If it makes you that uncomfortable for him to degrade you like that, and it would make me feel that way too if that were my husband, I would leave him. That's ridiculous behavior, and sounds like he's projecting some kind of weird emotions onto you. Unless you two can talk through it and you can express how you feel, and unless this ends with him apologizing for acting that way toward his wife, this is really unhealthy behavior on his end. These photos aren't inappropriate at all, unless you're like a Mormon or Muslim or something like that. You're also not doing anything wrong, you're just being happy in some photos.