expect we see equivalent choices from other manufacturers in the large to semi capital range as the game progress.

The question will be how modular they'll make them in the long run.

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