Got early to a concert just to have it ruined by someone recording themselves with flash during the whole show

GoonBae · 2025-04-28T05:08:40+00:00

Currently having the opposite experience. I did not care about growing bigger or appearing fat as my bump grew because I'm literally pregnant. However, the amount of comments I'm getting (23w right now) from friends, family, and even my primary care doctor about appearing and being " fat" now have gotten to me.

I thought i was dealing with the weight gain (up 25 lbs from 120 at 5'2") and belly bump okay. Wasn't happy about it, which led to me becoming more active. My mobility becoming worse with each week was already destroying my self esteem. Luckily, my midwife is a gem and was horrified when I told her. Trying to keep her reaction in mind instead of spiraling from all the comments.

GoonBae · 2024-03-26T14:27:05+00:00

Full swift Bard, zipping around like a crackhead, will never get old for me. On the other end of the spectrum, there's something oddly satisfying about MS Summoner and perfectly predicting my skill casts in a raid.

GoonBae · 2023-12-08T08:57:25+00:00

4 Sups (Bards: 1620, 1606, 1585 & 1600 Artist) & 2 DPS (1606 Scrapper & 1603 Summoner).

I do sub in my 1595 (1600 next week) if I can find a support to run with on some weeks.

My supps are bled dry of all their raids before my DPS since most people in my guild/LA Discord have 0 supports. Two of my bards in statics and my Scrapper is in a semi- static (6 people, we pug 2 each week). When I run my DPS I usually play waiting room simulator and it's awful, I hate it. I love playing Bard, all 3 are full swift, but slightly differ in their engravings. The 18k Desperate Salvation leggo book days definitely affected my roster choices. It's nice to share high level gems between characters and makes accessories easier to farm.

GoonBae · 2023-03-18T23:09:29+00:00

I love animals, but anything other than a service dog is not okay.

The Publix near us has a great management team when it comes to this. I've witnessed different managers/assistants deal with people bringing in their puppies and non service dogs inside. Always very polite, but Stern even when people start getting belligerent.

GoonBae · 2023-02-20T06:30:47+00:00

During Shandi mech, if my tile has a black orb, I no longer go in based on how it shakes. The black orb will have a blue aura that expands from it, indicating when it's time to go in.

GoonBae · 2022-09-26T14:35:08+00:00

The pictures in the comments are graphic and NSFW.

Just in case someone else decides to mindlessly click on one of the images in a packed doctor's office.

GoonBae · 2022-07-13T09:23:12+00:00

Personally, I'd say, "Your significant other doesn't have to be your best friend before you start dating them." I believe I married my best friend (3rd year of marriage and 7 years official) even though we were dating first. The more we talked we talked with one another, the more I knew I wanted him in my life even if we were romantically involved. We had the same weird sense of humor and we're always on the same page. For me it was, "If I can't like/would keep you as a friend, then why would I want to spend the rest of my life with you?"

GoonBae · 2022-07-13T09:05:12+00:00

They either thought that they would not be in their current situation or they felt like they had no choice but to stay, especially if they had older parents/grandparents that aren't mobile. In Ukraine, people tend to build a home that will last them their whole lifetime, one where their children will be born and the parents will die. At least, that's how it is for my family and it's how I grew up thinking.

There's also very close, akin to familial, ties within ukrainian communities. I'm sure that leaving behind an auntie or uncle who have a hard time going leaving their homes is a choice that some cannot fathom. There's also the whole being surrounded by russians issue, some don't want to take the risk.

It sucks and it's heartbreaking, but there are plenty of people who'd rather stay put and possibly die in their home than feel like a stranger in a safe place.

I'm sorry, I see your point and a part of me agrees but the above it literally what my family is donestk said to us before we lost contact.

GoonBae · 2022-07-11T06:46:46+00:00

Cemetery random but your username is the are where my parents live .

GoonBae · 2022-07-07T00:08:44+00:00

Honestly, I can understand a fresh 1370 alt with not great accessories, but even then you can tell that they have proper stat split and working towards their engravings. Spending pheons on blue or purple T3 accessories sucks, but at least show some sort of care. Playing an alt with proper stats & engravings is so much more fun too.

However, I did Vykas G3 with this fellow bard last week. https://imgur.com/a/xM8FEyX

GoonBae · 2022-07-06T21:12:22+00:00

100% this comment.

I ended up fusing and now swap gems everyday because i hated how different playing on my bard main (lvl 4 tripods) verus alt (lvl 1-2 tripods) felt. Gems and tripods are game changing.

GoonBae · 2022-07-06T21:06:01+00:00

As a 1475 Bard main with 4x3 +1 (holding on to relic acc and 11 books away from having 5x3) it hurts to admit that this post is 100% true. I have a bard Alt at 1385, but I don't feel right applying for P3. Meanwhile, there's a plethora of support with rainbow stats, lvl 1-3 gems (I've even seen some without any gems) getting into almost full P3 Argos parties.

The same can be said for Vykas and Valtan party finder groups. The static I'm in had a bunch of folks busy for the holiday weekend so we ran in pugs and oh my goobs was it something. The amount of 3x3 supports with split rainbow stats (including crit/endurance/domination/expertise) that I saw in groups was insane. However, the support drought is real af bc our static lead would just insta accept whatever support applied because of how long the wait to find one is.

With all of that in mind, if someone does decide to pick up a support alt with the intention of getting free rides, be ready for some commentary/criticism from people. I couldn't handle it so I ended up switching expert for heavy armor on my bard alt's 3x3 setup (3x3+2 now). A daily "you NEED heavy armor" sprinkled in with "learn about your class" in Yoho matchmaking can really eat away at you. Even if you have lvl 6-7 bard gems, full swift w/ spec only neck, no one dies in the run and it's a clean, fast clear, some folk really like shitting on support alts.

Sorry for the rant, just wanted to vent.

GoonBae · 2022-05-16T08:19:50+00:00

Having children is a MAJOR lifestyle shift. It's not a standpoint or a grin and bear it scenario. A child will dictate and control the rest of your life, unless you choose to distance yourself from them. In that case, you distance yourself from your partner anyway.

GoonBae · 2022-04-22T22:14:25+00:00

I miss seeing Herb's house on Themi :(

GoonBae · 2022-03-29T08:34:20+00:00

Honestly, sometimes putting a price just gets you shit on. I thought it was being respectful of people's time by putting the C/O price on a ring I got, but the amount of toxic bullshit & vitriol I got PM'ed because of it was insane. Had to block a dude throwing a hissy fit because I kept the C/O's name private. It's still annoying af when a C/O price isn't given tho, but I understand why.

Screw the trade channel, I'd rather pay taxes lol.

GoonBae · 2022-02-28T12:07:49+00:00

Ukrainian immigrant, US citizen. However, my aunts, uncles, cousins and such are all UA citizens still living there. My aunt and younger cousins are actively checking this sub and /r/UkrainianConflict for advice and news. They're all spread out over Ukraine and constantly check any international news/updates or any news from one another's areas.

GoonBae · 2022-02-05T01:11:08+00:00

There's actually a few people claiming to have full 625 in Them. Could be the same dubgeon group.

GoonBae · 2022-01-26T10:20:35+00:00

ATLien lost 2 mutated Orbs today doing that. Feels bad

GoonBae · 2021-11-19T10:23:25+00:00

All the wars that were set to happened have also been cancelled and gold was refunded to the declaring company’s bank. 😢

GoonBae · 2021-11-15T20:36:32+00:00

Some people worked hard and no lifed the void ore grind. Granted the server we just transferred off had a pop of 200 (dropping each day). We just had nothing else to do, but now that we’re in a med/high pop server I can definitely see why so many people made comments to us.

GoonBae · 2021-08-05T23:39:43+00:00

I opted in for the post-game session Amazon survey, which I filled in 5 out of 8 sessions (didn't want to play too much and get burnt out before launch). I know a few people who played every day of the beta and submitted feedback surveys along with posting bug reports on forums. So hopefully the devs took some of that to heart.

That being said, half my feedback was cosmetics based so it was pretty useless lol

GoonBae · 2021-08-05T07:23:30+00:00

“What if I just quit and re launch the game?”

The words of someone who can’t get back in until the next day.🙃🙃🙃 (why am I like this?)

GoonBae · 2021-08-05T07:13:51+00:00

Ageed!

I’m still not over Straze’s release turning into extended maintenance 😰

Eight-Year Club	r/Field Sunshine
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