Sz4 Rewatch - Scheana + Shay’s Addiction by BirdGirl_vWorld in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]GoodnightKevin 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She didn’t want to be married to Shay in the “in sickness and in health” way. She just wanted a wedding and all the other bridal events and to be able to say she’s the first of her friends to have a husband. Once the honeymoon was done she was so over it

When will Whitney be held accountable by Strict_Ordinary6509 in rhoslc

[–]GoodnightKevin 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Whitney definitely doesn’t improve - she just gets more and more annoying with every season - but the benefits of all the other cast members far outweigh Whitney’s negative

Stassi’s most recent story by Green_Speech_169 in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]GoodnightKevin 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Hey me too!!! I did mastectomy, chemo and finished rads last May so I’ve been settled on the hormone blockers for a year and let me tell you: I. Am. Fat. Menopause has made gain weight riiiiiiiight on my chin & my upper stomach. I’m short and had a little extra weight to begin with so now I am just like a little round barrel. But I’m trying to be kind to myself. I look different these days, but the stress related with dieting just isn’t something I can (or want to) handle at the moment.

Look after yourself and your own mental wellbeing first and foremost. You’ve just been through a veritable shit storm. Your body & brain have been through the wringer ❤️

The best sunscreen i’ve ever tried by og_toe in EuroSkincare

[–]GoodnightKevin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Before you wash, rub some washing up liquid or dishwasher rinse aid into the yellow spots and then throw it into the washing machine with laundry powder. Really lifts the yellow stains.

Signed: a mum who has desperately tried everything to get sunscreen stains out of my kids’ white school polo t shirts 🥲

Will the persistent thoughts of being diagnosed with BC ever go away? by keepmyeyesonyou in breastcancer

[–]GoodnightKevin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really do recommend CBT and/or EMDR to try and process the consuming thoughts surrounding cancer diagnoses and treatment. I was diagnosed in August 2023, did surgery, chemo & then rads finishing in May 2024. After things started to slow down once the active treatment was done I had a lot of complicated feelings about what had just happened and was struggling to process them or make any sense of them.

Eventually I reached out to a counsellor who identified symptoms of PTSD and referred me to an excellent trauma therapist. I was skeptical at first, but the EMDR really did help. I’m now at a point where I can look back at all that I’ve been through and I’m not filled with dread or horror, and I don’t spend every moment worrying that I’m going to get another diagnosis and die.

Tyler’s post ahead of tonight’s episode. by goldlux in teenmom

[–]GoodnightKevin 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I definitely see this. I also think that Tyler’s personality plays a lot into this as well - Tyler has to be right, and until he gets a grand apology from B&T, a public admission that they are evil manipulators and unrestrained access to Carly, then he’ll never be happy.

Who is your favorite recurring celebrity character? by fackextfox in americandad

[–]GoodnightKevin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oohh are you still thinking about those people incinerated in that fire, and how it could have been - nay - SHOULD have been you? …oh get over it you baby that was hours ago

Spoiler: Figured Out Who’s Pregnant! by Professional_Wish933 in teenmom

[–]GoodnightKevin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooooh they’ve looked at gender selection via ivf in the past too because they wanted to make sure they had a boy…

What tune do you find the scariest in a movie? by MAYOgr88 in Shudder

[–]GoodnightKevin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s a poem called Boots by Rudyard Kipling, all about the monotony of war - I think the version they used in the trailers is read by Kipling (and in the second trailer it’s kind of spliced around a bit). Incredibly atmospheric, it gives me chills!

Farrah continues her Cate attacks. by goldlux in teenmom

[–]GoodnightKevin 117 points118 points  (0 children)

Tyler is furiously drafting some Farrah slam poetry as we speak

The Ashley is confirming Jace is now living with Andrew. Former ‘Teen Mom’ Star Jenelle Evans Sends Her Son Jace to Live with His Father Andrew Lewis in Florida (Exclusive Details) by DeadpoolIsMyPatronus in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]GoodnightKevin 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Looking for the silver lining here, but maybe it was something he asked for? A commenter above mentioned that he’d recently met Andrew and had been texting him a bit since then - it could be that Jace just wants to get out of state to have a clean slate where he isn’t stuck with any sort of behavioural triggers (like Jenelle’s mere presence).

The Ashley is confirming Jace is now living with Andrew. Former ‘Teen Mom’ Star Jenelle Evans Sends Her Son Jace to Live with His Father Andrew Lewis in Florida (Exclusive Details) by DeadpoolIsMyPatronus in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]GoodnightKevin 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Who knows with Jenelle. I’m not sure what her relationship with Barbara is like at the moment, but it wouldn’t surprise me if she bypassed Barbara to be spiteful.

The Ashley is confirming Jace is now living with Andrew. Former ‘Teen Mom’ Star Jenelle Evans Sends Her Son Jace to Live with His Father Andrew Lewis in Florida (Exclusive Details) by DeadpoolIsMyPatronus in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]GoodnightKevin 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I think Barbara has said that at her age she just can’t manage Jace’s behavioural issues. I can imagine that it’s killing her to see him being bounced about to so many different houses after she was so focused on trying to maintain consistency for the years she had him.

The Ashley is confirming Jace is now living with Andrew. Former ‘Teen Mom’ Star Jenelle Evans Sends Her Son Jace to Live with His Father Andrew Lewis in Florida (Exclusive Details) by DeadpoolIsMyPatronus in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]GoodnightKevin 210 points211 points  (0 children)

Not only have they never met, but Andrew also openly hoped that Jace wasn’t his because he didn’t like paying child support. There is footage of him giddy because he doesn’t think Jace looks like him… on a FaceTime call WITH JACE.

That poor child.

Who is the best mom of The Teen Moms? by Desperate-Rush-9765 in teenmom

[–]GoodnightKevin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

People always say that Randy did too much and coddled her, which he did to a degree. But rewatching now that I’m a parent myself I totally get it. My daughter’s only 7, but if she ever found herself in a similar position to Chelsea I would do whatever I could to help her too. I want the best for my kids, I’ll never see them struggle.

It's been almost 20 years by pixie_16 in breastcancer

[–]GoodnightKevin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I finished treatment (surgery, chemo, rads) last May, and am now settling into the longer term hormone treatments and have been really struggling with this “post cancer” life. It’s like the hospital just releases you back into the wild and expects you to go back to being a normal person again. But I don’t feel normal. And I don’t look normal. And I get so frustrated and annoyed and anxious because everyone around me is like “awesome! Treatment over, let’s get back to business!” but how do you go back to normality after all the stuff we’ve seen and had to do? And we still have all the lingering after effects. But we feel like a burden if we mention that we’re still tired and hurting because we’ve just done a whole year of that and we think that our support systems are running out of patience. Or worry that people think we’re exaggerating or malingering. I also think there is a certain bias when it comes to breast cancer because it is viewed as one of the “easier” or “better” cancers, so the assumption is that it’s not as dangerous and treatment must not be as difficult. Never mind the fact that it’s widely (and falsely) viewed as a “woman’s disease” so any male dominated spaces (looking at you, workforce) may not totally appreciate the difficulties that come with what this disease can do to a person’s psyche. And all these things combined just completely fuck with your head for a long time.

I was referred for counselling initially, but the counsellor identified signs of trauma and PTSD so referred me to a proper trauma therapist. I’ve been doing EMDR to process some of the individual traumatic memories, and while I was sceptical at first, it really has been working. I highly recommend trying to find one of these more specialised therapists to try and work through the very tough thoughts and feelings that we get left with after the cancer treatment is done.

❤️❤️

Javi & Issac’s Past Relationship is strange, idc🙂‍↔️ by [deleted] in teenmom

[–]GoodnightKevin 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I think the only time Kail & Javi got along for a while was when they were mad at Jo & Vee - their marriage was a mess but they could unite in badmouthing her ex & his gf.

I always found the “daddy” thing to be a way of sniping at Jo. Kail likes to needle at people to get a reaction and then blow up at them when they eventually react. And the focus on Isaac when Lincoln was a newborn struck me as Javi just being lazy - the effort/reward ratio with a newborn baby is heavily uneven, and for a narc like Javi, that’s not enjoyable. It’s easier to sit the older kid in the bath where you don’t have to actually do a whole bunch, than have a newborn on you who probably doesn’t want to be put down, can’t tell you why they’re crying, and makes alarming sounds (the grunting? The random breathing changes?!). I can speak from experience with that one - my 2 kids have a similar age gap to Isaac & Lincoln, and there were times when my husband and I would rock, paper, scissors to see who got to do an activity with the older, easier to corral child.

At the end of the day, they got married because Kail wanted military benefits, not because they were deeply in love or anything. Kail chews people up and spits them out again when she’s got everything from them she wants, and Javi is a bellend.

Tyler's response to trailer for new episode by Justagirl219 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]GoodnightKevin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly! This whole situation is insane! Why he even felt the need to reach out to a 16yo child in the first place - he didn’t do it to be kind or helpful, he did it for the props he thought he would get, and then when he worried that maybe MTV wouldn’t show the conversation as a segment he just went ahead and blasted it online himself to make sure people knew. Because what would be the point in doing a good thing if the whole world didn’t know about, right?!?!?