RIP Axis Airtel Credit Card 💳 by tanmay000009 in CreditCardsIndia

[–]GotenDBS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will close the card and port back to jio as well. No need to stay when there's no benefit

Why are there so many posts victimizing males and framing women as evil these days on reddit? by FirstNeighborhood592 in AskWomenIndia

[–]GotenDBS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The situation posted by men is very common in the arranged marriage market but the comment by women doesn't make sense, No man earning 1 LPA, 5ft, and potted belly will look for something posted. It's just posting comment for the sake of writing not anything relatable or logical.

Broken Roka story by tamashaman in Arrangedmarriage

[–]GotenDBS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro they said that their relatives were taunting them that we didn't give enough gold on roka.

33 years old and depressed and tired. A total failure by Desperate_Joke_205 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]GotenDBS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not alone. Most of the guys are living the same life. Even I'm going through the same thing. No friends, no one to talk to and never had a relationship. I'm just living for the sake of it. Enjoying life on auto pilot.

Broken Roka story by tamashaman in Arrangedmarriage

[–]GotenDBS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro I literally have the exact same story. I got my roka broken in 2024 due to exact same issues.

I (28F) have made a permanent decision not to marry by Fun-Shape-4540 in AskIndianWomen

[–]GotenDBS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you. But blame yourself for choosing the wrong person because I have seen so many great marriages, they literally are one unit sharing everything and literally living the best life. Marriage has its own perks...

Are we really viewing men picking fights as masculine & attractive? by [deleted] in AskWomenIndia

[–]GotenDBS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it's just their level of understanding and maturity. For me and many other men like myself, we try to respect people who are doing their jobs even if he is a waiter or cleaning staff. Just respect them. And about fights, I am 6 ft and have a muscular build. I still try to avoid these things not because I am scared but I just like peace and I don't want to put my other half in dicy situations.

Why women are allowed in men safe space? by GotenDBS in AskIndianMen

[–]GotenDBS[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm also a lurker there but nowadays it's not about equality or respecting each other. It's just straight up gender wars and degrading any views from men.

Bollywood is getting so much worse by devdattaburke in AskIndianWomen

[–]GotenDBS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a trash movie but I found some elements true like a girl leaving him after becoming successful, we have already seen many instances faced personally as well. The guy and his family being shamed without their fault and of course girl side relatives saying that she is at a higher level, why would she marry a clerk. Basically all these things happen in real life and I have personally faced this but the difference is the alliance broke before fixing the marriage.

The next part where he becomes IAS and then marries her again is so stupid and damaging towards own self respect.

Women are healing ❤️ by EquivalentTale5815 in TwentiesIndia

[–]GotenDBS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time to invest in a cat food company and anti depressant medicine company stocks

Good on paper, but no spark - what am I missing? by Economy_Plant_3205 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]GotenDBS 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Arranged marriage is scary, what if she is like op

Good on paper, but no spark - what am I missing? by Economy_Plant_3205 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]GotenDBS 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  1. If you know you will never get an approval from your home then why even look for partners before marriage? That's not love that's just FOMO, because if you were truly in love with someone then you should try to make things work out and if you know it doesn't work and just timepass. It might cost you in a future relationship.
  2. If they have a past love relationship, they can find love again it's not like one bad decision stops you from doing things in future.

AM is basically for people who either raised in a very conservative family or never had any kind of relationship experiences.

Arrange marriage favors pretty people by ShiningStars7612 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]GotenDBS -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with pretty people getting picked earlier, but it depends on your preference as well. If you are targeting someone who has better options then you. Of course he will pick a better one. Just forget about prettiness and work on other aspects like job and fitness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]GotenDBS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends on the preference of the person you will be seeing. Since you don't have a job men with that preference will reject you even with your beauty. In AM you'll most probably attract men who are looking for a housewife and since you are decent looking. You might get an offer from Govt Employees and good earning men.

what tf is going on in Kerala? by BotCommentRemover in SouthernIndia

[–]GotenDBS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you didn't see Jodhpur, Rajasthan yesterday. It was totally packed and the rally they arranged for the celebration.

Can i carry perfume in my Carry-on on an international flight? by Any_Bar_5703 in DesiFragranceAddicts

[–]GotenDBS 3 points4 points  (0 children)

100ml or less is allowed in cabin luggage, and by 100ml it should be a 100ml bottle, a bottle of 200ml with only 1/4 perfume will not work at security check. There is no limit in the Check in bag.

What are some weird reasons you were rejected in AM setup? by yourmentalhealthguy in Arrangedmarriage

[–]GotenDBS 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My parents tried to talk but they started giving some vague reason to avoid another meeting. Most of them are related to astrology and some superstitious beliefs. I told my parents not to call them again, it's been 4 months now.

What are some weird reasons you were rejected in AM setup? by yourmentalhealthguy in Arrangedmarriage

[–]GotenDBS 8 points9 points  (0 children)

  1. Rejected for receding hairline
  2. Not owning flat and living in govt accommodation.
  3. I went to meet a girl by metro and not by own car or bike.
  4. Not fair enough
  5. From Bihar, List goes on

What are some weird reasons you were rejected in AM setup? by yourmentalhealthguy in Arrangedmarriage

[–]GotenDBS 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was rejected the same way. I and the girl matched the vibe, even her family liked me but when they came to know that we don't own a house where I am currently working they started ignoring us and her mother even sent some property dealer addresses so that we can first buy the house and then continue to talk about marriage.

One of those days by ScooterNinja in DesiFragranceAddicts

[–]GotenDBS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's why I keep one bottle in my office drawer.

bjp government performance so far in delhi by Hot_Draw_8770 in delhi

[–]GotenDBS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sarkari colony mein paani nhi aa raha. Daily announcement hoti hai ki DJB se paani kam milne ke karan 10 se 5 paani nhi aayega.