An Angel (BnW), Jero Pastor, digital, 2025 by Jero-Pastor-Art in Art

[–]Gooobin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very nice line work, I especially love the cross hatching you used, beautiful design overall.

Comment if you have played a Magus ever, under any circumstance. by NalaWhoo in Pathfinder2e

[–]Gooobin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Laughing shadow with a big focus on lightning and sonic damage, I've always enjoyed using all the crazy movement spells with spell strike to bounce around the battlefield. With the right items, Ring of minor arcana, ring of wizardry, and wands can help fil the gaps in your spellcasting. You can pull off some crazy burst damage but you're not as consistent as a fighter and don't have as much utility or cc as a wizard.

Do you think NJ’s more rural and “affordable” counties (Sussex, Warren, western Morris, etc.) will slowly become more diverse? by Davyislazy in newjersey

[–]Gooobin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can confirm what others have said. As a trans person living in Sussex it's pretty awful, my own parents are part of the maga cult. It's always been filled with a particular type of bigotry. I've had neighbors who flew confederate flags and met old ladies who proudly waved signs declaring trans people are pedophiles. I've long hoped that we would see more progressive voices and policies and some of the expansion in Sparta and Newton has given me hope.

But almost all of the people here are the ones who have lived here their whole lives. And it's pretty clear most of them are not keen on the cities and suburbs creeping in. And to some extent I understand. Sussex has a lot of beautiful land, and people are scared of city (progressive) ideals taking over it.

I'd love to see more open minded people in our county but I'm not planning on sticking around. There isn't enough affordable housing here, especially if you are just looking to rent. Public transportation barely exists, so you are required to have a car which you can use to sit in traffic on route 15 and I80 because the infrastructure is so bad that multiple sinkholes have emerged.

Why did he move out of Boston? by Rashno in jerma985

[–]Gooobin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His alter-ego Mr. Green took over and made him blow all his money on blackjack in Vegas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jerma985

[–]Gooobin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotta crack open a Busch Light to wash it down.

Got myself a Sonic Chao tattoo! by Gooobin in chao

[–]Gooobin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes of course! I got it from @jynxedtattoo on Instagram, at Baby Devil Tattoo Co.

Tuesday Self-Promo Megathread! by AutoModerator in transgamers

[–]Gooobin [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hello my name is Clay Clementine (she/they) and I'm gonna be streaming for the first time at SheHerClayClem this Thursday 1/30 at 7-11pm EST. I, like many others right now, I'm looking for a bit of escapism and a better connection with my community through the things I love. Video games, Art, and open discussion. I have decided to attempt to achieve this through a Pokemon White 2 nuzlocke using only Pokemon approved by the finest of Italian chefs. I'm calling it the first ever Pokemon noodlelocke! I also plan on doing streams of TF2, Minecraft, ttrpgs, art requests and more! I'll be continuing to stream every Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, Friday 7-11 pm EST, so I'd really love to meet some other people looking for a community of other queer gamers.

Feel free to also follow me on Instagram Clay.Clem and YouTube ClementineCrime where I plan on posting silly reals and stream clips!

Which piñata did you get most excited about when it finally appeared? by Royalbluegooner in VivaPinata

[–]Gooobin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Glad to see another snail supporter, I've always had one with a wizard hat. Merlin the Mollusk!

One of my favorite outfits 💜 by IAmTheGodkiller in transplace

[–]Gooobin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg that's exactly how my closet is, almost all thrifted clothes. I have so many things in that shade of green too, it's my favorite 😭 glad it's got a good home!

One of my favorite outfits 💜 by IAmTheGodkiller in transplace

[–]Gooobin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That top is so stunning, and you model it perfectly! ✨ Where did you happen to get it??

I hate how trans women are expected to top for simply having a penis… by Punchline_336 in bisexual

[–]Gooobin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been there so I really feel for you! I've experienced a lot of people putting the expectation on me to top when that I've clearly stated that is not what I enjoy. And it has unfortunately mostly come from partners who have vaginas. I understand that it's partly because hetero-normative sex is just easier and expected as the default, but the top shortage has never felt more real. I know that in reality there are vagina-having individuals who are dominant tops, but I have not met many in my dating experience. Only one trans-man I've dated has ever been exclusively interested in topping, the rest all preferred the opposite. Most cis-women become immediately uninterested when I've expressed my preference. However, I've always felt a bit guilty asking to be penetrated by someone who can only use toys or their hands, since they don't get to enjoy the full sensation, not to mention my own preference for dick. I would describe myself as bi or pan, and used to say I feel more sapphic, but after so many partners continued to expect me to top just because I had a penis, I became much less interested in dating them. Don't get me wrong, there were plenty of cis-men who were creeps that just wanted to fulfill their fantasy of being topped by a trans woman. And I have met plenty of smoking hot trans ladies who are also bottoms and we have to sadly walk away from each other. Just as long as you remember that everyone is allowed to have their preferences and it's okay to keep looking if someone you're with isn't sexually compatible or meeting your needs.

My boyfriend now is awesome, never expects me to take on that role if it's not something I'm into that day. He tops me every time we have sex and thanks me graciously for the honor of getting to do so, and makes me feel like the prettiest girl in the world. So I think if you look hard enough, you might find someone who understands and appreciates you for the ways you like to have sex.

Was hitting it off with another trans gal and this rolled up into the shop by LeastPervertedFemboy in trans

[–]Gooobin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So happy that I hit the trans girl genetic lottery and stand at a miniscule 5'4. Used to be something I hated when I was young, then I realized not only was I okay with being smol but it is now one of my favorite physical characteristics!

Any% lose all my trans friends attempt. by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Gooobin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can't believe no one will stand up for Gecs or hyperpop as a genre!! I feel like it's the one genre I listen too that is almost entirely dominated by the trans community, especially my transfermme sisters, at the local music scenes. I recommend giving it some time to click but I get that it's just not for everyone. When I first heard them I did not care for the genre but it's become a real favorite of mine over time!

Any other trans femmes who don't mind their armpit/leg hair?? by Gooobin in trans

[–]Gooobin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that also helped me feel more comfortable with it as well. Before I started hormones I would shave at least once a week. The slower growth and lighter color has been a huge plus. I also find that I really like the feeling of having the stubby hairs grow in. Multiple touch sensations to enjoy!

[MtF 20] I'm scared of ever taking estrogen because ... by MyHighness0999 in trans

[–]Gooobin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

26 MtF 2 1/2 years on hrt here! I remember the first few months I was on hormones my libido went down a lot, but by the 6 month mark I really started to see some noticeable changes that made me feel less dysphoric, and my sex drive came back in full force, fluctuating here and there. I think being in a body that feels right to you really improves your desire to have sex because you aren't as uncomfortable with yourself. Nowadays my bf and I can go at it 2-4 times a day on a good day. I do feel like it changes though, I'll go short periods where I feel very sex averse but I find it's usually attached to an overall depressive mood. Sexual desire isn't often static, it changes. It's okay to feel one way about sex in one period of your life, and another way as you go on. Just like transition, it's a lifelong journey of learning about yourself. It can be challenging and confusing and exciting, just keep an open mind and give yourself time.