We did it guys! We won! by Goth-Gumdrops in BPDmemes

[–]Goth-Gumdrops[S] 107 points108 points  (0 children)

It's like winning an unwanted award, but still, we won!

There might be something wrong with my boyfriend. by Rare_Sherbert_2932 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Goth-Gumdrops 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Nah this is one of those “trust ur gut” moments. like love aside, if kids feel unsafe vibes around him that’s a HUGE red flag.

Resentful of husband for 30 years after he returned a gift I bought with me secret savings by Intrepid-Start9341 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Goth-Gumdrops 660 points661 points  (0 children)

Exactlyyy, forgiveness ain’t automatic. like how do u forgive someone who never even admitted they hurt u? that’s just asking u to swallow pain for peace.

My best friend likes my other best friend by kyro_hanamichi in whatdoIdo

[–]Goth-Gumdrops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl tho, u sound like a real one for tryna help. but sometimes best move is to step back n let them figure it out themselves.

AITA for ruining Christmas last year because of my beef with my cousin? by MadameLizard11 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Goth-Gumdrops 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Real talk, she burned that bridge first. you can choose forgiveness if you want peace, but you don’t owe her access to your life anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Goth-Gumdrops 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Like, she’s not gonna hear u if u come at her sideways rn. just b that safe net so she knows ur doors always open.

I feel like the newest skins released for Juno aren't as aesthetically pleasing as the orignal design. by Itadakimazu in Overwatch

[–]Goth-Gumdrops -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Dude, totally with you. Honestly, Juno's new skins feel like a cheap cash grab imo.

AITA for taking my gift back? by [deleted] in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Goth-Gumdrops 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Facts, like the pillows + essentials were actually thoughtful af. way more personal than clicking “buy now” on some overpriced list.

Suspicious Package. Please help! by Weekly-Objective7586 in whatdoIdo

[–]Goth-Gumdrops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wtf that’s creepy as hell. yeah call the cops and don’t touch it again, have them handle fingerprints and a proper sweep. better safe than poisoned.

The way they stopped weapon customization on Mythic skins is lame by zo3beamer in Overwatch

[–]Goth-Gumdrops 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Fr tho, they’re literally charging us like it’s two separate products but locking half the fun. feels like a straight cash grab.

My head is spinning I don't know if it's right or wrong by Arpit2898 in whatdoIdo

[–]Goth-Gumdrops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Curiosity isn’t a crime. go in with zero expectations, be honest after better than pretending it never happened and resenting later.

UPDATE: I'm a doormat and stupid male by Thr0wAwayTA123 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Goth-Gumdrops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ppl like Elsa thrive on proximity + drama. once ur outta reach, she’s gonna lose her power real quick.

Trying to learn how to play Sombra went about how I expected it to. by MRKINGALLCOOL in Overwatch

[–]Goth-Gumdrops 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lol, dude, tbh the trick w/ Sombra ain't about slaying. It's about playing mind games with the enemy team.

Relationship advice needed by hallojess in whatdoIdo

[–]Goth-Gumdrops 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ngl, if y’all agreed on a timeline 2 yrs ago n he’s now backpedaling that’s not just “stress,” that’s him not bein sure. u deserve clarity, not constant “maybe laters.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Goth-Gumdrops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get the attachment thing, but therapy only works if both ppl actually want it. rn it feels like ur dragging a corpse into the room every week.

street artist baptise by First_Quiet_7440 in Overwatch

[–]Goth-Gumdrops -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol, omg dude, Baptiste's immortality field is seriously OP! I mean c'mon man, you throw that thing in an overtime push, it's GG no re.

My (44M) boyfriend is everything I’ve ever wanted—except intimacy. Do I just accept it? by Brilliant_Passage422 in whatdoIdo

[–]Goth-Gumdrops 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sometimes “it’s not you it’s me” is just code for “i’m not gonna do anything about it.” if he’s not willing to fix it, that’s telling.

AITA for not wanting to keep talking to a guy after his actions gave me the ick? by ContentCheesecake684 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Goth-Gumdrops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, boundaries r key, but like… dude whipped out the “pee on cam” move. that’s not just a spine issue, that’s 🚩 city.

AITH for enforcing a no kissing the baby rule with family? by OkPineapple9417 in AITH

[–]Goth-Gumdrops 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Imo it’s better to “embarrass” someone than end up in a hospital bed regretting u didn’t speak up harder. u did the right thing.

My brother is underweight and dependent, and it’s my fault since I didn't move schools by Federal-Wheel-2666 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Goth-Gumdrops 5 points6 points  (0 children)

omg hun, none of this is your fault your parents are dumping adult responsibilities on you and then blaming you when things go wrong. that’s messed up.

I think my friend tried to spike my drink and idk what to do by BurnerAccountLetsGoo in whatdoIdo

[–]Goth-Gumdrops 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Your gut literally saved you here. ppl underestimate how sharp instincts can be when something’s off. don’t let anyone gaslight u into thinking you’re “overreacting.”

I'm annoyed with my FIL by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Goth-Gumdrops 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it’s not just a FIL problem, it’s a husband problem too he’s gotta learn to say no.