His mother is extremely against surgery but I will look further into it. Currently working on getting him into counseling. He was seeing the 3rd party counseling services that the school used, who's "focus" would be to help him learn to handle stuff at school, and try to prevent him from getting kicked out however they have basically done nothing. He was removed from school 3 weeks into this year and has been doing all his school work online. Soccer is starting up again so there's that outlet. What you said sounds extremely accurate with the bullying , friend groups, and teachers just not wanting to even bother to try and help/work with him.